Since sp's have a lot of sex, does that diminish your sexual appetite? Do you find that it takes longer for you to orgasm? Or none at all? Are there certain rituals that work best?
Question for sp's, Do you find that you enjoy sex less
- Thread starter The Houdini
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I love sex, always have always will, maybe one of the reasons I chose to become an sp at this late age.....sex is sex, sometimes it is great sometimes it is awful, it largely depends on who I am with. If he is considerate and thoughtful, smells great and is clean then it's almost a guarantee that the sex will be great,,,,,,also work sex and personal sex are two different things. At work I am concentrating solely on making the experience as earth shattering as possible for my guest, my needs are incidental. On a personal level I can concentrate on myself as well as my partner, I can choose what I want to do and what I don't feel like doing right now, I can be selfish even although I am naturally a giver so that does not happen often lol. The only times I really have to turn on all the acting skills I have is if I am not feeling well or if the guest is really unpleasant.
Work sex and personal sex are completely. with work sex your not always able to choose who you want to be with, so a lot more mental strength has to be innvovled, Personal sex you can be more vonuable to your partner especially if there is a big trust factor in the relationship.
Whether I actually enjoy sex or not I have yet to figure that out. Whether this post is actually true or not that is up to you to make your assumption.
Whether I actually enjoy sex or not I have yet to figure that out. Whether this post is actually true or not that is up to you to make your assumption.
I'm really baffled by your last sentence. I guess you wanted it to be that way.MinnieApple said:
Thanks for responding anyways.
Btw, it is a given that business sex is different than private sex. I was just wondering about the private aspect.
Mono sex has gotten old and tends to build up the calluses. Duo sex is interesting when you are with the right species. I think I just will stick with Tri sex.
Heck no! I still lust and desire with as much of an appetite as I did prior to starting up in the industry!The Houdini said:
I'm sure business is generally business... but I'd have to think the industry self-selects against women who can't get some enjoyment out of the business sex or for whom it ruins their personal life.
Those women who have those issues would tend to become burnouts or have obvious disassociation, I'd think... and start to lose clients.
Those women who have those issues would tend to become burnouts or have obvious disassociation, I'd think... and start to lose clients.
Guess you haven't heard the term: when you're good, you're great and when you're bad? You're BETTER!!!!Kyra_to said:
Is this ometing that you might incorporate into your "business" offerings?Alexa Taylor said:
Hope, hop, hope.
I remember, years ago, how you'd 'finish' our meetings by telling stories about your last Woman phase!
I might have to star checking flights back to Ottawa!
Every SP has a different motivation to be in this industry, and I believe the motivation determines the enjoyment level. As I mature, the intimacies are so much more enjoyable. I find that whether it's a guest or personal, if the chemistry is right, it's phenomenal! If the chemistry is missing it's just plain good! There is something wonderful in everyone, sometimes you just have to look for it, and there is always a common ground that can be found that allows me to enjoy the experience. Having successful overcome a serious battery addiction, I do find that too much battery play can diminish my ability to orgasm without, so I limit it in all of my play unless there is a special request. For myself, adding a business element hasn't diminished the appetite or the enjoyment in the least!
Thanks for the replies ladies.
I find that some sp's I'm with, will not orgasm or maybe won't allow themselves to orgasm by way of DATY. I have asked them about it after the session was over. And a couple said it takes them a long time to orgasm.
Now, I know my skills are good from the compliments I've received, so I'm pretty sure performance is not the issue. Also I'm a hygiene freak, so I'm always impeccable. And my looks , well , I've received many compliments there too.
So I guess there isn't some common denominator among sp's on this issue. I know that the real common denominator is that most sp's will not orgasm through penetration only, that I have surmised from many.
Again, thanks for the feedback.
I find that some sp's I'm with, will not orgasm or maybe won't allow themselves to orgasm by way of DATY. I have asked them about it after the session was over. And a couple said it takes them a long time to orgasm.
Now, I know my skills are good from the compliments I've received, so I'm pretty sure performance is not the issue. Also I'm a hygiene freak, so I'm always impeccable. And my looks , well , I've received many compliments there too.
So I guess there isn't some common denominator among sp's on this issue. I know that the real common denominator is that most sp's will not orgasm through penetration only, that I have surmised from many.
Again, thanks for the feedback.
Ok, I have to ask: what the heck is "battery play"??? Umm does it involve putting a double A up your butt? lol........and if you get bored with a double A, do you move up to a C then maybe a D?????Catherine St.Claire said:
Amazon_woman said:
Sheesh D, I kind of figured it out but couldn't resist posting a funny!!
But hey, one never knows, maybe she had a thing for double A's!!! (I'm a good B or C man myself)And yeah, BOB is old school ........
