Please Play Safe

[luvdog]

There was a comment on a thread the other day that one of the members of TERb caught a STD. I don't know the name.
But I hope that he has the decency not to participate and quit.
It scares me to think that a bbbj or greek can do that to you.

Spreading something like that ruins everything for all of us.
I am not trying to preach here.
I am almost tempted to quit totally because I am afraid of getting something like that.
So I believe in playing safe. Better to "play" with a condom than to be dead.

Luvdog

 

[boyr]

There was a comment on a thread the other day that one of the members of TERb caught a STD. I don't know the name.
But I hope that he has the decency not to participate and quit.
It scares me to think that a bbbj or greek can do that to you.

Spreading something like that ruins everything for all of us.
I am not trying to preach here.
I am almost tempted to quit totally because I am afraid of getting something like that.
So I believe in playing safe. Better to "play" with a condom than to be dead.

Luvdog

I concur...that's why I am "recently retired" but missing the hobby and and for now only have sex with my GF whom I know very truly....It is really scary nowadays where the spread of STD and HIV is increasing here in Canada....SP, especially young willing ladies who indulge in bbbj, and greek are susceptible to the disease.....SCARY....play always safe....

 

[Drunken Master]

*Sigh*

Everybody put on your hard hats and get ready for the deluge of mostly uninformed opinion about what's safe and what's not.

Whenever one of these threads pop up, I always go from being confident enough to spread my seed generously and liberally around the land - don't worry, I always come to my senses and like to wear a raincoat for all kinds of weather, BJ included - to being scared out of my wits that impure thoughts about the hot chick on the subway will give me genital warts.

But no, please, strap me into the emotional roller-coaster. Weee! It's fun!

 

[WoodPeckr]

Careless trend developing?

Over the past year I have also noted a more carefree trend by some gals. Have been offered bbfs a few times, twice had to stop a gal who would have proceeded unless I stopped her. One gal was a new one I hadn't ever been with before, which really surprised me.

Always play safe, less to worry about afterwards.

 

[LeatherDoll]

Time for some real information - Update & Review

Sexually Transmitted Disease Information

http://www.niaid.nih.gov/factsheets/stdinfo.htm (Comprehensive Fact Sheet)

http://www.thebody.com/Forums/AIDS/SafeSex/#AnsByCat (Expert FAQ, including hep and other STDs)

http://www.cdc.gov/nchstp/dstd/disease_info.htm (Centre for Disease Control STDs and Infection Fact Sheets)

http://my.webmd.com/content/article/10/2953_511.htm?z=2953_00483_6501_00_39 (Guide to STDs)


Safer Sex and AIDS Information

http://hivinsite.ucsf.edu/InSite.jsp?page=kbr-07-02-02&doc=2098.444b (Plain Language Guide to Safe and Responsible Sex)

http://hivinsite.ucsf.edu/InSite.jsp?page=kb-07-02-02 (Safer Sex Methods Research Knowledgebase)

http://hivinsite.ucsf.edu/InSite.jsp?page=pr-04-02 (Safer Sex FAQ sorted by activity)

http://www.aegis.com (AIDS Education Global Information System -- Go to "Key Topics - Prevention")

For Services and Live Information, try these Toronto Resources

http://www.city.toronto.on.ca/health/ai_index.htm (City of Toronto AIDS and Sexual Health Infoline)

http://www.city.toronto.on.ca/health/sexual_health_index.htm#sexuallytrans
(City of Toronto Sexual Health Information and Clinics)

 

[Annessa]

WHY?

Hi,



Why in todays day in age (2004) there is even a discussion about protection being used between a 'Client and a 'SP'? I think a few reasons.


1. Stupidity; Plain and simple. There is no other reason why 2 people would agree after knowing each other for 10 minutes to NOT use protection.


2. Money; I won't ever name, names (I have no right to exercise privacy for myself if I don't give it in return to clients/potential clients.) but I have had clients PM, Email, Call me asking/offering more money for protection not being used when I told them ALWAYS I use protection.
The bookings were never made even when the client said they were 'okay with using protection' when I'm NOT okay that at some point with someone else they didn't. So, in my eyes they are the type of person who plays with fire. Which for me means no touchie.


3. Bookings; 'SP' that are known to not use protection are also known to get more bookings because through the 'grape-vine of men chat' the word will get around to all the men that want a SP that doesn't use protection because the 'market' for 'SP' that don't use protection is smaller then the 'market' for 'SP' that do use protection.


Then you get the famous liners... 'I can't get hard with a condom on... I don't really feel a thing wearing a rubber... I can't cum with a condom on...' which is BS that I wish I could record and play back for them after the fact so they could see how much they valued their life in that moment.


If any 'hobbyist' or 'SP' has contracted any STD then I pray to 'God' that they have enough common sense to get the help and care they need to get better and stay away from hobbying/working before you go around and hurt other people that have done nothing to you.


Take care and be safe.



Annessa
xoxo

 

[Ophelia Black]

Exactly. When clients ask about services without condoms, this is what I hear;

"Hi. I'm an utter moron. I don't respect you, your other clients, myself, or my family. I think I'm so special that risk doesn't actually apply to me, and wishful thinking is my substitute for common sense. Oh, and did I mention I'm a moron?"