Pre Op Trans Recommendations?

[KittyCaterina]

I have a regular couple in Ottawa that drives up to Kingston to see me.

They have had many horrible experiences before coming to me, being ripped off, because they were naive and new to this. So now they are very cautious.

Today they asked if I could help them find a reputable pre op trans escort in Ottawa who sees M/F couples. Must be fully interactive with him and her equally.

Any help would be appreciated either here or via PM.

Thanks!

 

[KittyCaterina]

Sorry I asked.

What is appropriate to speak about during a date with me is really up to me, not you.

They feel comfortable with me, they trust me and I appreciate that.

Thanks to those who PMed me.

 

[gibarian]

I'm saying that when you or they find somebody you're interested in, don't approach them with, "Hello X! We're looking for a pre-op trans escort, and we decided to get in touch with you!" or speak that way during the date.

 

[KittyCaterina]

I'm saying that when you or they find somebody you're interested in, don't approach them with, "Hello X! We're looking for a pre-op trans escort, and we decided to get in touch with you!" or speak that way during the date.

My mistake.

Ok, so instead of trying to shame me and insult the intelligence of my clients, do you have any recommendations?

This thread was created for just that.

Not to turn into a conversation about proper terms and opinions of terms.

EDIT:

Also, I forgot to mention that breasts are preferred but not a requirement.

Penis IS a requirement.

 

[gibarian]

No, I don't, good luck with your search.

 

[weekender99]

You should let 'em know there are more sensitive/intelligent ways to speak about a trans person than using the phrase "pre op," since that terminology assumes the person in question is seeking reassignment surgery (and not everybody is). Somebody's future intentions or desires -- especially regarding something as serious as that -- isn't really appropriate conversation for a date, since it's highly personal information. Save your boomer friends from embarrassing themselves with harsh, outdated language.

It sounds like they're looking for a trans woman with a penis? Just say that!
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I'm saying that when you or they find somebody you're interested in, don't approach them with, "Hello X! We're looking for a pre-op trans escort, and we decided to get in touch with you!" or speak that way during the date.

Please stop cluttering up these threads with your unsolicited advice and sanctimonious bullshit. It’s tiresome and makes them harder to read.

 

[thumper18474]

look on sites like
ShemaleCanada
or
Tgirlforums...

BTW..its just ..Tgirl...no need for the "pre-op"