On the Subject Of Relationship Building.

[SlapTitan]

Hi Folks,

I'm new to the hobby and I'm wondering how I build a solid working relationship with an escort. I've put some thought into what my time in the hobby should look like and I know for sure that I'd rather achieve regular status with a reputable gal or group of gals that can vouch for me rather than bounce around LL rolling the dice.

 

[krealtarron]

Just pay the girl what she asks, show up and leave on time, do not ask for off the clock time or anything extra because you are a regular (unless she chooses to give you), dont get emotionally attached, be hygienic.

Also know that every good escort will turn bad one day. Meaning because you are a regular you will see service levels go down at some point. Time to bail at that time instead of feeling obligated to book regardless. Always treat her as an escort and someone that you are paying to provide you the service. Otherwise it leads to all kinds of personal boundary pushing for yourself.

Oh and do not use LeoList. Use Twitter, Terb, Tryst.

 

[Robichouuu]

Just pay the girl what she asks, show up and leave on time, do not ask for off the clock time or anything extra because you are a regular (unless she chooses to give you), dont get emotionally attached, be hygienic.

Also know that every good escort will turn bad one day. Meaning because you are a regular you will see service levels go down at some point. Time to bail at that time instead of feeling obligated to book regardless. Always treat her as an escort and someone that you are paying to provide you the service. Otherwise it leads to all kinds of personal boundary pushing for yourself.

Oh and do not use LeoList. Use Twitter, Terb, Tryst.

Excellent advice, don't get to personal and keep all business, it will make things better for you in the long run.

 

[IM469]

I think you answered your own question. You build a regular status with a service provider by regularly using her service. Or am I missing something ?

 

[SlapTitan]

Just pay the girl what she asks, show up and leave on time, do not ask for off the clock time or anything extra because you are a regular (unless she chooses to give you), dont get emotionally attached, be hygienic.

Also know that every good escort will turn bad one day. Meaning because you are a regular you will see service levels go down at some point. Time to bail at that time instead of feeling obligated to book regardless. Always treat her as an escort and someone that you are paying to provide you the service. Otherwise it leads to all kinds of personal boundary pushing for yourself.

Oh and do not use LeoList. Use Twitter, Terb, Tryst.

not much round me on tryst. Next stop terb review boards/classifieds.

 

[Pleasure Hound]

Hi Folks,

I'm new to the hobby and I'm wondering how I build a solid working relationship with an escort. I've put some thought into what my time in the hobby should look like and I know for sure that I'd rather achieve regular status with a reputable gal or group of gals that can vouch for me rather than bounce around LL rolling the dice.

1 - See her at least once per month
2 - Talk with her if she likes conversation
3 - Treat her well
4 - Pleasure her well
5 - Give her compliments (they do like that)
6 - Take her out to dinner/shopping if you can afford that - they love this
7 - Tell her how beautiful/sexy she looks - they never tire of that.....
8 - Give her gifts, if you can afford that
9 - If you feel really bold (and rich), try elevating to Sugar Daddy
10 - Always book for one hour or more.....

 

[Erosboy]

It's not really all that different from building a relationship with any other woman. You'll click with some people and not with others. Some will be more interested in you than others. some will turn you on more than others. In all cases, respect their boundaries, pay their rates, don't haggle, be clean, rspectful, show up and leave on time and then if you click with someone it will happen. But remember: you're always a client, nothing more

 

[John_Jacob]

All good advice.

"or anything extra because you are a regular (unless she chooses to give you)".

For me, I find this to be particularly true. I'm continually surprised that sometimes the less you ask for the more you get. It takes longer but it's better. I know what the standard service is and I'm coming for the standard service so hey, extras are not really actively sought. My favorite phrase I heard was (in a frustrated tone), "you know you can ask for absolutely anything and you know I'm going to do it right?" Didn't ask and she just went right to town with...interesting...stuff.

 

[Mr Deeds]

It's like any other business transaction, you build a relationship there will be some perks and benefits and as long as you don't cross certain lines you'll have alot of fun.

 

[Ponderling]

Just chant to yourself every time you are awake and alone: I am more than a walking ATM...I am more than ....