Oldie but Goodie!

CONGRATULATIONS to all of you born in the 1930's, 40's, 50's, 60's, 70's and early 80's!

First, you survived being born to mothers who smoked and/or drank while they carried you. They took aspirin, ate blue cheese dressing, tuna from a tin and didn't get tested for diabetes.

Then after that trauma, your baby cots were covered with bright colored lead-based paints. You had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, doors or cabinets and when you rode your bikes you had no helmets, not to mention the risks you later took hitchhiking.

As children, you would ride in cars with no seat belts or air bags. Riding in the back of a van - loose - was always great fun. You drank water from the garden hose or a fountain, not from a bottle. You shared one soft drink with four friends from one bottle and no one died.

You ate cakes, white bread and real butter and drank pop with sugar in it, but you weren't overweight because you were always outside playing.

You would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as you were back when the streetlights came on. No one was able to reach you all day and you were ok.

You would spend hours building your go-carts out of scraps and then ride down the hill, only to find out you forgot the brakes. After running into the bushes a few times you learned to solve the problem.

You did not have Playstations, Nintendos, Xboxes, video games, 99 channels on cable, surround sound, mobile phones, text messaging, personal computers/tablets, Internet or Twitter, etc. You had friends and you went outside and found them.

You fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and there were no lawsuits from these accidents. You played with worms (well most boys did) and mud pies made from dirt, and the worms did not live in you forever. You made up games with sticks and tennis balls and although you were told it would happen, you did not poke out any eyes.

You rode bikes or walked to a friend's house and knocked on the door or rang the bell, or just yelled for them.

Local teams had tryouts and not everyone made the team. Those who didn't had to learn to deal with disappointment. Imagine that! The idea of a parent bailing you out if you broke the law was unheard of. They actually sided with the law.

This generation has produced some of the best risk-takers, problem solvers and inventors ever. The past 50 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas. You had freedom, failure, success and responsibility and you learned how to deal with it all.

You might want to share this with others who have had the luck to grow up as kids before the lawyers and the government regulated our lives for our own good. And while you are at it, forward it to your kids so they will know how brave their parents were.
 

bebe

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As children, you would ride in cars with no seat belts or air bags. Riding in the back of a van - loose - was always great fun. You drank water from the garden hose or a fountain, not from a bottle. You shared one soft drink with four friends from one bottle and no one died.

You ate cakes, white bread and real butter and drank pop with sugar in it, but you weren't overweight because you were always outside playing.

You would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as you were back when the streetlights came on. No one was able to reach you all day and you were ok.

You would spend hours building your go-carts out of scraps and then ride down the hill, only to find out you forgot the brakes. After running into the bushes a few times you learned to solve the problem.

You did not have Playstations, Nintendos, Xboxes, video games, 99 channels on cable, surround sound, mobile phones, text messaging, personal computers/tablets, Internet or Twitter, etc. You had friends and you went outside and found them.

You fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and there were no lawsuits from these accidents. You played with worms (well most boys did) and mud pies made from dirt, and the worms did not live in you forever. You made up games with sticks and tennis balls and although you were told it would happen, you did not poke out any eyes.

You rode bikes or walked to a friend's house and knocked on the door or rang the bell, or just yelled for them.

Local teams had tryouts and not everyone made the team. Those who didn't had to learn to deal with disappointment. Imagine that! The idea of a parent bailing you out if you broke the law was unheard of. They actually sided with the law.
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And I still remember doing all of those things!!
 

lynn_ha

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Fabulous time to grow up, no texting then as you had to actually talk to the person! Mr Google was totally out of the picture, you had to do your own research!
Sophia Sinclair, enjoyed reading your thread!
 

unassuming

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Aaahhh, the memories!

We rode our bicycles without helmets.

Went to the library to use the Encyclopedia Britannica to for homework assignments

You had to use a pay phone if you weren't at home

There were no calculators, we had to use a slide rule with logarithm charts to do complex math equations

You actually had to go to a record store to buy music- vinyl, cassettes or 8 tracks.

You actually had to wait a year or 2 before a first run movie was aired on free tv

Camping out overnight at ticket agency to wait for them to open up at 9am to be first ones to buy tickets for your favourite band that came to town.

etc.........

Life was more fun back then !
 

Goodoer

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My team and I were just talking about this. Pretty funny. I remember the '80s. My Mom told me to watch out for the 'pedophile', but I was still allowed to go to the park by myself to meet friends.

Bar life in the '90s and even early '00s was free of cell phones. You actually had to talk to people... and Strip Clubs were a Right of Passage. You've haven't lived unless you climbed/swung on a pole and had a dancer take the cash off of your lips. We all survived and had fun to boot! (and where I grew up, you probably went to high school with that dancer - and thought she was still a cool chick!)
 

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Go back earlier than that. After school, racing on my bike to the record store to get the latest CHUM Chart.
 

unassuming

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Go back earlier than that. After school, racing on my bike to the record store to get the latest CHUM Chart.
LOL, I remember those!

No wonder kids are obese these days, when we were kids if you wanted something, you had to physically go get it.
 

malata

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Thanks for the memories! You've described my 80's playground to a T. In a way, i was a rebel without a cause, but living life in the physical world, shaped the maverick within

 

Fathammer

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Funny thing is that I still do most of those things..................just a little slower these days.
 

kherg007

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As a survivor of having to get up and ready for school on my own and make my own lunch and do my own homework ....i can relate to the trauma of a good education and decent paying job. Thankfully I've been receiving therapy from the lovely Canadian ladies who inhabit this board....I think they've helped me progress...lol
 

Mr Deeds

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I grew up on the west coast so my summers were spent sailing and swimming in the ocean, and my winters skiing. Grouse mountain was a 20min bus ride away.From the time I was 10yo. we would camp out by a river for days on end and fish for food, we had BB guns and sling shots we made out of pine branches. We would hop the freight trains and ride them out to Horseshoe Bay, then hop a ferry to one of the islands and explore. We would sit on the rocks and stuff out faces with oysters right out of the water. The sense of freedom and independence taught me a lot.
 

RZG

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Great post Sophia, it all applies to me. I turned 13 in the summer of 1970, probably the most influential decade ever for a teenager if you had a rabid interest in music, motorcycles and muscle cars. We played with all sorts of firecrackers, bows & arrows, lawn darts, big knives .22 rifles, dirt bikes and made homemade flamethrowers with leaded gas. I used to play with vials of mercury that my Mom gave me, she worked in aircraft manufacturing. More than once I`d spill one onto the table or floor and it would be so fascinating as it scattered into a million silver balls. School and parents taught us accountability, responsibility and consequence for your actions. I see many young teens now as so many manipulated, beaten down empty shells controlled by media and phones. Sad.
 

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Lets not forget, sporting big afros on your vagina.
 

MissCroft

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Yep. Described my childhood perfectly. I would ride my bike all the time (no helmet) and collect snails in my pockets. Would also ride to the store to buy my grandma her cigarettes. You came home when the streetlights came on.
 

RZG

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Thought I was the only one who did that. Did same for my Mom. Think I was about 12 or so.
Add me to that list too. And my neighbours husband ( who was a full on alcoholic) got me to buy him big bottles of pure vanilla extract to get a buzz from. Their son was a full patch Satans Choice who started my life long motorcycle addiction.
 
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