Sex Lessons?

[alex6]

I was watching a late night sex program and saw a segment on a SP that gave sex lessons to men to improve their sexual skills. She would critique their style and tell them what they did right/wrong and ways to improve
their overall technique.

I thought this was an very interesting concept... So I asked myself would anyone in Ottawa use such a service if it existed and if so what would one improve on?

So I ask the question "What would you improve about yourself sexually if a local SP had sex lessons like the on sex tv?"

 

[alex6]

Hmmmm

WOW interesting results so far.....

SO now I am wondering if there are any truly qualified SP in Ottawa willing and able to offer such a service?

ALso thinking about it. Now I wonder when someone goes to a SP, I wonder how often the SP enjoys beening with the client. IF the SP where to see say 30 people in the month, "just an example" How many people out of that 30 would the SP accually have enjoyed beening with, and how many where was the SP thinking at the time "GOD buddy your a terrible lay!" In need a new job.. Hmmmm I think I try asking in a poll.... wonder it they will honestly answer?

 

[beppo]

although I'm not in the area anymore... EVERY SP SHOULD OFFER A SERVICE LIKE THIS.

They're the ones who would know, and be able to gauge your performance etc. give you tips bla bla bla bla

 

[alex6]

Ya but

It would take alot for a good SP to tell you your no good at this and you should do this instead, and have you keep wanting to come back. It might be quite a blow to ones self esteem to hear the truth.

Plus I wonder how many could actually teach Tantric sex properly.

 

[chrissypooh]

im an sp and could offer this service if ud like.. get_it_all_from_me@hotmail.com name is star

 

[hodderbk]

This is fascinating. I'd love to offer a service like this. Although I am by no means an expert (who ever really is a "sex expert"? Sex is very much a personal expression and there is no one way to do anything), I have studied anatomy, sexual psychology and sexual disfunction and the above-mentioned points would be a great starting point for someone who wants to learn more about their body and their partner's body.

 

[The Lurker]

While I am outta the game, I have been fortunate enough to be with a few women that have been able to show me alot. Not sure if formalized "courses" would help, but listening to who your with always shows you something new. All people are different so the more you meet the more you learn. This goes not just for bouncing in the rack either.

I have learned quite alot just from lounging around on the couch.

Too all the ladies I have seen. A heart felt thanks!!!

 

[bjsk90]

Kinda reminds me of a website which I joined once because they had a sex therapist on-site who would demonstrate parts of the human anatomy and sexuality on herself! She was a real trained sex therapist, so this whole thing had a bit of a voyeuristic feel to it.

I don't think getting a critique from someone you just had been intimate with will work. There's too much potential for hurt feelings. However, something that might work is a third person perspective. You go there, and you have two SP's there, one who you interact with primarily, and other one who sits out and rates you and instructs you, and might even lightly interact with you and the other girl. It's not a full three-some but has the elements of one. This should be more expensive than a single SP, but not as expensive as a threesome.