Reason why it's hard to stay in a relationship with an MPA or SP.

[G-Spot Seeker]

My theory is that, although men like to partake in having sex with as many hot-looking or at least attractive women as possible, we cannot stand the thought of another man even touching our lady's ass let alone dfk, grope, lick, finger, eat out, get sucked off by and get to fuck our lady. (Funny that we don't mind if she gets it on with another lady though). And it's even worse if we know the guy is a total creep that we cannot stand who doesn't even deserve to touch her hand let alone get intimate with her.
Case in point, listening to some idiot/jerk who made a fool of himself trying to steal my spot (as I was already there for my appointment with the MPA) then next time hearing him coming down the hall with said MPA after a session and carrying on with him like they just had the best time. Then taking 5 more minutes at the door (of my time) trying to ask her out and she obviously not interested but teasingly saying, we'll see. It's like seeing an enemy of yours getting it on with your lady...makes you cringe.

 

[maxim4]

ah buddy............

GET HELP..........NOW!
If you want posessive monogamy...GET MARRIED!
Being a hobbiest means you know that LOVE is not part of the equation........the MP/SP/SC employees are there for the profit$..NOT RELATIONSHIPS!

 

[George OTJ]

My theory is that too many guys get 'hung-up' on MPAs and SPs for the wrong reasons, and this leads to the jealousy you speak of. When you get 'hung-up' for the right reasons, it's the person that counts, not her job.

G-spot, I suggest you take a step back and see other ladies - and forget this one atleast for a while. It's not unusual for ladies to refuse to see regulars who get 'too attached' to them. From the ladies perspective, this can be really scary, especial if they've had bad experience with a stalker.

 

[G-Spot Seeker]

You guys are missing the point.

The main topic of this thread is why it's hard to maintain a bf/gf relationship with an MPA or SP. The example is just one case for any MPA or SP that you enjoy seeing. We often forget how many creeps these ladies see rather than the gentlemen that you hope she gets to see.

 

[Varmitt]

I don't understand, why do you want a relationship with your MPA, either she's your girlfriend or your MPA, I don't think you can have it both ways, but it seems to me you're problem is deeper than your question..

 

[Elmer Stud]

I have a permanent relationship with my penis. He promises not to interfere with my driving and I don't interfere with his line of duty. I have taken him to see many ladies of the trade. He won't be falling for anyone anytime soon, because he and I both realize that there is a certain amount of fantasy involved. Taking it any further than that is simply unhealthy.

 

[procket]

I had a hard time maintaining a relationship with my SP when I ran out of money.

There are a lot of SPs out there that are not just wonderful in bed but also seem to be wonderful people. Easy to see how someone could want more meaningful involvement with some of the SPs, but keep in mind they are in it for the money and hopefully for fun too. We may think they deserve us and should want to be with us, but its ultimately about what they want.

I guess if you want to be more involved with an SP, you can always ask her. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. But you have to respect what she wants or doesn't want. She may run the other way too or you could end up miserable. Of course you could also end up with the next "Pretty Woman" but not sure what the oddsmakers in Vegas would say. I'd bet against it.

 

[Fay]

Hmmmm, if I get you right, I think everyone has definitely so far missed the point. What you're talking about is the difficulty with having a girl-friend who is an sp or mpa, not falling for an sp that you've frequented, right?

Some people seem to deal with it okay, but many do not. It does have something to do with that whole "can't stand another guy touching you, especially if he's a creep" thing. Many other people it has to do with stigma. You don't know how many guys I've met who frequent strip clubs but absolutely spit on the idea of dating a stripper, same with some guys who see sp's. Some people genuinely think we're lower quality people and simply used, damaged goods And still others are just feircely protective with those they get close to and come to love, so they don't bother getting close in the first place. ANd then there's the jealousy. Who did you see tonight? WHy do you see him so much? Are they bigger than me? Are they better than me?

Many sp's have boyfriends and it works okay for them, many others just don't bother because it gets too confusing and they just need more personal space. I wonder if it's easier for mpa's because the service they offer is a bit different, maybe less personal somehow? I don't know.

 

[ToronToto]

... [my penis] promises not to interfere with my driving and I don't interfere with his line of duty.

Too funny ... although "he's" caused me to swerve while driving, and I have cut "him" off mid-stream.