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WJ49

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Obviously very bad behaviour, but the article gives absolutely no evidence that this is any sort of "new sex trend".

It just two or three anecdotal accounts from people its happened to, and for all the article says, this kind of behaviour may way down compared to decades past.

That doesn't excuse the behaviour, of course, but "some guys don't like wearing condoms and are selfish enough to lie to get out of using them" is probably something that's been true as long as we've had condoms.
 

hoorawr

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Is it still stealthing if the condom breaks and you play dumb and keep going?
 

kherg007

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Is it still stealthing if the condom breaks and you play dumb and keep going?
Yep it is, as you've made a unilateral decision to up the risk factors - thus removed the lady from the decision making. Such clients should be blacklisted. One SP I like told me that the public might be better served to have lists of clients who ask for BBFS rather than lists of ladies who offer BBFS.
 

Butler1000

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Does it apply the other way too. If they say purposely damage a condom to get pregnant.......
 

kherg007

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SchlongConery

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I was listening to some Toronto radio show in the past week and this "stealthing" thing came up. Apparently there are forums like those dickwad "sargers" have where they brag to fellow douchebags about this and justify it etc.

To me, it is a sexual assault.
 

frankcastle

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When I hear of new terms like this I always wonder how much truth there is to it.

I mean do people really do Eiffel towers, Abe Lincolns, Peter Parkers, Supermans, Cleaveland Steamers, Glass bottom boats..... if you don't know what these are don't urban dictionary them.
 

oakvilleguy

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When I hear of new terms like this I always wonder how much truth there is to it.

I mean do people really do Eiffel towers, Abe Lincolns, Peter Parkers, Supermans, Cleaveland Steamers, Glass bottom boats..... if you don't know what these are don't urban dictionary them.
Damn, I must live in the stone age or it's just my age...never heard of any of these terms
 

jckyoung

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I am getting old never heard the term. A condom broke on me 3 years ago and I took my self out of play for 6 months. The SP I was with knew me well. We both got tested and showed each other the results. Why would any one risk this.
 

GameBoy27

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I'm surprised frank. As an SP we know there are many guys who try to pull this on us, so it's not a stretch that there's even more who do it to civilians. More men don't pay for sex, than do.
I haven't heard of the term before but I have a friend who's a doctor. He tells me it's common complaint from SPs wanting to get screened for STIs after this has happened to them. So I'm sure it happens all the time in the civie world. You've got to be a sick individual and the world's biggest d-bag to pull that kind of shit.

That said, in all my years of having sex with civies, I can't believe how many times women wanted to have sex without a condom. This lead to no sex with several of them. I've never have unprotected sex with a partner until we both got tested. It's just not worth the risk.
 

LisbethNova

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I haven't heard of the term before but I have a friend who's a doctor. He tells me it's common complaint from SPs wanting to get screened for STIs after this has happened to them. So I'm sure it happens all the time in the civie world. You've got to be a sick individual and the world's biggest d-bag to pull that kind of shit.

That said, in all my years of having sex with civies, I can't believe how many times women wanted to have sex without a condom. This lead to no sex with several of them. I've never have unprotected sex with a partner until we both got tested. It's just not worth the risk.
You are a smart man. And you are right. Civvy women often don't want to use condoms. I have a brother who 'gets around' quite a lot and he told me majority don't want to. As for myself, it's only happened a few times where a guy was trying to get away with no condom or trying to "pussy slide" and they quickly learn that even attempting something like that with me will make my mood and demeanor do a 180 and as someone in this business, escorts don't take this sort of behavior lightly. When I was young and way before my time in this, I didn't know how to set my boundaries with guys and I often was more susceptible to giving into pressure. Now... oh hellllll no! I will break dicks and balls!
 

JunoxGrey

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This is a new term for a reoccurring problem, previously I heard SP's calling these men "snappers" as instead of taking the condom off they would pinch it causing it to snap. Not only causing the risk of STIs and pregnancy but just think about the infections that could be caused by a stray piece of latex becoming jammed somewhere unknowingly. Disgusting.
 

IM469

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I am getting old never heard the term. A condom broke on me 3 years ago...
I'm a big boy and it's happen to me twice while hobbying. I noticed and didn't cum both times (I have new daddy issues that scare me as much as an STD). I've almost lost the condom just recently with one SP pumping so hard and fast, I had to stop and check it was still on. For the record - many customers are not shitheads and worry as much as the SP's nothing happens with the condom.
 

JunoxGrey

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I'm a big boy and it's happen to me twice while hobbying. I noticed and didn't cum both times (I have new daddy issues that scare me as much as an STD). I've almost lost the condom just recently with one SP pumping so hard and fast, I had to stop and check it was still on. For the record - many customers are not shitheads and worry as much as the SP's nothing happens with the condom.

I feel this is 100x prevalent in the civilian group mostly under the age of 30. The amount of unprotected sex that's happens in this age group is probably over 60% and I can see that if a girl insisted (especially in a shitty small town I'm from) an idiot would try this. I feel like a client relationship would be more than aware of the reprocussions
 

spraggamuffin

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Stealthing sounds more like a peeping tom in the bushes terminology.
 
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