sorry newbie question.......

[grimjack]

sorry for the newbie question...but here goes...........


Ive been seeing an independant sp for awhile know(Ive become a monthly regular), and Im finding that when I leave a message on her machine it usually takes one to two days for her to return it(on occassion if at all)., as for making appointments its anywhere from 3 to 5 days later.????

My question really is, is this normal for return time and appoinment set up. because Im finding it frustrating...


silly me I always assumed that if you were a regular an extra effort was made to get back to you sooner...Im actually starting to wonder if she wants to do this with me any more.


hmmmmmmmmmm

 

[Jade4u]

I would say every sp runs thier business differently and for their own personal reasons.

Some sp's may have jobs outside of this as well which could occupy much of their times or whatever the case may be.

Personally myself if they leave me a number and I have no idea what time it was sent or if they do not tell me it is ok to call back at anytime or tell me a time limit to call them back I will not call them back at all.

But if they gave me the go ahead then I would get back as soon as I could only if I could on the same day. But as some sp's do like 24 or 48 hours notice I have no idea how they would go about thier calls.

I agree I think it is best just to ask her. I would hate to think that because I do not return a call that someone took it personally or in the wrong way as well. I would also think if that were the case she would not call you back at all. Things sometimes do happen in life.

 

[Leggy Linda]

I agree

if they dont say a time limit for the call back

I dont call back if it has been a few hours after leaving the message

 

[blitz]

coupla possibilities bro...

you like eachother but she DOES have a life and a job so she makes sure to call you back when her time is appropriate for an excellent encounter

or

you like her, too much, she knows it and relies on the fact that you will be available when her schedule permits, if she needs a new outfit or she has a fight with her boyfriend

either way

move on and sample the universe

peace.

 

[rama putri]

I'm a regular to a few and they all call me back within the day, generally. Move on.

 

[RayFinkel]

NOT necessarily so!! Be realistic!

Do you guys ever consider that perhaps the service providers have personal lives as well????????????

They do???
I thought they all stayed in a box untill we call them. Then they
come out of the box and us guys come over and get in their box.

 

[freakshow]

she has gotten to comfortable and you have given her too much confidence

She knows she can call you back 2 days later and you will still see her