Satisfying the provider - how important?

[miamijoe]

Now we all might think we're dynamos in the sack, and some are and some aren't but how important do you feel as a client to meet the SP's needs? SPs how important to you is this?

For me personally, I'm looking at it from the transactional point of view and making sure my needs are taken care of, and if I can make the SP happy with my performance all the better, but I'm not going to stress over it. Certainly not do anything she clearly doesn't enjoy, and I'd hope I'd not be expected to do the same. For me DATY with someone I don't really know doesn't do it, so I'd hope my saying no to that act wouldn't sour an experience.

Thoughts or your experiences?

 

[Ceiling Cat]

Simple common courtesy is all that is required of you. When you go to a restaurant do you make sure the waiter/waitress has a good meal as well?

 

[xmontrealer]

I enjoy giving pleasure. But if she doesn't get off (real, or imagined with good acting) from my daty and toys I don't worry about it.

If I don't believe she got off I won't repeat.

 

[bggolfingmaniac]

I enjoy giving pleasure. But if she doesn't get off (real, or imagined with good acting) from my daty and toys I don't worry about it.

If I don't believe she got off I won't repeat.

This. If it felt mechanical and completely fake, I also tended to pay up and leave early - don't give me the 'transaction' vibe. Thankfully I met the right ladies for the most part, but there were definitely exceptions.

 

[seanzo]

I do my best to make sure they have fun too, I try especially hard for the regulars I've had through the years.

 

[Olderasianlover]

One of the things I like in a session is the vibe/connection we make together. It gives me pleasure to give her pleasure. Every encounter is different, it might be totally one sided one way or the other, it's best when a session takes on a life of its own. You never know until you're in the middle of it. For me predictability means it's time to move on. My favourite sps are ones where I never know how a session will go. It depends on both of your moods, the connection you make and the fire of the moment!

 

[Sonic Temple]

Agree with the norm here - very important for the SP to also have fun and I do my best to create memories for them as they do for me. Love DATY and always like to make sure they get off before I do - at least I hope they do. Their pleasure is a def. an aphrodisiac for me as that gets my blood flowing as well.

 

[bggolfingmaniac]

Agree with the norm here - very important for the SP to also have fun and I do my best to create memories for them as they do for me. Love DATY and always like to make sure they get off before I do - at least I hope they do. Their pleasure is a def. an aphrodisiac for me as that gets my blood flowing as well.

I used to tell a few of my faves - "When you get off, I get off." I meant it.

 

[victoryformation]

As a monger ... I'm not a one-way street!
I'm a team player (in every sense of the word)!
(I like to think of myself ... as a DIscerning, DATO Connoisseur!)
I luv giving pleasure to My ATF!
Via DATY and Especially DATO (with Reddi Wip)!
I go for IT!
(I put the pedal to the metal!)
I love getting in full-bore weed-whacker mode!
I luv giving her a tongue lashing!
I love probing her sweet-tasting orifices!
I love a down-and-dirty, DATO slobberfest!
I love when My ATF gets really wet!
I luv the sweet taste of her bodily secretions!
(I luv when she stains the bedspread!)



"I love when you eat my asshole!"
If you are a Shameless, Unrepentant, Unabashed DATO Aficionado ...
It's as close as you're gunna get to Heaven ... without droppin' dead!




"

 

[LTO_3]

For me it's all about building a good connection with the SPs I see and repeat with. Part of it is they feel safe repeating but also they want to repeat because we'll have a good time and get each other off orally - how I love to watch them squirm with pleasure from DATY - as well as any position that works for both for us. A happy SP makes my pleasure that much better.

LTO_3

 

[JohnAMacdongnot]

Most of the time I cannot tell if it's real.

Like when I fingerbang them, and they "orgasm", I don't know whether they faked it so I would stop the fingering or it's real.

 

[Mr Deeds]

I enjoy giving pleasure. But if she doesn't get off (real, or imagined with good acting) from my daty and toys I don't worry about it.

If I don't believe she got off I won't repeat.

So the better the actress the better you feel?

 

[thumper18474]

I love getting the lady off
Sometimes I have a problem firing my shot so..paying attention to her gets my juices running..and sometimes it works and I fire....sometimes I don't fire no matter how hard I try...but I always leave with a smile on my face

 

[K Douglas]

As a monger ... I'm not a one-way street!
I'm a team player (in every sense of the word)!
(I like to think of myself ... as a DIscerning, DATO Connoisseur!)
I luv giving pleasure to My ATF!
Via DATY and Especially DATO (with Reddi Wip)!
I go for IT!
(I put the pedal to the metal!)
I love getting in full-bore weed-whacker mode!
I luv giving her a tongue lashing!
I love probing her sweet-tasting orifices!
I love a down-and-dirty, DATO slobberfest!
I love when My ATF gets really wet!
I luv the sweet taste of her bodily secretions!
(I luv when she stains the bedspread!)

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"I love when you eat my asshole!"
If you are a Shameless, Unrepentant, Unabashed DATO Aficionado ...
It's as close as you're gunna get to Heaven ... without droppin' dead!




"

Who is that lady in the pic, she's stunning from behind

 

[K Douglas]

I've basically retired from this hobby, but I rarely did DATY with a SP. Didn't really care for it compared to a lady I was dating, FWB or the odd SB encounter.

And I never had a regular SP anyway. I was too busy meeting ladies off dating apps and such. With SPs it was a quick fix for a short session to satisfy my itch basically especially since the cost for time was typically a lot more than my other encounters. Call me greedy, but meh. I think I've only paid under 5 times for a H session usually leaving before my time was up.

Whatever floats your boat. You're the payer. No judgement here.

 

[Daddy2021]

Who is that lady in the pic, she's stunning from behind

I believe poster is said lady. Look at posting history. A few of us have been pondering. Every time this one posts it’s the same girl being posted in pic

 

[Olderasianlover]

Considering most of them hate men in general and it is an act they do this is why I enjoy pleasing someone I'm dating and stuff. Overall just feels better. And the fact it's costing a few hundred I'm def making sure I come first (pun intended).

I can't remember a single sp who gave off a "I hate men" vibe. Some disinterested sure but I forget them quickly.

Edit: Maybe one

 

[victoryformation]

Who is that lady in the pic, she's stunning from behind

My K-Girl ATF !



I'm a DATO Connoisseur!
She's the DATO Gold Standard!
(Her ass is Soo Fine ... it's Just Begging to Be Eaten!)
A Man's Gotta Do .... What He's Gotta Do!
I lather her up with Reddi Wip ... and proceed to get into DATO Worship Mode!
It's a Complete Sensory Overload!
It's a Religious Experience!
DATO NIRVANA!



ps
The next day I purposely do not wash my face or brush my teeth ....so I can have her taste and scent on me ... ALL DAY!

 

[Josephine]

Now we all might think we're dynamos in the sack, and some are and some aren't but how important do you feel as a client to meet the SP's needs? SPs how important to you is this?

For me personally, I'm looking at it from the transactional point of view and making sure my needs are taken care of, and if I can make the SP happy with my performance all the better, but I'm not going to stress over it. Certainly not do anything she clearly doesn't enjoy, and I'd hope I'd not be expected to do the same. For me DATY with someone I don't really know doesn't do it, so I'd hope my saying no to that act wouldn't sour an experience.

Thoughts or your experiences?

I would never ask a client to satisfy me personally with Daty or make me cum. However, engaging in a little small chat before and have a little bit of foreplays do change the mood. Like some type of flirt?! If I make sense.

When it clicks with a client, it is so special. I find it so sad when guys come and see me and are just desengaged. I will perform but I cannot say it is the same and that is not even volontiraly.

 

[Foodoo19]

Now we all might think we're dynamos in the sack, and some are and some aren't but how important do you feel as a client to meet the SP's needs? SPs how important to you is this?

For me personally, I'm looking at it from the transactional point of view and making sure my needs are taken care of, and if I can make the SP happy with my performance all the better, but I'm not going to stress over it. Certainly not do anything she clearly doesn't enjoy, and I'd hope I'd not be expected to do the same. For me DATY with someone I don't really know doesn't do it, so I'd hope my saying no to that act wouldn't sour an experience.

Thoughts or your experiences?

Im the worst lay for an sp. and its the complete opposite from RL. I dont kiss or go down on sps. I dont ask them if anything feels good because I wouldnt believe them anyway. I am there to get off (politely) and leave.