Path to Pleasure

taylortime

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Hi all! I've got my dancing shoes ready! Can't wait to see you all at the PARTY!
Back to the thread now......I am curious to know from those of you who are comfortable posting or pm'ing me what led to you entering this "hobby" (male and female perspectives). What avenues did you use to learn about it and eventually come to play in this way.

As for me. It comes pretty naturally..no pun inteded ok intended. I'm a pervert...in the best possible context:). I started out as an enormous flirt. I Loved to tease the boys..... and I still do but now I make sure I please them too! When I was going to school I hated having to work so many hours in retail to make any kind of money. Many friends of mine waitressed and made triple what I made, but I just couldn't handle lugging all that food ( I was a bit of a klutz) but I loved the cash in my pocket. I looked for a job at a bar where beer was all I had to worry about. I ended up as a waitress at a strip club. By keeping a higher level of sexuality in my day to day life I found out I was happier all around. After a while another waitress and I were lured by the big $$ and tried dancing. I didn't like the stage part, I was not as self confident as I am today and having so many eyes on me was too intimidating. I did enjoy the LD part though, but nobody would let me do one without the other. Thats why dancing only lasted for 10 days or so (that and....I can't stand beer breath:)) I was out of the scene for a while and when I got into the internet I began performing live adult website shows from home. The $$ was too inconsistant so I took a big step and went to work as an MP. I liked the intimate contact and found it difficult to restrain myself at times (I usually succeeded:)) Again inconsistancies in regular paychecks and so many legal issues going on made me seek something else. My BF at the time and I visited Hedonism a few times and several Swinger dances. My self confidence was no longer an issue and I decided to try escorting. I am currently satisfying my pleasure seeking as an independent SP and enjoying it very much (like any job there are downsides). I am slowly and delicately "coming out" to some friends and family. I find it very difficult to lie and cover up something that current society forces me to in so many ways. Societies views are changing but for me, they can't change quick enough. They are a factor in what lays befor me on my pleasure seeking path.

Naughty dreams
Taylor
 

Not So Much

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Typical Story....

Wife decides the marriage has lost an edge and "its time for you to go, now if you please". Turns out she has been spending time filing that edge with someone new. Mind you, I can see her point. Pretty tough to have a 4BR home in the burbs, two 6 figure incomes, two healthy children, dozens of friends, trips every year and a devoted husband. You know, "the hard life", no much wonder she longed for more.

More than just a bit confused, dazed, embarassed and disappointed, after a couple of months of that, I emerged as the "Anti-Not So Much". Hard to do, work schedule being what it is. Late one night, came across the GOE W/S. Had no concept of this "hobby" or it participants. Looked at the pictures and decided on "Summer". Just could not get myself to push the buttons on the phone. Looked at the pictures again for inspiration, but I just could not do it.

Weeks passed, turned into months. Was buried in work which helped to avoid the plight of an empty Condo and equally empty life to go with it. Hard to socialize when you get home at 12:15 AM, 1:10 AM, 11:45 PM six days a week. Sunday was reserved for sleeping and refueling the physical and emotional tank. What to do ?

Got lots of friends, mainly married couples. Too much baggage there. Work with people half my age, not much opportunity there. While sex was important, I just wanted someone to have some fun with. Got the balls to make a call. Enter "Lady X" from Agency "Y". More fun than the law allows that girl (no pun intended). Every couple of weeks turned into weekly, 2 hours turned into 3, 3 into 4 you get the picture.

We had fun, too much fun. Never quite dawned on me that the enjoyment was part of the service, or was it. Trust being a bit of an issue, I thought it may be better to entertain some other visitors. Enter some of the EE ladies (had discovered TERB by this point). Much better ? No conversation, but lots of .......

Sometimes, more is better, sometimes it is not. Still working the wacko hours (see time of this post). Limited prospect of the work arrangement changing for some time. Having said that, there has to be some fun in life (right Ariel). Just want to feel normal, even if it is for a only a couple of hours based on a a paid service. Got to get some faith back and obtain some relief along the way. Perhaps explains why I prefer kindness and respect in comments about the ladies over vivid service descriptions, X out of 10 scoring and acronyms. I appreciate what they do for me as a person, regardless of how cute they are, what they looked like or how good their BJ skills are.

Can't see things changing anytime soon, so I may be in this for the long haul. Having said that, I don't think homonger has anything to worry about from me in terms of competition. (LOL).

Finally, I should thank the people that run this forum and the people that participate in it. It has become a part of my day and put some fun, and new perspective, into things.
 

taylortime

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Wow Anya.....does your writing work for someone else too. Maybe I'll give you my future vision, you wrtie the story and we'll see if it comes true:)
 
Re: Typical Story....

Not So Much said:
Wife decides the marriage has lost an edge and "its time for you to go, now if you please". Turns out she has been spending time filing that edge with someone new.
Like he said. Some time later, I discovered Terb and a whole world I didn't know even existed. I was taken by the intelligence and wit of the members of Terb. After lurking for a while, I decided to take the plunge. Extensive research led me to Sasha Jones. I was nervous as hell... having been with the same woman for 18 years... but Sasha was such a good tutor. Lifted my spirits immensely and allowed me to feel that I wasn't an absolute freek for paying for sex.

Since then, I have become an addict! I am now in a new relationship though, and I'm wrestling with quiting the hobby. I'm not so naive to think I can do it easily though. I think I am constantly surprised by the 'quality' of people I've met through this hobby... both providers and clients. Some have become friends, even though we've never met face to face...
 

doubledown

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About 15 yrs ago, on a golf trip near Tampa, I was driving around and saw these "modelling" studios. For $20 you got to spend 30 minutes with a model in a private room. The model explained that you get her modelling a bikini and with some tipping, she gets naked and you can also get comfortable. Ended with a nude HJ and haven't looked back since.
 
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