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Women of Bountiful defend polygamous lifestyle
CTV.ca News Staff

Stung by harsh criticism in the past year, the women of a polygamous town in British Columbia opened their doors to TV cameras Tuesday. The women, some of them teen brides, defended their community and say they aren't being abused.

The community is known as Bountiful, and its leaders are fundamentalist Mormons who broke away from the main church years ago. They moved from Utah to the land near Creston, B.C. more than 60 years ago, and the population is now approximately 1,000.

The men of Bountiful commonly take three or more wives in "celestial unions," while girls are married and can become pregnant at the age of 14 or 15. The women refer to themselves as "sister wives."

The women who spoke to the media Tuesday said that they have been upset by the media coverage of their community. "Polygamy is a team of players that care about each other," said Nina Oler.

There have been accusations that the people of Bountiful are involved with trafficking girls from the Fundamentalist Latter-day Saint community in Utah to become brides in Canada.

Debbie Palmer is a former Bountiful wife speaking out on the situation. "There are underage children who have been put into these marriages and then impregnated by older men," she told CTV News. " We'd at least like to see them prosecuted in that kind of situation."

Bountiful's leader is Winston Blackmore, who admits to marrying several young women, but won't reveal exactly how many.
"We're not bad guys," he says. "We just want to live normal happy lives just like everybody else. You just get this wild imaginations in your head, which most jealousy is."

One of his wives, Zelpha, perceives the lifestyle with an attitude not uncommon to the community. "I have lots of companions," she says. "I have lots of friends, and lots of children. There's never a dull moment."

The adults insist that the children are free to leave the community, but most of them can't imagine ever leaving Bountiful. Those who have left say they are not welcome back.

Linda Price, a Creston resident who has followed events in Bountiful, calls it "Canada's dirty little secret."
"If anybody cares about children, they should be concerned about this," she told CTV Vancouver.

While the children protest this assertion, Price isn't buying it. "They're brainwashed," she says. "They're going to tell you they're happy."

http://sympaticomsn.ctv.ca/servlet/ArticleNews/story/CTVNews/1114047524371_109456724?hub=topstories


WTH???????? :confused:
 

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Never could understand why Harper thought he could score points in the same-sex marriage debate by saying polygamy would be next (assume he thought polyandry would be just as scary or even more so). What business is it of mine, or anyone elses, as long as children aren't being exploited, and there's no spousal abuse?
 

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Alluring said:
Women of Bountiful defend polygamous lifestyle
CTV.ca News Staff


The men of Bountiful commonly take three or more wives in "celestial unions," while girls are married and can become pregnant at the age of 14 or 15. The women refer to themselves as "sister wives."

The women who spoke to the media Tuesday said that they have been upset by the media coverage of their community. "Polygamy is a team of players that care about each other," said Nina Oler.

There have been accusations that the people of Bountiful are involved with trafficking girls from the Fundamentalist Latter-day Saint community in Utah to become brides in Canada.

Debbie Palmer is a former Bountiful wife speaking out on the situation. "There are underage children who have been put into these marriages and then impregnated by older men," she told CTV News. " We'd at least like to see them prosecuted in that kind of situation."

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One of his wives, Zelpha, perceives the lifestyle with an attitude not uncommon to the community. "I have lots of companions," she says. "I have lots of friends, and lots of children. There's never a dull moment."

The adults insist that the children are free to leave the community, but most of them can't imagine ever leaving Bountiful. Those who have left say they are not welcome back.

While the children protest this assertion, Price isn't buying it. "They're brainwashed," she says. "They're going to tell you they're happy."

http://sympaticomsn.ctv.ca/servlet/ArticleNews/story/CTVNews/1114047524371_109456724?hub=topstories


WTH???????? :confused:

Maybe they actuallly are happy. I have seen pictures of their families and they seem happy it's a strange arrangement but it seems to have been working for them.
If a young girl is totally against it I am sure she could leave.

There are some women who want to run everyone's lives and they are the type that would like to dictate what strippers can and can't do also.
 

ham2004

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the whole idea has roots in the bible..

The concept as a whole, is rooted in the teachings of the old testament.
 
Good question Alluring

It's not for everyone I know I could not do it again, but in the midst of it all. It is just like any culture. depending on how you are raised to believe things then it's o.k. to be in that lifestyle. If you are raised to have two separate mom's (step and biological then it's o.k.) If it works for them the more power to them.

Just imagine the lessen stress due to income and costs. All the helping hands and the free time you would be able to have to spend with the family. All the children brought up to share and learn from each other. there was a study done many years ago. Forget whom and when exactly. (I remember reading it) That the first born did not know much by the later generation of children born learnt from each other. Of course good and bad things.

I believe with everthing there is always a pro and con to everything but if it works for them so be it. It's like that everywhere. You never know?
 

stinkynuts

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Polygamy is an accepted lifestyle in many parts of the world. Personally, as long as everyone is a consenting adult, I see no reason why this should be anybody's business.

Personally, I would welcome having more than one wife, if I could support them, and if all wives were willing to be part of this kind of family. The only problem is raising chidren in this type of environment. They would face the same social stigma gay couples do.
 

Alluring

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stinkynuts said:
Polygamy is an accepted lifestyle in many parts of the world. Personally, as long as everyone is a consenting adult, I see no reason why this should be anybody's business.

Okay I think some might have misinterpreted my "WTH???????? :confused: "

I'm just wondering why it's being brought to the media attention and why they are invading other peoples choice in lifestyle. what business is it of anyone elses as long as no ones getting hurt ect...
 

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I could honestly care less about the whole polygamy situation. If they are all consenting I ain't going to try to stop it. When there's a will there's a way and it's going to keep on occuring throughout the world.
 
my opnion I am sticking to it.

It's all those ppl who were raised to believe all this stuff was wrong. The ppl whom have no life sort of speak and are jealous. That is my opinion. I might be wrong but then again what do you guys think.
 
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