Should I have?

[[ALIMEISTER]]

So I take this chick out to dinner last night who I like and wouldn't mind going exlusive with. I've met her only three times, this being the third time. She recommends this Thai place called Green Mango which was on Yonge street. Or was it Bloor? Anyways we order some food which was great by the way and the bill arrives. Comes up to 40 bucks including dessert. No biggie, I pay for it. She offers to pay, which means a lot to me but I decline as always.

We drive back, talk about music, sports, politics etc etc. I crack a couple of jokes and feel pretty smooth and top of my game. It's a long way back so we have a couple of short silences but nothing uncomfortable. I'm about 4 minutes away from her place and she pulls out a dentyne ice from her pocket and takes one for herself and offers me one LOL! At first I'm thinking okay maybe she wants to make out a bit, but then i'm thinking, no it's just coincidence.

So I drop her off, she says good night, thanks for dinner, and i'm like lets hook up next weekend. She says sure. That's it. Atleast the first time I met her she let me kiss her on the cheek haha.

So what do you studs say? Should I have made a move? Theres always next week anyways.

 

[Morgan Ellis]

No.

Oh, wait, I should probably read the thread before just responding to the title.

OK, after reading it, I'm thinking she was about to offer you one of those infamous dentyne ice blow jobs, but you pussied out and ruined the moment.

Or, maybe she just wants to be friends. Tough call.

-- Morgan

 

[Thousand]

Next time when you drop her off, tell her you feel tired and sleepy and would need some caffiene. This would give her a choice to either offer you a cup of coffee in her house, or to give you the direction of the nearest Tim Horton.

Using this method, you wouldn't make yourself look too aggressive.

 

[red]

she is probably wondering why you didn't try and kiss her

 

[Shades]

Is it proper,
Is it right,
On our first date to kiss goodnight.
If she thinks enough of me,
She will wait, you will see.

this little poem got me thru the trauma of early dating days...kind stuck with me. (we didn't have Dentyne Ice in those days)

 

[[ALIMEISTER]]

I was being a gentleman yes. Was a nice guy? Not really, I just behaved myself during the date. I've noticed shes a bit passive and is somewhat reserved sometimes and gets offended a little too easily but that didn't stop me from making fun of her on some occasions. No sexual comments of course. She comes from a strict spanish catholic family and claims to be a virgin. So it's too early to tell how far I can go with her. By the way she's only 18 but hell of a lot mature than I am. I do respect her as a person, but i'm not going to lie, I wanna get in her panties lol.

 

[krystal]

Maybe she was having a piece of gum because you guys just finished eating and was being polite offering you one also or maybe it was a hint,but it was nice that you are a gentleman

 

[tzahal]

by now she proabaly thinks your gay. move on

 

[Pistol Pete]

The best way to get laid is for them to think you're gay. Trust me on this one. You're well on your way with this chick. Next time, in casual conversation, drop in a few words about bathhouses, figure skating and how you haven't been the same since Wham broke up and you're on your way. Good luck buddy!

 

[tzahal]

wham...

 

[zydeco]

No doubt she's seen the commercials ALI - go for it!

 

[[ALIMEISTER]]

The only reason why I didn't make a move on her was because I thought it was too soon to do so. The last thing I wanted to do was come out as being too agressive so I held back. I'm gonna play a little hard to get. Plenty of dates to look forward too.

 

[drlove]

As Sheik would say, don't sweat the small stuff... it'll happen for you.

 

[RogerRabbit]

The only reason why I didn't make a move on her was because I thought it was too soon to do so. The last thing I wanted to do was come out as being too agressive so I held back. I'm gonna play a little hard to get. Plenty of dates to look forward too.

Exactly, go with your gut instinct, don't rush, all good things cum to those who can wait...

 

[incognito]

by now she proabaly thinks your gay. move on

Now thats funny...LOL