question to SP's re: "regulars"

[TWOTIGER]

just a couple of queries for some of the girls out there -- I think others may be interested to know as well:

-- how many times or how frequently does someone have to see you before you consider them "a regular" -- is it a set thing for you or do you just get to recognize / like seeing someone after a while because there's that comfort level?

and

-- without going into too much detail ( I guess as much as you're comfortable with ) what sort of special attention is paid to those who spend the time to get to know you a bit and try to connect with you on some level beyond the quick half-hour "get your rocks off type" (not that there's anything wrong with that sometimes too I guess)

just curious.
this whole 'hobby' is really a fascinating study on human nature sometimes.

cheers,
wb?

 

[rr_bill]

You can't do it - it just happens

if it is meant to be, the two of you will "click" and both of you will know that it has happened. It is not something that you can arrange to have happen nor is there a specifc time frame nor any formula that must be followed.

Sheik is correct in his comments. Such a "connection" with a girl can bring many benefits, and will only make more pleasant, your times together as real friends.

 

[SamanthaJones]

I agree with most of Sheiks reply however I would never phone or mail a card- email a card is ok, because that would cross the boundary of discretion(someone else might see it) i also would never phone someone unless it was their private # and they had suggested I do so.

I consider a regular >2 visits. They can call me instead of booking by email if they wish and I will try my best to see them(some of my schedule marked "busy' days I may be busy in one of my other professions-I will only see regulars at the end of those days.
More fun, you are in-tune with what works and go from there- add suprises ,little gifts, extra pleasures....

As I have said before I have met some wonderful men through this and I feel very fortunate to keep the ongoing company of the
"regular" I see. Not crazy about the term though- I'll just call them my "best men"

 

[gramage]

me too.

 

[gramage]

simple, us making a mental picture of you lying in bed trying new things massaging each other and and making the experience as pleasurable as possible.

 

[TheShadow]

i.e. tying up,Siobhan

BULL!

That's your answer S!!!!

TS

 

[gramage]

what do I get for clueing you in?

 

[gramage]

WOHOO!

 

[lizzy]

REGULARS

More than likely someone i've seen more than once...on a fairly regular basis...perhaps more than twice a month for a few months. Special treatment...i treat them all with respect and expect the same in return. I try to accommodate all requests....keeping in mind what we both like. Of course if we 'click' then setting aside time, even when i am off that day-would certainly be a bonus. I've had the agency call me at home on a day off-and i've made special arrangements to see a 'regular'......a regular client to me is someone who treats me with respect, and pays attention to the details when we are together...that's what makes it special for me....

I am a no-shit type of person...and i try to be upfront and honest with each and every client. I try to make everyone feel at ease....and that's perhaps why i love doing this! Meeting different types of people....being able to talk to, and listen to all different kinds of people-its a great way to get to know yourself-and others. Its given me great insight into the minds of men...and women...since i'm bi......

I had a regular quite a few months ago-who was having problems at home...and i won't go into detail...he managed to have a better sex-life....and i think the talking we did helped alot-it helped him to be more open about what he wanted and to realise he had to voice those opinions to his significant other-in order to get what he needed.

If you go into this experience with an open mind....it will be mind-boggling...especially if you get an escort that also has an open mind...a safe open mind...one that won't put you or her at risk...one that takes the time to make sure you are satisfied...but also shows you how to satisfy....now that's an experience to remember! That's perhaps why 'regulars' get special treatment.....the little things...mean alot!