So how many guys here already have someone?

[RaunchIsGoood]

As an eternally single man, its easy for me to see an escort if I choose. But I'm curious as to how many guys here already have a wife, fiancee, girlfriend or someone they can see to get laid if they want to?

Also as a sidenote, do you 'hobby' for variety's sake or because you can't get certain things from your wife etc., or is the sex just crap with the woman you're currently with?

 

[maveriiick]

Variety! I love women and it saves on the complications that occur when dating someone on the side. My SO is great in the sack and loves it, but I've been spoiled by prior variety.

 

[peeler_feeler]

An unbalanced sex drive between myself and my wife.......probably because I grew up on many sexual addictions (porn, street walkers, strippers, escorts)which grew more severe as time went on. And discovering TERB in 2001 added more fuel to the fire.

At first I thought marriage would a sexual buffet....but it was only a one course meal on special occasions.

 

[LurkerDave]

I can't really answer the poll. The sex at home is OK but not often enough.

 

[drlove]

I actually prefer seeing escorts to having a bonafide relationship. In fact, I actually turned down two girls recently since I'm happy with the status quo.
Why should I waste my hard earned money on dinners, gifts, ad infinitum, ad nauseum for a gf when I can get to the good stuff right away with an SP?

Furthermore, work takes precedence over everything else. If a woman wants to be with me, she'll have to stand in line. With SP's I have the perfect formula: More money equals more girls, and more girls equals more variety which is what I crave. There are no emotional hang ups no bs to deal with etc.. The best thing is, seeing SP's takes up only a fraction of my valuable time. I can see who I want when I want, and for whatever reason.

I will never get married because I don't want to end up divorced. If I choose to live with someone, she will have to sign a cohabitation agreement as a prerequisite. I'll be damned if I let any woman walk off with half my gross pre-tax dollars. I'm much too smart for that.

 

[foxwilly]

Why should I waste my hard earned money on dinners, gifts, ad infinitum, ad nauseum for a gf when I can get to the good stuff right away with an SP?

There are no emotional hang ups no bs to deal with etc.. The best thing is, seeing SP's takes up only a fraction of my valuable time. I can see who I want when I want, and for whatever reason.

I will never get married because I don't want to end up divorced. If I choose to live with someone, she will have to sign a cohabitation agreement as a prerequisite. I'll be damned if I let any woman walk off with half my gross pre-tax dollars. I'm much too smart for that.

I have no masters degree, but I am as smart as you DR.

Terb has only made us smarter.

I am lucky I escaped from my previous relationships with my shirt on my back. Now I am happy doing what I want, when I want.

Controlled hobbying is definitely less expensive than a gf, or a wife!

 

[RaunchIsGoood]

I actually prefer seeing escorts to having a bonafide relationship. In fact, I actually turned down two girls recently since I'm happy with the status quo.
Why should I waste my hard earned money on dinners, gifts, ad infinitum, ad nauseum for a gf when I can get to the good stuff right away with an SP?

Furthermore, work takes precedence over everything else. If a woman wants to be with me, she'll have to stand in line. With SP's I have the perfect formula: More money equals more girls, and more girls equals more variety which is what I crave. There are no emotional hang ups no bs to deal with etc.. The best thing is, seeing SP's takes up only a fraction of my valuable time. I can see who I want when I want, and for whatever reason.

I will never get married because I don't want to end up divorced. If I choose to live with someone, she will have to sign a cohabitation agreement as a prerequisite. I'll be damned if I let any woman walk off with half my gross pre-tax dollars. I'm much too smart for that.

You sound like Gene Simmons!

I can understand the variety part, but how about having a girlfriend or SO that you have feelings for and when you have sex, the connection is deeper and perhaps more pleasurable? Also less chance of catching some STD and maybe barebacking it with her.

Also what about doing stuff outside of the bed with a woman? I guess you're not interested in that or just go out with friends?

 

[drlove]

You sound like Gene Simmons!

I can understand the variety part, but how about having a girlfriend or SO that you have feelings for and when you have sex, the connection is deeper and perhaps more pleasurable? Also less chance of catching some STD and maybe barebacking it with her.

Also what about doing stuff outside of the bed with a woman? I guess you're not interested in that or just go out with friends?

Fair question. While the idea of a real relationship appeals to me, I'm scared of getting bored with her. Then, I'm either stuck in a rut, or I continue to hobby and thereby cheat. Moreover, my occupation keeps me so busy that I don't have time for all the hassles that accompany having an SO. The idea is to first get the money, then get the girls. If you're rich, all of that becomes a lot easier.

I like seeing escorts since they are a sure thing and virtually hassle free. In terms of hanging out with friends - nice idea. Unfortunately, I don't get paid to do that. Right now I have better things to do with my time - like making money.

 

[Posse]

I was married for years with no sex
and I hung in there a long time before being befr$ended by a hitch-hiking woman.
I am still grateful for all those working women who helped maintained my sanity.
I take my hat off to you, (in all safety, of course).

 

[bestillmehard]

I hobby and I am singe!

Hope it didnt hurt!...lol

 

[RaunchIsGoood]

Fair question. While the idea of a real relationship appeals to me, I'm scared of getting bored with her. Then, I'm either stuck in a rut, or I continue to hobby and thereby cheat. Moreover, my occupation keeps me so busy that I don't have time for all the hassles that accompany having an SO. The idea is to first get the money, then get the girls. If you're rich, all of that becomes a lot easier.

I like seeing escorts since they are a sure thing and virtually hassle free. In terms of hanging out with friends - nice idea. Unfortunately, I don't get paid to do that. Right now I have better things to do with my time - like making money.

Now that is 100% Tony Montana! 'First you get da money, then you get da powawwwwr, then you get da wooman'.

So I guess you're not afraid of STDs? Or don't mind that you can't bareback?

 

[drlove]

So I guess you're not afraid of STDs? Or don't mind that you can't bareback?

I know the risks. Life gives you two choices: either live it, or don't. I went bareback with my ex girlfriend. No stds, but it was still somewhat of a dumb thing to do. Why take a chance?? These days, I use a condom no matter what.

 

[RaunchIsGoood]

Soo anyone else to vote for this poll? Guess its nice to know that about half are single while seeing escorts. As for the other half or so, maybe I should've added more options as to why they'd still see an escort.

Guess the sex really is crappy for alot of guys after you get married. Although some did vote the sex was good and they were still seeing...hmm.

 

[stang]

I hobby when I'm single.

 

[goalie000]

I'm married and no sex for a LONG time. Need another category on the poll.

 

[Mr. Lucky]

Single
young
Likes to hobby

I can have a loving relationship with some SP's

 

[Mr. Lucky]

Mabey she's my sister your talking about

DAMM you

 

[gdurham]

As with most multiple choice questions, there doesn't seem to be a 'correct' answer that fits my situation.

I have been married for some time and the sex is usually 'good', but rarely great. My wife and I have sex 4-5 times a week. But after being monogamous for a long time I find I just want something different from time to time.

Sometimes I am not even convinced that the #1 reason I see SPs is for the sex. I know, I know that sounds incredibly stupid. I have found myself booking SPs just because I am bored, or just because I can, even though I am pretty sure I will have sex with the wife in the next day or two.

 

[emailme84]

4-5 times a week is a dream....

 

[C Dick]

I am married, and the sex is good, but I like some variety, I hobby because I can. I am now practically married to my regular providers, I have not seen anyone new in at least a year, I just have not felt like it. Each offers something that the others and wife do not.