When do you make the transition from being a persistent hobbiest, tracking down an ellusive lady to a stalker? Is it the number of attempts to contact? Or when you post a question about her in a thread and it gets yanked? Or she has turned down several attempts for a session?
Persistent Hobbiest or Stalker
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The irony of this is - that when I was younger. I used to believe that if you're persistent and never give up - she'll eventually realize that your adoration is undying and strong enough to endure.
Funny thing is, look at how those crazy stalkers also defend and justify their stalking and harassment behavior towards their target.
"I'll never stop working to help her realize the love we share and how we belong together. Eventually she'll realize that our love is forever and that I'm the man she wants and needs."
Or words to that effect.
Thats why, I'm usually the one that doesn't make a move. But if she makes a move on me and gives me a hint that she likes me. Then, only then will I inquire if she wants to hang out.
Funny thing is, look at how those crazy stalkers also defend and justify their stalking and harassment behavior towards their target.
"I'll never stop working to help her realize the love we share and how we belong together. Eventually she'll realize that our love is forever and that I'm the man she wants and needs."
Or words to that effect.
Thats why, I'm usually the one that doesn't make a move. But if she makes a move on me and gives me a hint that she likes me. Then, only then will I inquire if she wants to hang out.
Great responses guys. No, I am not infatuated with her, just tried to arrange a session. Waited about 30-40 minutes, calling once in a while, but she was a no show.
She has dropped out of sitesince then. PM is full. So, I am adopting Amazon's motto: no show, no more opportunities.
I was just wondering how much is being persistent trying to schedule, and when one crosses the line.
She has dropped out of sitesince then. PM is full. So, I am adopting Amazon's motto: no show, no more opportunities.
I was just wondering how much is being persistent trying to schedule, and when one crosses the line.
AdrenalinJunkie said:
Perhaps she's trying to tell you something in a nice way, like " I don't wish to see you!"
This happens way more often than guys think for whatever reason and sometimes it makes no sense to the guy but all the sense in the world to the lady, so respect her and time to let it go and move on.
