Question for the lovely providers in this forum

[livingintri]

Might be a bit of an odd question but really curious if you would consider this from one of your regulars/someone you trusted. Feel free to DM if you don't want the forum knowing your answer.

Would you share a hotel room with one of your regulars if they traveled for work and they asked you to travel with them? Since it's for work, you would have free use of the room to host clients throughout the day. Then you'd share the room in the evenings and over nights? The room would be covered by them instead of you and not a situation where you'd be booked for the week itself and we would work out any sessions as part of the setup of the week. More of a mutual let's go to this city because I'm going for work, you do your thing during the day, we hang out in the evenings, do dinner and drinks if you are down, and go our seperate ways at the end of the week.

I'm not a provider so I don't know if you get most of your clientele in the evenings or during the day so that might be the deciding factor but the thought here is you wouldn't have to pay for a room for a week in another city.

Odd question, I know but it's been bouncing around in my head for a bit. Feel free to ask me for clarification on anything.

Edit: not advertising for freebies but, I guess, the caveat is in this scenario I would not be subscribing to your time for every hour of the week. Just if I wanted a session with you.

 

[Bigbigguy]

Might be a bit of an odd question but really curious if you would consider this from one of your regulars/someone you trusted. Feel free to DM if you don't want the forum knowing your answer.

Would you share a hotel room with one of your regulars if they traveled for work and they asked you to travel with them? Since it's for work, you would have free use of the room to host clients throughout the day. Then you'd share the room in the evenings and over nights? The room would be covered by them instead of you and not a situation where you'd be booked for the week itself and we would work out any sessions as part of the setup of the week. More of a mutual let's go to this city because I'm going for work, you do your thing during the day, we hang out in the evenings, do dinner and drinks if you are down, and go our seperate ways at the end of the week.

I'm not a provider so I don't know if you get most of your clientele in the evenings or during the day so that might be the deciding factor but the thought here is you wouldn't have to pay for a room for a week in another city.

Odd question, I know but it's been bouncing around in my head for a bit. Feel free to ask me for clarification on anything.

I am not a provider but reading your post a question occurred to me….

Along with providing a working space for the provider to make $$, would you also be paying for their time with you sharing the room & dinner/drinks?? Or are you thinking the use of a “free” room is your way of compensating for the time you spend together??

 

[livingintri]

I am not a provider but reading your post a question occurred to me….

Along with providing a working space for the provider to make $$, would you also be paying for their time with you sharing the room & dinner/drinks?? Or are you thinking the use of a “free” room is your way of compensating for the time you spend together??

That would be worked out ahead of time. To be clear, I am not asking this to get freebies. The main question is whether a provider would even consider this.

 

[FLaPenna]

Have you thought this fully through?

You’d be sharing a room where she would be entertaining multiple men per day. Even if the room has separate beds, there probably would be spunk on the rug, on the end table and in the shower.

I know that we assume that risk whenever we visit an incall but I mean dude you would be so much more exposed to it.

Certainly not for me.

 

[Theredmilf]

That would be worked out ahead of time. To be clear, I am not asking this to get freebies. The main question is whether a provider would even consider this.

You’re not the first client to propose this and I have to inquire, if you’re not looking for some kind of a discount or deal, why are you asking?

 

[McKenna King]

Short answer: No.

Why would I work all day, seeing multiple clients and then have to end my day with more work because I’m beholden to you for the room & board? Yeesh, we aren’t 24/7 fuck machines. This sounds like a nightmare.

If you want to bring a lady along on a work trip, book her for that.
You want her to actually be rested, give you attention and be at her best to provide a great experience right?
You certainly won’t be getting any of that if she’s working all day and spending her emotional, physical and mental energy with other clients.

 

[DillBest]

Have you considered sugar babies? Plenty are open to traveling with you.

 

[livingintri]

Short answer: No.

Why would I work all day, seeing multiple clients and then have to end my day with more work because I’m beholden to you for the room & board? Yeesh, we aren’t 24/7 fuck machines. This sounds like a nightmare.

If you want to bring a lady along on a work trip, book her for that.
You want her to actually be rested, give you attention and be at her best to provide a great experience right?
You certainly won’t be getting any of that if she’s working all day and spending her emotional, physical and mental energy with other clients.

Thank you for taking the time to respond. I appreciate your point of view. It makes a lot of sense and the other side of the equation I was missing.

 

[livingintri]

You’re not the first client to propose this and I have to inquire, if you’re not looking for some kind of a discount or deal, why are you asking?

Thank you taking the time to respond. I mentioned in another response but, honestly, was just curious if that would be something a SP would be interested in. Consider it a shower thought? I'm a very low volume hobbyist and don't have a regular person I see so figured I would ask here. It sounds like this is something that isn't worth the hassle for a SP in the way I've presented but the next line of thought would have been should I find a regular provider and build up to that scenario.

From the responses I've recieved, this is not a scenario I would ever pursue and would look at the week as a whole instead.

 

[Theredmilf]

Thank you taking the time to respond. I mentioned in another response but, honestly, was just curious if that would be something a SP would be interested in. Consider it a shower thought? I'm a very low volume hobbyist and don't have a regular person I see so figured I would ask here. It sounds like this is something that isn't worth the hassle for a SP in the way I've presented but the next line of thought would have been should I find a regular provider and build up to that scenario.

From the responses I've recieved, this is not a scenario I would ever pursue and would look at the week as a whole instead.

We can’t speak for all workers, there could be some for whom this is a good arrangement. Maybe they don't want to risk upfront costs to tour for example. And maybe the compensation level is attractive if they are receiving the equivalent of an overnight booking daily. I could see it being more interesting if you're booking a 5 star suite but not so much if it's the Sandman.

My own comment was more a reflection on the fact that we have already heard it all as far as rate negotiations and contra offers and mainly wish to be compensated our rates.

Just be upfront that you're interested in booking a FMTY date where you'll be out 9-5 and looking for a quote. I wouldn’t approach anyone expecting them to put a reduced rate on the table but you can mention that you're amenable to them hosting other dates during the day if they wish and can accommodate and will respect any other requirements they might have in terms of personal time and sleeping hours as you understand they would need their own time and space.

They may or may not want to see others as overnights can already be exhausting and may or may not see an added value in your offer. I can also see how it might feel akward combining a tour w a FMTY.

And then there’s also the issue of whose name the hotel room would be under. Having my client control what would also be my hosting location would probably make me uncomfortable and has the potential to be a bit pimpy if that makes sense. This would require a lot of trust and coordination between you and the companion to ensure there are no conflicts.

A lot of companions do FMTY dates and lots go on tour where we have overnights as part of the tour, but having an overnight every night of a tour and then seeing clients during the day, every day would require a a lot more gas in the tank than I think most of us have. Still, I think this is more about you having reasonable expectations and being respectful in your approach.

If it was me and it was a good touring location with an excellent hotel, I would probably quote for equivalent of what I would expect to make on tour minus travel expenses and then consider the open time a bit of a quid-pro-quo for that.

I hope this helps and better explains some of the reasons why this approach might rub someone wrong depending on your intentions.

 

[livingintri]

We can’t speak for all workers, there could be some for whom this is a good arrangement. Maybe they don't want to risk upfront costs to tour for example. And maybe the compensation level is attractive if they are receiving the equivalent of an overnight booking daily. I could see it being more interesting if you're booking a 5 star suite but not so much if it's the Sandman.

My own comment was more a reflection on the fact that we have already heard it all as far as rate negotiations and contra offers and mainly wish to be compensated our rates.

Just be upfront that you're interested in booking a FMTY date where you'll be out 9-5 and looking for a quote. I wouldn’t approach anyone expecting them to put a reduced rate on the table but you can mention that you're amenable to them hosting other dates during the day if they wish and can accommodate and will respect any other requirements they might have in terms of personal time and sleeping hours as you understand they would need their own time and space.

They may or may not want to see others as overnights can already be exhausting and may or may not see an added value in your offer. I can also see how it might feel akward combining a tour w a FMTY.

And then there’s also the issue of whose name the hotel room would be under. Having my client control what would also be my hosting location would probably make me uncomfortable and has the potential to be a bit pimpy if that makes sense. This would require a lot of trust and coordination between you and the companion to ensure there are no conflicts.

A lot of companions do FMTY dates and lots go on tour where we have overnights as part of the tour, but having an overnight every night of a tour and then seeing clients during the day, every day would require a a lot more gas in the tank than I think most of us have. Still, I think this is more about you having reasonable expectations and being respectful in your approach.

If it was me and it was a good touring location with an excellent hotel, I would probably quote for equivalent of what I would expect to make on tour minus travel expenses and then consider the open time a bit of a quid-pro-quo for that.

I hope this helps and better explains some of the reasons why this approach might rub someone wrong depending on your intentions.

Your response is very detailed and covered several areas I was unable to articulate in my post. I've learned a lot and appreciate your recommendation on how to approach this question with respect . I will make sure to reflect on your words and grow as a person.