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JoyfulC

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Re: Greek -- I've got to ask...

I notice that men ask about Greek on message boards all the time, and I certainly get a lot of inquiries about it.

I totally understand Greek from a female perspective -- just like I understand ass play from a man's perspective. (Do you believe in god?? If so, did you ever wonder what sort of sense of humour she must have to put so many pleasurable nerve endings in that particular part of our bodies?????)

But I don't understand men's interest in Greek. Does it feel significantly different? Is it the nastiness?? Please clue us in!!

I wonder the same thing about digits, really. I met a younger guy a year or so ago -- and frankly, I'm not crazy about younger guys. Anyway, for whatever reason, he did not want to take off his (white) t-shirt while we were together. And then, he wanted to finger my ass. That was fine with me, but I guess his finger came out a little poopy. So he wiped it on his shirt!!!!

The rest of our time together was spent doing laundry.

sigh!

So please tell me -- what exactly is it with these things??

..c..
 
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JoyfulC said:
I notice that men ask about Greek on message boards all the time, and I certainly get a lot of inquiries about it.

I totally understand Greek from a female perspective -- just like I understand ass play from a man's perspective. (Do you believe in god?? If so, did you ever wonder what sort of sense of humour she must have to put so many pleasurable nerve endings in that particular part of our bodies?????)

But I don't understand men's interest in Greek. Does it feel significantly different? Is it the nastiness?? Please clue us in!!

I wonder the same thing about digits, really. I met a younger guy a year or so ago -- and frankly, I'm not crazy about younger guys. Anyway, for whatever reason, he did not want to take off his (white) t-shirt while we were together. And then, he wanted to finger my ass. That was fine with me, but I guess his finger came out a little poopy. So he wiped it on his shirt!!!!

The rest of our time together was spent doing laundry.

sigh!

So please tell me -- what exactly is it with these things??

..c..
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You always come out with the best questions, here or on your blog.

It proly is mostly religous training, i.e. it's a Mortal Sin. Butt it maybe more than that, well at least in my case. A woman's anus is smother and has less stimulation and hense I can last far longer. The social taboo breaking is also a factor too.

As for the laundry thing, that is too funny. As guys, we are all pigs, well maybe not metros, but hopefully not that much.
 
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A) it feels different



B) its an extra "this woman I'm with is a sexual dynamo" seal of approval

C) depending on one's own point of view, its also the ultimate invasion, or possession - being where one isn't supposed to be.

D) yeah, its nasty.

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benito

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For me its a domination thing. Plus I have found that women who really like anal tend to cum explosively when doing it.
 
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twizzler2

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I can take it or leave it, it's not a huge deal for me either way. Probably there are two things in the plus column for me;

1) For women that like it, it can be an intensely pleasurable experience, and it's always enjoyable to give others pleasure while enjoying yourself.

2) I'm guy who appreciates a beautiful bottom on a lady, being "intimate" with one is physiologically quite pleasurable.

*Interestingly enough the original reason that the church decreed that anal sex was a sin was because it was occurring between adult men and young boys. Ships for instance, would take on young men (10 - 14 years old) as help on voyages and the adult crew, especially the captains who had their own personal helper would forcibly have anal sex with them. I'm sure this was also occurring in the churches themselves and many other places where young men were sent to work at an early age. The term used at the time was sodomy, but now it is used interchangeably with buggery, or anal sex.

It was not intended to apply to a man and a women but without the church being more specific about exactly what was happening it was widely believed that was meant to apply to everyone unilaterally.

Of course if the catholics had known more about the reproduction system at the time, and that women couldn't get pregnant that way they would have had more issues with it.
 
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It has been my experience that once you get past the phsycological aspects of anal play (dirt, gay, etc) and discover the pleasure zones anal play is incredible. There are a ton of nerve endings on and around the butt for both men and women.

For oral sex and analingus or rimming, one of my definite favorite things to do to a woman, it gives me the opportunity to double my time exploring and double my time giving and when I combine the 2 together it gives double the pleasure to both of us. I too like to combine using digits as well with this, why? because I know it feels good.

How do I know it feels good? Because I like to be on the receiving end as well. I go to an MP who gives me a prostate massage and I ask her to combine it with some deep slow digit action too. It is an incredible feeling to be brought the the edge of orgasm without any direct genital stimulation.

I am secure enough in my sexuality to admit that I have had an SP use a strap-on with me and when done correctly is also an incredible experience both from a visual aspect (I like it when I can somehow watch her do it, use your imagination) and from a pure pleasure point of view, so I know first hand it can feel good for the person who is on the receiving end.

Now as far as anal fusking goes I to enjoy that very much for several reasons, it feels different and it is visualy different and I am an ass man too. But I would never do it with a woman who didn't tell me up front she wanted it, I do not ask for it, she has to want it for me to want it.
 
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My two cents

I agree with all the points above. I like the naughtiness of it and, if a lady open to it, seeing her enjoy it becomes a real turn on. If she isn't too keen then it isn't enjoyable as causing real pain is something I do not like.
 
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Of course we do! Otherwise, u wouldn't see posts sometimes when we complained the lady's not into it ... so we left as fast as we could. Having good mutual pleasure is important to many (I would think) in this hobby .... it wouldn't be fun otherwise ....

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JoyfulC

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I recommend you visit the Toronto Zoo, hang around the elephant pen, and carry a big bag of peanuts.

But with respect to the pleasure aspect, you all realize of course that you can't just ram your dick in a lady's ass and have her enjoy it? There's a lot of preperation (relaxation, excitation, exploration) involved beforehand. Perhaps much more than could happen in a 1 hour session.

I've never cum harder in my life than when penetrated/stimulated anally -- but it's a process. It's not something that can be done out of the blue. Those guys here who are into anal stimulation should know what I mean.

..c..
 
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shaka

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Easy does it

Joyful,
Of course one has to take their time. I am perplexed by SPs who accept greek with a 30min appointment. I only book an hour and attempt greek only after a good warm up, usually after prolonged attention. Hmm Joy ya got me thinking ;)
 
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The golden Rule....

Guys, Just remember the golden rule....

Do to others as you would have them do to you.” (Luke 6:31)

Luke said and I for one live by it!!!!!!

And I have a really big 14" Strap-on!!!!:eek:

Nuff said.... Next....
 
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Stacey_luvxxx said:
Guys, Just remember the golden rule....

Do to others as you would have them do to you.” (Luke 6:31)

Luke said and I for one live by it!!!!!!

And I have a really big 14" Strap-on!!!!:eek:

Nuff said.... Next....
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You not gonna start that again? Where my booze?
 
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JoyfulC

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shaka said:
Joyful,
Of course one has to take their time. I am perplexed by SPs who accept greek with a 30min appointment. I only book an hour and attempt greek only after a good warm up, usually after prolonged attention. Hmm Joy ya got me thinking ;)
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If someone is experienced at accepting greek and has come to appreciate it, then she's probably come to be in tune with that part of her body and doesn't require as much preparation as someone who simply doesn't have much experience including her ass in her pleasure play.

But definitely, if you're introducing a lady friend to the experience, go slowly! Because that really is the issue: she needs to get in touch with that part of herself.

..c..
(I gotta admit, I don't get the whole strap-on thing. The idea of using something on someone else that isn't attached to my pleasure/sensation centre fills me with sadness and dread.)
 
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JoyfulC said:
(I gotta admit, I don't get the whole strap-on thing. The idea of using something on someone else that isn't attached to my pleasure/sensation centre fills me with sadness and dread.)
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If that's the only issue you have with strapons, then you might want to try a two-sided one :)
 
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