PM an SP
- Thread starter Tino
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She hates you.
However I think that soulsphere is probably closer to the truth.
Absolutely! Busy, on vacation, having computer problems the list goes on. Further (although it would never apply to the charming women who post here on TERB) some SPs are shall we say a bit ditzy from time to time. Don't keep e-mailing her every single day, but in a few days e-mail her again.
Even if she doesn't want to see you (unless perhaps you are psycho-stalker with serious anger management issues - which from your post does not seem the case) you are owed the courtesy of a response - - she regrets that her schedule will not allow her to see you for the indefinite future.
Are we talking indy or agency girl?
Agency girls pay a rather significant cut of their rate for their agency to deal with bookings and correspondence. Most do so in part because they don't have the time or don't want to invest the time in replying to emails/PMs. Many are also not on Terb regularly and therefore may take more time to check/reply to PMs.
If it's an indy who advertise and post regularly here on Terb, depending on how long it's been since you PM her, she may either not have had the time yet to reply, she may be away for the holiday, she may have skipped over your PM by mistake if she gets lots of mail, she may be ignoring you, among other explanations. Try sending her another PM/email. If you still don't get a reply after a few days, move on.
Agency girls pay a rather significant cut of their rate for their agency to deal with bookings and correspondence. Most do so in part because they don't have the time or don't want to invest the time in replying to emails/PMs. Many are also not on Terb regularly and therefore may take more time to check/reply to PMs.
If it's an indy who advertise and post regularly here on Terb, depending on how long it's been since you PM her, she may either not have had the time yet to reply, she may be away for the holiday, she may have skipped over your PM by mistake if she gets lots of mail, she may be ignoring you, among other explanations. Try sending her another PM/email. If you still don't get a reply after a few days, move on.
Busy is most likely the case. Think that if they got 100+ emails/pms a day how do they keep up responses to all when they are busy with other more important things. They do have much to do such as beautification, shop for work realated stuff, phone call answer/scheduling, clean/prepare incall, travel to outcalls and the time SPing itself. All of this is on top of functioning as a regular person as they need to sleep, eat, take care of house, kids, etc. too.
I'm sure they will give a priority to your pm if your trying to schedule an appointment. Keep this in mind.
I've not had too much trouble with SPs replying to my PMs or regular emails.
Although, I am right now waiting for a reply to a PM I sent late last week. Considering I'm not 'in the market' immediately, I am none too concerned. She will reply eventually. And if she doesn't, then she doesn't get the pleasure of meeting me and someone else will. Win-win for me, as I still see someone.
Although, I am right now waiting for a reply to a PM I sent late last week. Considering I'm not 'in the market' immediately, I am none too concerned. She will reply eventually. And if she doesn't, then she doesn't get the pleasure of meeting me and someone else will. Win-win for me, as I still see someone.
Damn, I hate that, especially AFTER I keypunched an 800 word reply. The other thing I hate is when I keypunched a 1,000 word reply and the system tells me that "Weirdo" has been banned.
The SP could have poor time management skills and actually think that you're someone else. Hopefully not the case, but let's face it, many of these ladies are inundated with emails/pm's/etc. and some are better at communicating than others are.
Maybe you dont pay her enough, did you ever think of that. Cheap rates will get you cheap service. Then again, Im not sure what your arrangements with her are.
johnniejoytree don't you really think that you're pushing the upping of rates alittle too hard. Everytime you post that's what you do.
250 is sufficient, plus all the other things that come into play. You keep pushing the increase and business just might go poof away!
250 is sufficient, plus all the other things that come into play. You keep pushing the increase and business just might go poof away!
