SP friends/communications

[wellhungone]

So not sure where to post this or what the title should be.

So , I was seeing a girl (A)and she said that she was getting out of the industry and that I should see her friend (B). I thanked her for the referral and when she did leave , I reached out. After a few years my original (A) SP decided that she was returning. Since her friend and I hit it off , I stayed put.
After awhile , I did decide to visit the original SP (A). We even had a duo session.

I continued to see her friend (B) and still do. About a month ago , I get a text from the original SP (A) asking how I’ve been doing. I responded and we texted back and forth for a few days.

I was looking to make an appointment with B. As we are trying to coordinate dates , she asks me if I have seen A? Told her no.
As we are communicating, B sends me a text. It was strange and weird timing.

I know they chit chat. I m just wondering if they are talking to each other about what to text me or asking if I am seeing them both.

Just got a weird vibe. So I asked B if she knew if A was around for threesome?
She said she didn’t know.
But some of comments that I made to A , B made them to me.

Yes, being a little paranoid and feeling guilty. Once I see B this weekend, I’m going to show her the text messages and the similarities.

 

[rgkv]

sounds like alot of work for nothing

 

[Mr Deeds]

These ladies are not your girlfriends you have a business arrangement with them and that's it. If you think it's anything else you're just fooling yourself no reason for you to feel guilty or think it's weird if you want to see A or B then do it. Stop looking or creating drama for yourself.

 

[Fighting_Amish]

What Mr. Deeds said, these girls see you as a business transaction. Some girls have people who manage their phone messages. Quite possible these 2 are using the same person.

 

[Y_Diner]

Of course they’re talking about you.
You’re just an ATM, possibly a minor distraction.
Key thing is to not give a shit, waste of time and energy. Find some new thots if it bothers you and go no contact and or block them.
TBH you should have just told B yes she recommended you, or none of your business.
I had a very popular agency girl ask me that twice who else I see at the agency.
I was her reg, both times I’d jokingly say that’s my business babe

 

[Darts]

It's worse in an SC where A can actually see you go upstairs with B.

A once asked me what does B give you that I (A) don't? Yes, the girls/women can be jealous/competitive.

 

[Y_Diner]

It's worse in an SC where A can actually see you go upstairs with B.

A once asked me what does B give you that I (A) don't? Yes, the girls/women can be jealous/competitive.

I’d say it’s better. Play one against the other.
Maybe A will shape up and not overcount or try to be better, but most likely not. Regardless if A asks say none of your business, or just smile and say more than you .
Let them get jealous and competitive, it’s our dollar, we have every right to spend it on whom and how we want. Some of these thots are beyond bold, entitled and driven by greed.
Years ago at Loco a black stripper would always approach and chat me up, even gave me her number, but I’d always decline. She once said, “I better not see you getting any dances with white girls”. I just chuckled and said “Ya, okay”!
Don’t fret or worry so much. Just go and have a good time, and remember they look at you as atm, and you keep in mind you have 0 attachment to them.

 

[Darts]

I’d say it’s better. Play one against the other.
Maybe A will shape up and not overcount or try to be better, but most likely not. Regardless if A asks say none of your business, or just smile and say more than you .
Let them get jealous and competitive, it’s our dollar, we have every right to spend it on whom and how we want. Some of these thots are beyond bold, entitled and driven by greed.
Years ago at Loco a black stripper would always approach and chat me up, even gave me her number, but I’d always decline. She once said, “I better not see you getting any dances with white girls”. I just chuckled and said “Ya, okay”!
Don’t fret or worry so much. Just go and have a good time, and remember they look at you as atm, and you keep in mind you have 0 attachment to them.

Some dancers take rejection hard. Other just move on. Some will try one or two more times.

 

[kherg007]

It's a mine field. I'd not go into detail about A to B or B to A.
Just say that you're keeping confidences with your correspondences with A, just as you won't violate your confidences with B. I only mention anything about other industry exploits if it is already written about in terb. Otherwise won't violate confidences from any lady.
However, assume they talk. Good luck.
It is an awkward situation.

 

[Y_Diner]

Some dancers take rejection hard. Other just move on. Some will try one or two more times.

! Oh well

 

[wellhungone]

Love the response, great insight. Trust me, been around more than a minute and know how the game is played. A or B will turn on each other for a pay check.
Never said they were my “girlfriends “ , we knew the understanding of the relationship.

Keep the comments rolling in.

 

[Not getting younger]

Love the response, great insight. Trust me, been around more than a minute and know how the game is played. A or B will turn on each other for a pay check.
Never said they were my “girlfriends “ , we knew the understanding of the relationship.

Keep the comments rolling in.

To each their own.
I’d be out. From both most likely.
Any “feeling” you have, no matter what = emotion.

I’d be wondering why it feels weird, guilty, etc etc. If I’m uncomfortable with that, time to nicely back away.

 

[JackBurton]

All girls talk. It’s a test.

Tell the truth whether they like the answer or not. You can be a gentleman about it, don’t have to be an asshole but they are the ones that have to be in control of their feelings. Don’t sugar coat it but don’t be a dick.

At least they know where you stand and they stand and I gotta tell you, working girls like to know the boundaries of the game. They will respect you for it.

 

[LC18]

You’re not married to either. Why do they care?

Yea losing a client sucks but c’est la vie

 

[xmontrealer]

You’re not married to either. Why do they care?

Yea losing a client sucks but c’est la vie

If I have a regular at an agency I may mention to her that I've seen another lady from the same agency just as conversation. I don't go into a lot of detail, but will mention if I am repeating with the other lady as well. I've never had an adverse reaction from that, at least as far as I've noticed.

What I won't do is book one of them at a double condo location if I see the other is scheduled to work at the same place, day, & time. No point in shattering the mutually created illusion

 

[kherg007]

You’re not married to either. Why do they care?

Yea losing a client sucks but c’est la vie

Had my fave reg at a now defunct agency (naughty nuru, my atf place chockablock with the best ebony ladies in town), booked her for Tuesday as the agency had a montreal visitor who offered greek (reg didn't) so booked visitor for Monday. On the way into condo on Monday passed my reg w the manager who were walking out to get lunch. Felt guilty like I was cheating on her. We said hi and a brief chin wag, then onto business. Saw reg next day as scheduled and I told her how I felt guilty but had a greek urge - but the reg was very good about it, and was very reassuring and seemed much less stressed about it than I. Then I said in a cheeky way "well, I reckon I've also heard rumours that you've been seeing other blokes when I'm not in town." And then we both had a huge laugh and that day's session was particularly great.