Psychology tricks

[Zoot Allures]

(1) Facebook

When someone looks away first they find you attractive

Make someone laugh to get the truth

Nod when talking to get someone to agee with you

If you want to know if someone is looking at you yawn and they will yawn

 

[Zoot Allures]

Facebook
Smile and hold eye contact for 3 seconds

50% when speaking 70% when listening

Look to side when breaking contact as looking down denotes submission

Nod to show understanding with eye contact

Focus on one eye makes it more natural

 

[Zoot Allures]

Ben Franklin effect is ask for small favors and people are more likely to like you

 

[Zoot Allures]

I asked copilot if people can sense when you are looking at them when they are not looking at you and the answer is yes but it is not magic


Microsoft Copilot: Your AI companion

This means a woman can tell you admire her even when she is not looking at you. This is important as she may smile, preen etc meaning she is interested in you because she notices you are looking

 

[Big Rig]

Great thread about life Zoots

Never knew about copilot. It is microsoft's AI version of CHATGPT

So I asked copilot how to find out if someone is interested in you.

Answer is below

Guys seem to think these are pick up tips to get someone interested but the reality is a woman signals first
PUA stuff is crap IMHO and tips are meant for someone who has signalled interest first as they are meant for someone who already is interested.

That is how the game has always been played. To play the game you must become aware of signals of interest.

More than once I have told a woman I have met to relax and to stop expending her energy being defensive as I understood her lack of sexual interest through her signaling and I was not trying to pick her up.

These tips are meant only if you receive signs of interest as in your post 4


Mirror them
Get physically closer
Compliment them
Maintain eye contact
Ask more personal questions
Light touch but do not rush into intimacy

Microsoft Copilot: Your AI companion

 

[Big Rig]

Microsoft Copilot: Your AI companion



I looked up Ben Franklin effect where people like you more if they have done you a small favor not you doing them one, this seems counter intuitive. You need to be gracious after they have done the favor.

This is cognitive dissonance in action. People want their actions to align with their beliefs. Their sub conscious says I must like this person to have done them a favor. Ben Franklin used this trick to get people to like him.

 

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[Josephine]

What happened to just be yourself ?

 

[Shaquille Oatmeal]

Nod when talking to get someone to agee with you

I find this passive aggressive and it pisses me off in certain situations.
Earlier this year a client was pressing on a deadline that I couldn't deliver and I had repeatedly told them why.
So in a subsequent meeting the client started trying to get me to agree on the earlier date, AGAIN, as if we hadn't already spoken about it and was nodding their head and I just stared at them, and then said NO.
It was so satisfying. lmfao.

 

[Big Rig]

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She seems like the latest "expert" making millions helping people like Tony Robbins does.

I listened to a few of her vids on the road to entertain myself.

No deep insights. A few tricks she read from self help books and she also employs hypnosis from some weekend hypnosis school she went to.

I tried hypnosis from a MD as OHIP paid for 80% of the sessions so I gave it a go.

Very underwhelming.

They get you to relax as they tell your subconscious to make the changes you desire, but all they are doing is talking to your coinsciousness as you lay there.

I expected to go into a trance or something. I thought it was all crap so I was told it will not work unless you are 100% into it as you are sabotaging yourself.

Past regression, communicating with the dead, ESP etc works on the same principle of belief and will not work if you are an intelligent skeptic who has resonable doubts

Cults work the same way on the naive and gullible lonely losers

 

[Zoot Allures]

I find this passive aggressive and it pisses me off

I agree, it is passive manipulation. Thread make you aware of it

I always look for psychology tricks from salesmen that piss me off yet are very interesting.

Here are a few I have noticed. What worries me is the ones I do not notice.


A female salesman put her hand on my shoulder to get me to trust her. Another tells me to go see the competition hoping that comment encourages me not to see the competition. Another tells me I can get a better price from this other guy and he is right so I will always come to him first because I now believe he is honest but he is using psychology to rip me off.

Analogy is shoe salesman telling you competitor has better prices on shoe laces so you come back to him to buy the shoes. Very subtle. The subtle ones are the worse.

 

[Zoot Allures]

Productive psychology hack on yourself

The perfect conditions to start work is starting work because starting work is the perfect condition

 

[Zoot Allures]

Vanessa Van Edwards is a speaker with Science of People and author of several books. She specializes in science-based people skills.
Her YouTube channel has over 66 million views and her TEDxLondon talk has over 5.7 million views.