Self-control - how to achieve it?

[havingfun]

Many of us have bad habits. We know they are bad habits. We know we shouldn't have another cigarette, another drink, too much to eat, spend too much on gambling, SPs, etc. We establish a line and say we won't cross it. And then over it we go. What's the secret to achieving self-control?

 

[raven@mirage]

Knowing what you want to live a healthy life, and control how many sins you have.

I don't drink because I have an ulser, and I don't smoke because of my ulser.

But I love sex, so I work in the sex industry doing videos, webcam shows, and phone sex and now SP.

But I know I have to be cautious of how I handle my out of the box sex life.
so I see my doctor regularly and exercise, and eat healthy. and avoid stress.

there is somethings you need in your life to make you feel alive and if they are possiblity of damanging your health you need to make a choice of how badly you want them.

like my bf smokes but he is not allowed to smoke around me, he barely has sex but he knows i have a lot you just need to know where to compromise with your self.

 

[LKD]

smoking and drinking is easy to control; join a sports team, like soccer or running. On the other hand, how the hell does one control themselves on this hobby?

 

[Meister]

On the other hand, how the hell does one control themselves on this hobby?

Whenever I get the urge to go to SRM I turn to another vice to make me forget about SRM, ..... say donuts.

hhhhmmmmm dooooonuuuuts