Am I the only one that has an issue with this? Some ladies post on their website gift lists and that's ok. There are many men who want to buy them a gift and it makes it easy for them to do that. Ok fine. But lately I've been seeing ladies more directly asking for things. "Whos gonna treat me to a new apple watch?" Or "I need a new sephora gift card". Like WTF? Not even asking anymore. This is not ok.
Requesting gifts
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Why is it any of your concern?
You don't know who their clients are or what the likelihood of them receiving those things are. And nobody is specifically asking you for anything.
It sounds like most of your interaction with these particular people is watching them on Twitter (and not booking them) so if you don't want to look at those posts, unfollow them.
yes a lot of them request for things, and like others have said, they're stupid enough to do it for what??? "A thank you, I will make it up to you". these idiots fall for that all the time, but not me. they charge enough for their services, they should be able to buy their own stuff with it, rather than Uber Eats, and Skip The Dishes and BRAGGING about it too.
Meh...
If I can and I want to give then it's my decision.
If I don't want to or if I can't then it's also my decision.
There is no significant consequences either way. I dont see no issue with the requests being made.
It's human to want things. Sometimes you get it by asking, sometimes you don't even when asked.
Minor thing to get heated about.
If I can and I want to give then it's my decision.
If I don't want to or if I can't then it's also my decision.
There is no significant consequences either way. I dont see no issue with the requests being made.
It's human to want things. Sometimes you get it by asking, sometimes you don't even when asked.
Minor thing to get heated about.
I believe it's the name calling and basic etiquette stuff.
As showbizz sometimes say, and I agree, people need to act their age. Name calling is high school stuff.
ladies have rights to request for small or expensive gifts. some clients will give
most won't and some even avoid
the ladies will run business how they see fit. if you are not ok don't see them
most won't and some even avoid
the ladies will run business how they see fit. if you are not ok don't see them
I like this "contribute for charities" way as an example of responsible spending. I imagine an SP website saying (like some eBay listings): "10% of the session fee will be donated to the HelpSomebodyInNeed charity". I feel all worm and fuzzy
The best thing about twitter is you can follow someone for awhile and over time get a sense of their personality and how they run their business. I never stop being surprised at the stuff some providers post on their feeds. I see posts all the time that I would think are turning potential clients away, not attracting them. I know for me, twitter convinces me to avoid providers much more than it convinces me to see new providers. I really like this. It used to be you would have to waste money on a session to find out what someone was like. A couple years ago I decided I wouldn't see a new provider until I followed her on twitter first. Since then I don't think I have had a bad session, definitely not any absolutely terrible ones. It's really a great screening tool.
Context must be considered but what you describe could quite possibly cause me to screen out a provider. If a provider appears to be demanding and self absorbed there is a good chance you will receive a relatively high cost, relatively low effort session.
