Question re: dinner date SP

[jin]

For those with experience, can you please help out.

How does a dinner date work? For example, a 4 hr date means from the time you pick up to the end, including dinner out?

How do you deftly handle a chance meeting a friend when you are out on a date, especially if you are attached?

 

[ig-88]

I don't like dinner dates, so I would recommend against it.

You are paying an SP SP rates to do non-SP things.

For the cost of a dinner date, you could probably see 4 different SPs.

Since you're attached, there's even less reason to do dinner dates.

 

[papasmerf]

You have to admit it is alot like paying a lawer to paint your house. While I admit it is fun you can get a professional painter for a hell of a lot less.

 

[BallzDeep]

why

why would you go on a dinner date with someone who most likely isn't interested in you at all, lets face it. there is nothing to be gained, book an hour, bring some doritos and a few beers, and she can have all the uncooked sausage she wants.



Ladies, I allow RIM, discounted rates after bowel movements!

 

[luv4lust]

boy guy you are such a jem

jin
your best bet is to find someone you click with before you do a dinner date it will really suck if you don't click.
another way to have a dinner date and be able to have fun while it's cooking is to find an sp who cooks. that way you don't get seen by friends or family, and you can spend time getting to know each other in a more intimate setting.

 

[BallzDeep]

awwww, that's so sweet!!

 

[skypilot]

I have enjoyed a few dinner dates, but I think you have to do a little preparation ahead of time.
I take SP's whom I have seen, really get along with and find interesting.
I will go to the restaurant in the hotel or right nearby so transportation isn't required. In Toronto I usually stay at the Hilton, so we will go to Ruths Chris steakhouse.
What I like to do is have her meet me in the hotel room to have a quickie before dinner. When we go to dinner I ask her to wear a skirt or dress with stockings and no panties, that way I can enjoy a little touching during dinner. I usually have what she likes to drink in the room, but we may stop in the hotel bar for a drink before we go back to the room.
It always goes beyond the scheduled four hours (even though I pay just for the required four) and I have always had a great time.

 

[Never Compromised]

I strongly suggest that you book a couple of 1 hour sessions first, to see if you really want to spend the money on a dinner date. Some agencies seem to have a discount for dinner dates, such as 5 hours for the price of 4. Just don't expect to be up in your room doing the deed the entire time and ordering room service.

As strange as it may seem, I know hobbiests that will only do a dinner date or overnight. For some, it is not all about the sex. It is also about being seen in public with a beautiful woman. Or companionship. Or someone that is going to listen the entire time without going into what a bitch her day has been.

 

[Edifice]

I have done the dinner date on one or two occasions and let me tell you the attitude of one of the ladies certainly changed once you pre-arranged everything and handed over the envelope.

I was expecting some desert after dinner but apparently she wasn't feeling well and well, no desert. She then proceeded to ask me for a tip at the end of the evening which I thought was pretty rude and classless.

I think it's best to go with someone you have see a few times so you have built a good rapport with them and you are much more comfortable in public together.

So, it can be a hit and miss.

 

[Vancouver Femme Fatale]

I specialize in dinner dates and overnights. You need to look at it as an ultra-GFE experience, say like if you were meeting your honey after being out of town for awhile...meet for dinner, catch up on your lives, then get down with the monkey-lovin' in a swank hotel, away from reality for a few hours. If you just want to get laid, get laid; because it really is apples to oranges. If you think the hours before the sex are just something like hanging around a waiting room eating Doritos, like others suggest; book an hour, in and out, done.

No offense, but you need to understand what you want. I've spent fantastic weekends with gents who started off likeable strangers and ended up as buddies to solve the world's troubles with by 3 am Sunday...I get how ya doin' emails from all over the world to this day, years later...what you get out of it is all about what you put into it

 

[MuffinMuncher]

I suppose its a good option depending on the package rate and how familiar you are with the provider. Personally, watching someone eat isnt a big turn on for me, so paying for the privilege (and dinner) is sort of a dealbreaker.

But there are alot of ladies who (once you know them) will gladly do that off-the-clock as a prelude to a paid date, if there is some level of rapport.