performance anxiety?

[Picard]

Has any Terbites experience performance anxiety? I am referring to the inability to climax despite that you are still excited. You feel that the climax point is almost there but it never reach the apex. lets ignore possiblity of antidepressants that might interfere with performance issue.

Anyone has useful advices? No BS stuff guys.

 

[a 1 player]

It has happened to me in the past a couple of times while in a relationship, never with a SP though. In my little mind it was because I was not sure if I would last long enough and not live up to my partners expectations. I am a pertty open guy and discussed this with both partners (both times it was the first time with my girlfriends). They were cool about it and understood, once the pressure was off everything returned to normal. Hope this helps for what it is worth.

 

[tboy]

In all honesty I wouldn't worry too much about it. If you can't cum, or get it up for that matter, especially in a relationship, just remember: good sex doesn't begin or end with an erect penis.........

 

[Picard]

ok. thanks for advices.

 

[Simmerhorn]

You must also remember the down side to ED treatments like Viagra is sometimes an annoying inability to climax. Especially with MSOG. My first SP I was so scared I wanted to make sure I could get it up, so I took 1 blue pill......I got an diamond cutter stiffy immediately and just couldnt cum.....the worst part was it was with Bobbi (swear to God) and I nearly died keeping up with her.....it was only for an hour...if it had been 2 I would now be 6 feet under....She could not have been cooler about the whole thing....finally I was so frustrated I faked an orgasim in mish and thought I had gotten away with it....so she rolls over and looks at me and says something like...you didnt did you....so I turned red and said no, how did you know ( I thought I had been so cool tieing the condom the whole 9 yards) and she says without a smile..."when a man comes I know"...Jesus....I booked 2 hours with her the next night and everything was fine...(no blue pill)...Man I hope she comes back...Anyway, I am not like real experienced at this whole thing, but it seems to me there really is no pressure, these women are pros and for the most part have seen it all ...as long as you are nice to the SP, treat them with respect just like a "real " date and you are clean when they show up everything is gonna be cool...

 

[Simmerhorn]

Gosh I am sorry I just realised you were talking about a regular relationship...and I was longwinded about an SP experience...sorry...

 

[mass123]

finally I was so frustrated I faked an orgasim in mish and thought I had gotten away with it....

It's impossible to fake an orgasim with a woman, I swear they must be psychic, we are open books to them. Just enjoy the journey. Thanks for the candid story Simmerhorn!

 

[Picard]

I find your comments very useful simmerhorn. I have difficulty climax with sp girl. How did you overcome the problem without the viagra on second date with sp girl?

 

[ceo8888ca]

That's Easy....

How did you overcome the problem without the viagra on second date with sp girl?

He told us he was with "Bobbi" the Legend ! Bobbi always make sure that her client "cum" at least twice in any single session. If you are in GTA, you should meet Bobbi at least once in your Hobbying life.

 

[homonger]

I occasionally have a problem coming, getting it up has never been an issue (knock on wood). I used to blame myself when this happened, i.e., not enough rest, too much to drink, too much whacking off, but now, I tend to blame the sp. I know that sounds harsher than it was meant, but I have found after years of hobbying and literally hundreds of sp's, that a hot sp who turns me on gets me off everytime. It doesn't matter how tired or sore I am.

 

[Simmerhorn]

Okay, you asked me why I was okay the second time I saw Bobbi and could get off. I am not positive, but here is what I think. First of all I didnt take any Viagra the second time, and I am not a doctor but I think that stuff helps with the gtting up part, but if you are anxious it doesnt help with the cumming part. Second, this woman was (hopefully is ) totally dedicated to getting you off, it is like a mission from God for her. Part of the reason I was okay the second time was I had booked for 2 hours so there was no rush and the second reason was I kinda felt like I knew her a little which for some reason relaxed me. The thing that was coolest about her was she seemed honestly glad to see me and it was like she considered the disasterous first encounter was like a warm-up. Honestly, she could not have been nicer. This all happened a couple of years ago, but I still think of how sweet she was rather than the nasty sex. And man I did not know Greek was possible in some of those positions....l

 

[wooly110]

Has any Terbites experience performance anxiety?
Anyone has useful advices? No BS stuff guys.

Have you taken a look at my reviews? I'd say about 1/4 - 1/3 don't have a finish. Different reasons for some, others, I have no idea why. For me, some reasons are fatigue, first time jitters, and generally being a shy person can be part of the problem.

If you really are concerned I suggest going to a clinic and talking to them about it. They'll be able to help you a lot more than we ever will.


Just know that you're not the only one though.