SPs Who Arrive Early

travel'nman

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There have often been discussions about service providers (and hobbyists) who arrive late or not at all. However, I do not remember any discussions about escorts who arrive early.
The last three times that I have seen an escort on an outcall basis, they have arrived anywhere from 15 to 30 minutes earlier than agreed. Each of these times it has not been a real problem for me, but I can imagine a senario when it could.
As I have noted in previous posts, I only hobby when I am out of town on business. Therefore, all my outcall visits are in hotels. However, I also always carry extensive work to do in the room (I travel with a laptop). However, when I see an escort in my room, I always want to put away my work. If the service provider arrives before I am ready, I really have a problem, but I certainly am not going to keep a lady standing in the hallway - very unclassy and risks both her discretion and my discretion.
Two other problems, one of which is that I like to schedule the appointment and then get ready. This usually (98% of the time) taking a shower, shaving, brushing the teeth and changing clothes plus getting a soft drink for us. All this takes time and if the escort arrives early I am afraid that I might not be ready.
My final probelm is that I talk on the telephone with my wife every night when I travel. I try and schedule the appointments around the times I talk with her. I would not want a knock on the door while I was talking to her. I try to avoid the old Hank the Duece (Henry Ford II) situation of "never complain, never explain" and I do not want any explaining to my wife.
A side note to those who might say I am hiding something from my wife; we have been married 27+ years but my wife decided 2+ years ago that sex in any form was not necessary. However, I do not want to hurt her and what I do will only hurt her if she finds out - and I do not want her to find out.

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sara@select

Travel'n man- while you shouldn't have to ask, I would try requesting that if they are going to be say more than 5 minutes early or later than agreed upon that they pleae inform you prior to arrival. This should eliminate any cause for concern.
I should mention though that you shouldn't really have to ask for this in cases of 15 and 20 mins....they should certainly try asking permission first.

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DonBusch

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While I'm not married, I always make extra time allowances. For example if the appointment is from 9-11, I'll prepare for it like the appointment is going to be fr. 8.30-11.30. Given that we're already spending quite a fair bit of money and effort on the date, an extra hour doesn't seem unreasonable to ensure that things don't go wrong.
 

Maryln

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Arriving early

Personally, I hate to be late so it is quite oftain that I arrive early. If the roads are bad or the hotel is out of town, I oftain leave in plenty of time to battle the weather and/or find the hotel. When arriving more that a few minutes early, I always call the room and ask if I can come up or should I wait . this is just common sense and polite just as calling when you are running late is.
 

syn

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common sense

i agree 100%. it is just common sense to call ahead if you are more than five minutes early ...

there are hotel phones in the lobby that one can use discreetly to check if the client is ready ...

geesh ... if you arrive early the poor guy probably has not had enough time to brush teeth, rinse with mouthwash and put on clean underwear!

syn
 

anon1

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travel'nman said:
we have been married 27+ years but my wife decided 2+ years ago that sex in any form was not necessary.

Damn, I'm not alone in this world.
Thx guy, you've justified my insanity.
 

syn

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Re: Re: SPs Who Arrive Early

anon1 said:
Damn, I'm not alone in this world.
Thx guy, you've justified my insanity.
it's probably poor consolation ... but i would imagine that the majority of my clientele fell into the same category ... wife chose to no longer partake in sexual festivities ... leaving the husband to resort to other options to stay sane ...

after all ... what are the options ... deny your own needs entirely or force someone to engage in sex against their true wishes ...? then again, if it was this simple, dr. phil would not be so popular!

syn
 
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drlove

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I was in a situation last fall where I had an hour in between appointments, or so I thought. One lady arrived a bit late, so the appointment went over the scheduled time. Then, the lady I was to see right after her arrived early, while we were still in the throes of passion.

Both ladies had valid reasons for arriving when they did, but in the future I will try to allot more time in between appointments to be on the safe side.
 

drlove

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Re: Then What happened Dr.

comeoniwanttogo said:
Did you invite the 2nd one in?.... Then what happened ... sitting on the edge of my seat!
ROTF

Well, before the second lady even arrived, round two was interupted by housekeeping. I was thinking "WTF!!??? Why is housekeeping knocking on my door at 6:30PM?? Anyhow, I yelled as politely as I could for them to come back later, as I was preoccupied...

Then back to business... no sooner had we started again than someone was at my door once more. This time, it turned out to be the lady I was scheduled to see at 7PM. I've known her for years, so we're kind of like old friends. I was a bit stressed out by this point, but I just explained the situation to her, and asked if she wouldn't mind coming back in 10 minutes. No problems there.

Good. Now, off to finish the deed.... no such luck. The phone rings, and it's the agency. Time for my lady friend to depart.

What can I say?? I tried!! At least there's a happy ending, as the situation was more than made up for the next time I saw her. :)
 

drlove

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Goober Mcfly said:
WTF? Three separate SP's in one day?

*envious of drlove's stamina*
Actually, I saw four that day. I would have loved nothing more than to keep going, but there's only so many hours in a day, and I need time to recouperate in between appointments. I'm not what I used to be!
 

drlove

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Re: Housekeeping - yeah - right

comeoniwanttogo said:




Wasn't the housekeeper thing in your "Your favorite roles" post? .... or Maybe it was mine?
No. Mine was the Airline Stewardess and the Female Business Executive. Hmmm.... but now that you mention it... :)
 

Goober Mcfly

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drlove said:
Actually, I saw four that day.
*curls up in fetal position, sucks thumb, cries for mommy, complains about drlove being a bad, bad man*
 

drlove

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Goober Mcfly said:


*curls up in fetal position, sucks thumb, cries for mommy, complains about drlove being a bad, bad man*
LOL... I will admit though, there was not a lot of action during the fourth appointment, mainly due to the fact that my Love Gun was practically out of ammo. However, I had a good time nonetheless.
 

i_am_good

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hhhmm?!

Now I know why you're DrLove (or should we say "The Doctor of Love").

When you decide to see four SPs, is there a particular order based on the SP. For example, do you save the most favourite for last or would she be the first (memories of a smarties commercial jingle swings through my mind)? How about a new girl? Are there girls you just prefer to f@#k versus those who you converse with?

Are you gonna charge me for this?
 

drlove

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It depends. Sometimes I'll see some new girls first during the afternoon, and then save the evening for my regulars. Other times I'll mix and match; it all depends on what I feel like doing at the time.

The best is when you book multiple sessions with the same lady in one day. There's nothing like seeing one of your favorites in the afternoon, knowing that she's coming back for a nightcap.

The downside to this is that I tend to overexert myself. Case in point: On my last visit to Toronto, I had my last appointment scheduled for 12 midnight. Well, at about 11 PM, I looked down at Mr. Happy and came to the realization that he wasn't going anywhere. That, combined with the fact that I was leaving for the airport at 5 AM to catch an early morning flight back to the east coast forced me to call the agency and cancel. I'm making up for it next time, though!
 

kwong_1978

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drlove said:


I'm not what I used to be!
Drlove,

OMG, I can't imagine what you used to be.

I am thinking here....Oh yea, maybe a fu*king loving machine. ;)
 
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