So I had no action during my time in NFLD. Didn't even get screeched in....again! But, on the last night we had a wrap up party for the event. I met up with this nice blonde. Not a knock out but cute. It was kinda fun because a guy from one of the teams was chatting her up. I had nothing really to do at this point. Just standing around, drinking and looking. I was brought into the conversation for about 30 sec. and then they went on yapping to each other. He took her to the dance floor and they spent about 15 min together. He took off for a bit and she started talking to me. Even when the guy came back she didn't say much to him and kept talking to me. (A good way to make you feel good about yourself)
So, she was there with some friends. She wasn't planning on staying all night. When they were leaving, she was leaving. I offered to pay for her cab ride home if she wanted to stay. (I'm so nice ) She said she would wait and see. Time went on and her friends were leaving. I was saying good-bye to her and she said she was going to stay longer. We were having a great time. Laughing, I was buying her White Russians and she was drinking them like water. We were dancing. Slow danced to her favourite song. We were even singing to each other on the dance floor. Thing were going great.
Then it happened. 2 of her friends showed up. There was the typical screeching of "Oh my god! AHhhh!! What are you doing here?" girl thing. The bar we were at isn't one of her normal haunts. She works and hangs out at another one. The 2 new girls that showed up work with her there. They went to the dance floor with their boyfriends and then the girl I was with kinda looked at me with one of those surprised, I can't believe this is happening, I hate to tell you this....kinda looks. "I can't go anywhere now because they know me and my husband. I thought I would be pretty safe here. I don't normally come to this bar and neither do they."
Just my luck. The chemistry was really good. Standing & talking close to each other. The subtle flirts, glances at each other and smiles. Right after that though she did give me her home and work number so all is not lost. Although my next scheduled trip to NFLD isn't until the same time next year! I could change that though, flights are pretty cheap. I mean really cheap. She said to keep in touch and when I come back next year, "we'll hook up and we can go out and do whatever."
Now I say all this for the preface of what I'm getting to. (What a windbag eh?) I looked at all the time with her, the money spent on drinks and what the cost of cab rides would've been too. We hung out at the bar until 3:30am and it closed at 3:00am. We started talking with each other around 10:30pm.
Now, if I were a single guy looking to score. And this had happened, I probably would've been upset and felt like it was a waste of time. Even if I did get her number. I would've been looking for fun that night, not in the future. Looking at all of that and matching it up against the cost of an sp for some time, and you'd come out about even. There are some variables ofcourse such as her price, session length, etc. but I figure it would be about the same and you know that you're going to get laid. No head games (in theory) but you know what I mean. It reminded me of a conversation I was having about 6 years ago with a friend. And we were talking about escorts. He came up with the same thinking. All of your time and money you spend on the bar scene. Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose, but, in dealing with an escort, you know what you're going to get. And if that's all that you're looking for, then why not?
For me, it wasn't a total loss. I got her number. And, I wasn't there looking to get laid. This was an unexpected surprise and was actually fun. Never happened to me before. But, I can see where there is the "thrill of the hunt".
What do you guys think about seeing an sp vs bar hopping? No relationship hangups. Just looking for sex.
So, she was there with some friends. She wasn't planning on staying all night. When they were leaving, she was leaving. I offered to pay for her cab ride home if she wanted to stay. (I'm so nice ) She said she would wait and see. Time went on and her friends were leaving. I was saying good-bye to her and she said she was going to stay longer. We were having a great time. Laughing, I was buying her White Russians and she was drinking them like water. We were dancing. Slow danced to her favourite song. We were even singing to each other on the dance floor. Thing were going great.
Then it happened. 2 of her friends showed up. There was the typical screeching of "Oh my god! AHhhh!! What are you doing here?" girl thing. The bar we were at isn't one of her normal haunts. She works and hangs out at another one. The 2 new girls that showed up work with her there. They went to the dance floor with their boyfriends and then the girl I was with kinda looked at me with one of those surprised, I can't believe this is happening, I hate to tell you this....kinda looks. "I can't go anywhere now because they know me and my husband. I thought I would be pretty safe here. I don't normally come to this bar and neither do they."
Just my luck. The chemistry was really good. Standing & talking close to each other. The subtle flirts, glances at each other and smiles. Right after that though she did give me her home and work number so all is not lost. Although my next scheduled trip to NFLD isn't until the same time next year! I could change that though, flights are pretty cheap. I mean really cheap. She said to keep in touch and when I come back next year, "we'll hook up and we can go out and do whatever."
Now I say all this for the preface of what I'm getting to. (What a windbag eh?) I looked at all the time with her, the money spent on drinks and what the cost of cab rides would've been too. We hung out at the bar until 3:30am and it closed at 3:00am. We started talking with each other around 10:30pm.
Now, if I were a single guy looking to score. And this had happened, I probably would've been upset and felt like it was a waste of time. Even if I did get her number. I would've been looking for fun that night, not in the future. Looking at all of that and matching it up against the cost of an sp for some time, and you'd come out about even. There are some variables ofcourse such as her price, session length, etc. but I figure it would be about the same and you know that you're going to get laid. No head games (in theory) but you know what I mean. It reminded me of a conversation I was having about 6 years ago with a friend. And we were talking about escorts. He came up with the same thinking. All of your time and money you spend on the bar scene. Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose, but, in dealing with an escort, you know what you're going to get. And if that's all that you're looking for, then why not?
For me, it wasn't a total loss. I got her number. And, I wasn't there looking to get laid. This was an unexpected surprise and was actually fun. Never happened to me before. But, I can see where there is the "thrill of the hunt".
What do you guys think about seeing an sp vs bar hopping? No relationship hangups. Just looking for sex.
