Repeat Visits
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It depends of each person and the chemistry that you and her generates together during your session.
Usually, when you repeat with a MA, I hope that it's because the chemistry was there and both of you had fun together.
If she likes what she is doing, more she knows you, more she gets comfortable with you.
Some MA have their routine and don't change a bit because they are staying in certain limits.
Some MA are hybrids MA/SP, so they are willing to do a little bit more as they see you more often (but it's not a guaranty).
they will tell you subtly ,, ''next time, we can try something different'' or along those lines .
''Some'' SP,s call themselves MA ,, so they can choose the level of service to give , without too much drama . Sometimes you have to pay to see if you qualify. Or read reviews here.
''Some'' SP,s call themselves MA ,, so they can choose the level of service to give , without too much drama . Sometimes you have to pay to see if you qualify. Or read reviews here.
It depends on where you go. There’s a spectrum. At one end (CMJ and Brass), you’re unlikely to get more mileage as a repeat. I’m not saying that just because the club rules prohibit it, it’s also generally been my experience. But it is also true that sometimes the rules get broken depending on chemistry. At the other end of the spectrum (BB, many Asian spas, most places in Toronto except Muse), repeating often has an impact on mileage.
After a certain number of repeats, sometimes mileage and overall naughtiness seem to decrease (familiarity?), but at that point you’re generally at least partly looking for talk anyway. Some women do tend to get more restrictive after they’ve gotten sick and had to take some time off, that’s just part of the industry.
Remember Chris Rock’s “no matter what the stripper tells you, there’s no sex in the champagne room” routine? If you would like mileage, it’s better to (i) look for hybrid MA/SPs, (ii) SPs, or (iii) ask outright before the session than trying to see if an MA will get more naughty with you by repeating over and over. Many MAs will tease you, they’ll tell you “no, but maybe next time”, or “next time is going to be hotter”, or post very sexual images/clips on their Twitter account with captions like “I need this right now”, but they don’t actually ever cross any lines. And don’t be misled by finding condoms in the garbage cans in the more restrictive spas — that’s just from covering toys; when rules are broken they ask you to pocket the condom.
Same applies to strippers too. I’m guilty of spending far too much in the CR on one stripper who doesn’t even get fully naked. :doh:
After a certain number of repeats, sometimes mileage and overall naughtiness seem to decrease (familiarity?), but at that point you’re generally at least partly looking for talk anyway. Some women do tend to get more restrictive after they’ve gotten sick and had to take some time off, that’s just part of the industry.
Remember Chris Rock’s “no matter what the stripper tells you, there’s no sex in the champagne room” routine? If you would like mileage, it’s better to (i) look for hybrid MA/SPs, (ii) SPs, or (iii) ask outright before the session than trying to see if an MA will get more naughty with you by repeating over and over. Many MAs will tease you, they’ll tell you “no, but maybe next time”, or “next time is going to be hotter”, or post very sexual images/clips on their Twitter account with captions like “I need this right now”, but they don’t actually ever cross any lines. And don’t be misled by finding condoms in the garbage cans in the more restrictive spas — that’s just from covering toys; when rules are broken they ask you to pocket the condom.
Same applies to strippers too. I’m guilty of spending far too much in the CR on one stripper who doesn’t even get fully naked. :doh:
Thanks for the information and insights guys, it is much appreciated! I was curious since I've only been in Ottawa for half a year, and in my dozen or so massages, I was never offered a menu (I also never asked because I didn't know how strict they were). Similarly to ElCapitain, this is different to what I've experienced in Toronto, Vancouver, and Montreal (few times they would just skip to what's NOT on the menu...).
I will try some repeats and also indy providers and pay attention to their word choice. I really only care about bbbj/bls/rim, and would rather get this along with a massage, rather than going for a SP and not even doing FS.
I saw a condom in the trash once, and the girl told me it was from fucking a guy in the ass with a strapon and these sorts of requests were not uncommon. What kind of bizarro world did I enter where guys are taking more dicks than the MAs? I don't look in trash cans anymore.
I will try some repeats and also indy providers and pay attention to their word choice. I really only care about bbbj/bls/rim, and would rather get this along with a massage, rather than going for a SP and not even doing FS.
I saw a condom in the trash once, and the girl told me it was from fucking a guy in the ass with a strapon and these sorts of requests were not uncommon. What kind of bizarro world did I enter where guys are taking more dicks than the MAs? I don't look in trash cans anymore.
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LOL I agree with you man. Every second BP add on Ottawa lists that the SP provides strap on service. But don't you dare ask for greek...
Wuuuut???? You're gonna fuck a dudes bum and not return the favor? Damn that's cold.
well...lol...it's not exactly fucking a dudes bum...it's just a toy as opposed to you using your dick to pound the girl's rosie bud. There is a slight difference it seems
In some of my MA/SP experiences, the lady was very good for the first couple of sessions. In a very few instances however, after a few visits, the service levels and chemistry dropped-off. I realized I was just a number (ho-hum) and dropped her. I rationalized that maybe the MA/SP thought she had me "pegged" (sorry, couldn't resist) as a repeat client and could just "dial it in".
And, that's the way it is - it's a business and from the provider's POV, if you can maximize $$ with minimal input, then you're on a roll. The ladies see soooo many guys, one less doesn't seem to impact them much. In fact, they're probably grateful if you don't call. Less effort. Burn-out factor = if they make it a habit with everyone, then they disappear from the biz. Before I get hate mail, that's not always true for every provider of course.
That's when I get the hint and just move onto the next provider. It's just a game.
And, that's the way it is - it's a business and from the provider's POV, if you can maximize $$ with minimal input, then you're on a roll. The ladies see soooo many guys, one less doesn't seem to impact them much. In fact, they're probably grateful if you don't call. Less effort. Burn-out factor = if they make it a habit with everyone, then they disappear from the biz. Before I get hate mail, that's not always true for every provider of course.
That's when I get the hint and just move onto the next provider. It's just a game.
I am very happy to read this comment. As an Hybrid I have to agree with you.
Not only we get to choose with who we are open , but we also Make the decision based on the genuine connection we share with a client and of course on the hygiene factor. The Ma part allow us to make the choice without any pression. No matter what , our client will experiment a great sensual experience. The massage part also allow us to get to know eachother and to start in a very relaxing atmosphere. Our clients are never pushy and it makes the options a bonus insted of an expectation. It also give the freedom to our repeating clientele to choose if they are going for more options or not without having to deal with drama if they are feeling like taking the basic options that day.
In my opinion , it is preferable to build my session on the spot according to my client needs that day. Sometimes my clients are in need of affection and sensuality, sometimes they feel a little more “naughty”..
Personally, I am not offering more options if my client don’t ask for more.
I also really enjoy the massage part as an Rmt and my clientele seem to appreciate that part too so I would never leave the Ma part of my work to go for only Sp ..
Every providers are different and that what makes it so fun to go for variety.
It was my vision and some may have a different one
Kisses
Ali
From my sp experience, I've seen ladies for as long as 2 yrs. To me, there is nothing better than knowing exactly what she likes and when each date gets successively better. Spacing out dates are the key though. When you click with a lady you'll want to see them more frequently, but I've found a month between visits is the right amount of time to keep things fresh.
I feel the same. Personally, I like to see a lady more than once and keep repeating when a good chemistry is on between us. I usually see 1 or 2 providers regularly during a certain period, which can last for a number of months/years, if the provider is still active, as long as chemistry is at rendez-vous... I feel that when I know a lady more, the experience is better for both of us.
Meanwhile, I got caught in an awkward situation at the beginning of the current year, when my 2 regulars, both retired at the same time, leaving me alone... when I approached a new provider, she asked for references. However, I couldn't be verified cause my 2 now former regulars had both cancelled their phones. Ah well... Now I am rebuilding a chemistry with certain ladies and make sure to visit new providers, once in a while.
To get back to topic, ultimately, it always depends on each person character. We are not in a regulated industry where all people are acting the same way, according to a unique code of conduct. Some providers will be more pleasant with you if you are a repeated client, some other will consider you as another number. You need to search to find the proper shoes to your feet. There are plenty of awesome ladies out there... As UP4AD8 says, I may not be the best client for some girls and some girls will not be the best provider for me; it's all about chemistry.
Eh, go in thinking the MA is an SP that is willing to give away a cut so she can screen. It seems to me that's all it is anyway. Some won't go further, and that's possibly the rule with everyone, or possibly just you didn't make the cut.
Always be respectful though, ask about limits, and you'll figure it out.
Always be respectful though, ask about limits, and you'll figure it out.
When I was living near Toronto I was a frequent visitor at Flirt Spa( Chesswood then Victoria Park when they changed locations) and saw the same lady at the Victoria Park location far around two years and would have stayed a regular with her if I hadn't transferred with work.
I still go back when I can because I have never been disappointed with her as she always makes every session better than the last. I always show her respect and it certainly pays off.
Sometimes you get lucky and click I guess.
I still go back when I can because I have never been disappointed with her as she always makes every session better than the last. I always show her respect and it certainly pays off.
Sometimes you get lucky and click I guess.
I usually find that the second session if the first was good is much better and offer more options if the MA will actually do them. Likely because of familiarity and comfort plus you know what each other likes. However, in my experience once you become a "regular" then the effort declines a bit because they don't have to sell it any more.
I've had girls up front tell me about extras five minutes into the session which frankly is a bit of a turn off. I'd rather see how the chemistry is and not know that they give it up to everyone they see.
I've had girls up front tell me about extras five minutes into the session which frankly is a bit of a turn off. I'd rather see how the chemistry is and not know that they give it up to everyone they see.
I repeated with Claire Heavens (under a different name then) for a while. She was something else. Jessica too, before the Brass Club. These days I prefer variety usually.
