I wont make a joke out of it. I just picked up on three threads where there was a major fight going on. I am very interested in putting a more mature face on reviews and the people and their debates.
First off, it isn't just Durham, you can find this crap on most of the boards from time to time.
Second of all, not enough guys are doing reviews of enough of the ladies on this board. There are a lot of SP's I see in the paper that have never been even MENTIONED by the guys on here. Why? I cant figure it out, but reviews are what this board should be about for the most part.
Third, too many people are coming on here with alternative motives, that is either defending their agencies or webservices or fighting and settling old scores in the business. I know of one lady in the biz who was slagged on and off on here for years and just couldn't understand why the women who were slagging her were so determined to try to ruin her business. It didn't work for one, and for two, this board should be about the guys who review the ladies, and what the guys think of the reviews and their experiences. If the ladies want a BITCH board, they should take it to their spot on this TERB forum site. I personally get more out of what I think of the ladies from some of their crap than I do the reviews. The childish bitchy ladies guarntee I wont go see them. They have no idea on how bad they look to prospective clients by engaging in this constant battle with each other.
I wish people would just treat people with more respect. You have ladies who see nothing wrong with ripping a guy off for 200 bucks for crappy service (crappy by answering cellphones in the appt., showing up drunk, showing up stoned, showing up and not caring about what they are doing, etc.). IF I am going to give you 200 bucks for an hour, I want your attention and best attitude. IF you cant give me that, get out of the business, because if a woman takes my money and treats me like crap, I will post the review on here, you can bet your ass. I wont be nasty, but I will tell the truth.
People, show a little respect. The guys have to treat the ladies better and understand in a review, you have to respect certain points of the ladies privacy, and you can write a negative review without calling her names and slagging her virtues as a human.
This aint rocket science, but I am afraid my plea here will be on deaf ears on some of you.
A very wise guy (Sheik) always used to point out to all of us in the early days of TERB to "treat em with respect boys"...and I have followed his example for the most part.