Question for MAs?

[CuddleBuddy2]

This is a question for MAs but the gents can also chime in. I was wondering if MAs are offended if they're asked about extras before or during a session ? Do you mind if clients ask you or do you think it's fine to enquire?

I visit MAs with no expectations of extras but sometimes if there is some chemistry with the lady I get interested. The problem is some ladies take offense to it and so I'm hesitant to ask.
I'm confused about it. Since we can't openly discuss who offers it on terb and also because due to the Spa legalities/licensing issues it's not offered. The MAs won't discuss it over Messages or in person sometimes because they might get in trouble with the Spa. Maybe some hope the client brings it up during a session?

I've been offered extras by MAs a few times and some Spa MAs have gone Hybrid after going Indy. The line sometimes becomes blurry between MAs and SPs and causes confusion. It's also confusing because some of the tweets from MAs are suggestive and send mixed signals.

My request to MAs is that if they're offended by extras enquires then please say it in your Twitter description, tweet, website. I've seen some MAs do it and it's much appreciated. It saves everyone any awkward situation or misunderstandings.

To the gents, what responses have you received when you enquired? What are your thoughts on this?

Sometimes navigating the Spa world is like going through a maze and walking on eggshells so as not to offend an MA

 

[fall]

This is a question for MAs but the gents can also chime in. I was wondering if MAs are offended if they're asked about extras before or during a session ? Do you mind if clients ask you or do you think it's fine to enquire?

I visit MAs with no expectations of extras but sometimes if there is some chemistry with the lady I get interested. The problem is some ladies take offense to it and so I'm hesitant to ask.
I'm confused about it. Since we can't openly discuss who offers it on terb and also because due to the Spa legalities/licensing issues it's not offered. The MAs won't discuss it over Messages or in person sometimes because they might get in trouble with the Spa. Maybe some hope the client brings it up during a session?

I've been offered extras by MAs a few times and some Spa MAs have gone Hybrid after going Indy. The line sometimes becomes blurry between MAs and SPs and causes confusion. It's also confusing because some of the tweets from MAs are suggestive and send mixed signals.

My request to MAs is that if they're offended by extras enquires then please say it in your Twitter description, tweet, website. I've seen some MAs do it and it's much appreciated. It saves everyone any awkward situation or misunderstandings.

To the gents, what responses have you received when you enquired? What are your thoughts on this?

Sometimes navigating the Spa world is like going through a maze and walking on eggshells so as not to offend an MA

Yes, yes, yes. I always feel on edge asking for extras, so, it would be very nice to know whom I should definitely never ask (it does not mean that I will not visit them: Daisy, my favourite MA at Brass, does not offer extras but I would still visit her as often as I can)

 

[CuddleBuddy2]

fall, Thank you for you post. I'm hoping we can share our experiences without naming any names here. Don't want this thread deleted for breaking any rules.

The ladies don't have to say if they offer extras or not. Just like to know how they feel about being propositioned. Do they expect it from horny guys when they're turning up the heat or they find it offensive when asked?

Twice when I enquired the MAs didn't like it. Good thing I didn't ask them in person or could have been one awkward situation. Also as much as I like to know what's on the table I don't like being pressured for extras.

 

[Alison_xox]

I don’t see why someone would get offended by a question if the question’s asked politely.
I got asked often when I was at Paradise. Same as an indy.
I would never be offended by the question since I prefer someone to ask than someone to try without my consent.
I get annoyed a little if someone’s asking me the same thing over and over and I take it as someone who’s trying to push my boundaries. I get offended if someone’s having an opinion about the fact that I am bot offering what they want and I get agressive if someone doesn’t respect my restrictions and push himself on me. But if you kindly ask for a service and I don’t offer it, I will simply say “unfortunately I am not offering that service, but you are more than welcome to try the services I do offer”..

I think the best way to be happy as a provider is to be honest about our services and not try to leave an open door to interpretation in order to gain more traffic. If the options are clear , the clientele that books you are the clientele that are looking exactly for what you offer. No disappointment on any part.
If you try to be mysterious about your services , than you’ll get trafic of curious guys that might not be your type of clients and will end up disappointed and you’ll get offended.

If someone’s texting me asking for services that I don’t offer, I won’t tell him to come over and discover. I’ll tell him that I am not what he’s looking for and let him book someone that will make his session worth his money. Simple like that.

Now it’s a way and an appropriate language to ask for services.

1) Hey babe bj ? ( Please guys, this is so rude)
2) Would you suck my .. ( Come on ! Rude )
3 ) May I ask if you offer .... ( There you are ! Good boy ! )

Also most of the providers are mentioning their restrictions in their advertisement and it seems like most of clients are very attracted by the pictures and rarely takes the time to read or visit our websites.
It is a lot of informations that could answer all of your questions before you even think of texting or booking the provider.
I would highly suggest that you take the time to read the descriptions beforehand so you might avoid questions that are already answered there.

Hope it helped..

Kisses
Ali

 

[fall]

Thanks Alison for your answer. As I do not use Twitter at all and usually do not discuss anything beforehand, I am more interested in how girls (especially in most knows spas) react to a polite request for extras during the session. A related question/observation: mentioning money always kills the mood, so, this is another thing against asking the question during the session, however, in my (limited) experience, about half of the girls who said "yes" do not mention the money at all (or simply say "it in not included in the basic fee" for which I reply "OK") and leave the "tip" amount up to me (in which case I usually tip more than in cases the dollar number was mentioned). Most of the time the request for extras is denied without any visible problem, however, sometime I feel that such request has adverse effect on girls.

 

[CuddleBuddy2]

If she works at a spa she cannot "legally" offer extras so its a 99% no

indy girls can, if she doesn't have a website or say on twitter I would ask...?

I would get mad when I worked at CMJ bc I was not allowed to so people kept asking me all the time and legally I couldn't.

Moment I became indy I offered hybrid again

Thank you for your insight and suggestion. I've to disagree on the 99% statement. Some places are known for extras but I don't go there as they're not known for GFE or convenient for me. Chances are high of getting pressured for extras at really high rates so I avoid them.

 

[CuddleBuddy2]

I think the best way to be happy as a provider is to be honest about our services and not try to leave an open door to interpretation in order to gain more traffic. If the options are clear , the clientele that books you are the clientele that are looking exactly for what you offer. No disappointment on any part.
If you try to be mysterious about your services , than you’ll get trafic of curious guys that might not be your type of clients and will end up disappointed and you’ll get offended.

If someone’s texting me asking for services that I don’t offer, I won’t tell him to come over and discover. I’ll tell him that I am not what he’s looking for and let him book someone that will make his session worth his money. Simple like that.

Ali

Thank you for your post Alison. You hit the nail on the head with this. I wish more providers were honest as you are.
I feel it's false advertisement on some MAs part to get clients in the door which leads to misunderstandings and disappointments.

 

[RockNRollMachin]

I don’t see why someone would get offended by a question if the question’s asked politely.
I got asked often when I was at Paradise. Same as an indy.
I would never be offended by the question since I prefer someone to ask than someone to try without my consent.
I get annoyed a little if someone’s asking me the same thing over and over and I take it as someone who’s trying to push my boundaries. I get offended if someone’s having an opinion about the fact that I am bot offering what they want and I get agressive if someone doesn’t respect my restrictions and push himself on me. But if you kindly ask for a service and I don’t offer it, I will simply say “unfortunately I am not offering that service, but you are more than welcome to try the services I do offer”..

I think the best way to be happy as a provider is to be honest about our services and not try to leave an open door to interpretation in order to gain more traffic. If the options are clear , the clientele that books you are the clientele that are looking exactly for what you offer. No disappointment on any part.
If you try to be mysterious about your services , than you’ll get trafic of curious guys that might not be your type of clients and will end up disappointed and you’ll get offended.

If someone’s texting me asking for services that I don’t offer, I won’t tell him to come over and discover. I’ll tell him that I am not what he’s looking for and let him book someone that will make his session worth his money. Simple like that.

Now it’s a way and an appropriate language to ask for services.

1) Hey babe bj ? ( Please guys, this is so rude)
2) Would you suck my .. ( Come on ! Rude )
3 ) May I ask if you offer .... ( There you are ! Good boy ! )

Also most of the providers are mentioning their restrictions in their advertisement and it seems like most of clients are very attracted by the pictures and rarely takes the time to read or visit our websites.
It is a lot of informations that could answer all of your questions before you even think of texting or booking the provider.
I would highly suggest that you take the time to read the descriptions beforehand so you might avoid questions that are already answered there.

Hope it helped..

Kisses
Ali

Well said Alison. I remember inquiring with you about your hybrid session and you did state your boundaries crystal clear with no room for interpretation. Honesty is always appreciated, and as a result you got myself (and many others) thinking about your MA services.

You're a wise girl and we got to give you props for that.

Cheers !