prepaying
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Not a chance. Although there would never be any dishonest intent from any established providers, they would likely be feeling like it's a free-bee next time you come over (especially if it's been a while since the prepayment). If they need the money, it would have been spent and next time they will once again need money.Hi there, when a regular SP asks you to prepay for your next appointment and offers you a discount in terms of more time, would you do it?
Just my opinion.
But, to be fair, we can never paint everone with the same brush. So, if YOU feel them trustworthy, YOU like them, YOU feel comfortable with it and YOU feel they need the financial assistance, then sure, take a chance.
Depends on the regular. I have one SP who I would certainly do that for without question if I had the cash on hand.Hi there, when a regular SP asks you to prepay for your next appointment and offers you a discount in terms of more time, would you do it?
It all depends on the lady asking. I have guests that prepay, once a year I offer a retainer of 4 sessions for $1000 for gentlemen I know. It brings their cost down to $250 for a 2 hour visit. Well worth it for both of sides, they get a great deal and I have my January expenses covered incase it's slow. It all depends on who is asking for it and why. withpassion has a valid point, some people borrow money and once it's spent have issues squaring up...
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I was thinking not a chance until I read Cat's email. I would consider that with a reputable escort, but I am interested in Cat's numbers. Brings 2 hours down to 250....from what?
Ouch! That blows.Did it once and regretted it. She was a MPA i have been seeing regularly for over 2 years who needed extra cash that month. I prepaid for 3 sessions. When I called to book my first prepaid session I got the run around, then I knew she was screening me. Finally gave up altogether. No idea why she would destroy a good, longstanding relationship like that but who knows...
I have done this a few times, but only with a regular SP I have seen many times. I know I am going to see them again and if I can help them out, then why not.Hi there, when a regular SP asks you to prepay for your next appointment and offers you a discount in terms of more time, would you do it?
Likewise, I have done this with one of my regulars. Unfortunately, I have not been able to contact her since. It really left a bad taste in my mouth.Did it once and regretted it. She was a MPA i have been seeing regularly for over 2 years who needed extra cash that month. I prepaid for 3 sessions. When I called to book my first prepaid session I got the run around, then I knew she was screening me. Finally gave up altogether. No idea why she would destroy a good, longstanding relationship like that but who knows...
Because she wanted the money... I've been burnt like this also and had to come to the realisation the the "quick money" meant more to her than the "long-standing relationship". Cold hard truth that's very difficult to sallow.No idea why she would destroy a good, longstanding relationship like that but who knows...
Only with no expectations of another session and only with money I could afford to lose.Hi there, when a regular SP asks you to prepay for your next appointment and offers you a discount in terms of more time, would you do it?
I have an arrangement with my usual SP where I pay for 10, 2 hour appointments in advance which resulting in quite a savings for me and also I enjoy not having to leave the $ each time. I usually still bring a small gift. She suggested it to me and told me that several of her clients have this type of arrangement with her. It is working out well thus far.
That's great that it works out. I would think this is a rare exception though.I have an arrangement with my usual SP where I pay for 10, 2 hour appointments in advance which resulting in quite a savings for me and also I enjoy not having to leave the $ each time. I usually still bring a small gift. She suggested it to me and told me that several of her clients have this type of arrangement with her. It is working out well thus far.
That's what I'm getting at. It's like herelookin says, the quick money trumps anything else and it's difficult for them to provide a service with no cash coming in.Did it once and regretted it. She was a MPA i have been seeing regularly for over 2 years who needed extra cash that month. I prepaid for 3 sessions. When I called to book my first prepaid session I got the run around, then I knew she was screening me. Finally gave up altogether. No idea why she would destroy a good, longstanding relationship like that but who knows...
Plus one on outingI think if it happens, the hobbyists should out them here.
As for the ones that work out...kudos, as it can be a great arrangement.
If one of us walked out after service and refused to pay, we would be black-listed. If providers make a pre-pay arrangement and refuse to follow through with the service, it's only fair that hobbyists know to avoid her.Plus one on outing
I guess I have a similar arrangement with a dancer... Prepaid for a few hundred dances. Not particularly afraid that she wont honor them.
Kudos to you for keeping your word. (Can't wait to meet)
I have a regular lady I see who I would certainly trust the same way.
I have a regular lady I see who I would certainly trust the same way.
I recently had a gentleman pre-pay for for an upcoming encounter, when I mentioned in conversation that I was saving to get a car. I was extremely flattered to be given the trust, because to me that was huge. We have had our time together since then, and with his help I was able to get myself a new (used, lol!) car well before I would have been otherwise.
So sometimes there can be these times where you can assist a girl, and it's valid. Other times, unfortunately, that's not the case. My advice on it would be to listen to your gut; don't listen to what's in your pants, lol!
But yet you said that you "...got the run around, then I knew she was screening me".No outing for me just yet. I had too great a time with her and she treated me really well like a friend; deep down, I still don't believe she was trying to take advantage of me, and I am hoping against hope that she'll reappear some day.
Not to be harsh but... Really do you honestly think she's coming back and, if so, she'll remember the arraignment?
