Gentlemen, and, hopefully, Ladies;
I would be interested in your input here.
As background, I have seen the same SP for about 10+ years...pretty much exclusively. Call me boring or whatever, but that is just my style..she has been out of the public eye by choice for at least 6 years.
Anyway, her life has moved on, and for that I applaud her. So, I am now looking for my next ten year relationship.
I have tried a few ladies that you gentlemen have recommended (highly I might add) and found one that had promise. After one 30 minute visit with this particular girl. I saw a glimmer of hope. Right physically, and right in terms of connection (or at least I thought).
So, we meet once last week(1/2 hour...I'm sort of fishing, yet out of practise with someone new)....all good, and I ask her if she would like to meet again. The answer is yes, and, oh, by the way, recommend me to your friends and for stags etc....OK
I call again for Tuesday of this week, and we agree to a 6:00PM appointment. I did say I would phone to confirm or change depending on when I could get out of work (my ability to leave work is unpredictable).
So, at about 5:15 I start calling to confirm...Voice Mail...Leave message...No Answer...OK...So I'm there(out of my way)...Do I ring the doorbell??....I agonize for a bit and do. She answers...and seems resigned to getting this done..."Is this a bad time?" I ask..."Well yes...a family member is here losing it" (to paraphrase). "OK",I say, "maybe we should rebook". "Yes, do you want a morning appointment?" "No I can't" (All paraphrased , but all true..I had an early meeting)
So...for those keeping score...Stood up once....
So, here it is Wednesday...
She leaves me a message at about 1:34PM "PLease call"
I'm thinking..."that's yesterdays message" (see previous paragraph, where she never called me back!)...but I digress...
So, I call her at 5:18 and leave her a message..."How about 6:00?"
She calls me back...I answer...and I quote..."6:00 is not good for me..how about 6:30 or 7:00?"
I had another appointment at 7:00...but I am really horny, so I ask if I can call back, as I am now going to have to see if I can delay my meeting. "Sure...but I am on break...make sure you leave a message"
So...like an idiot, I change plans, and am able to do 6:30...and...like an idiot, I call and say 6:30 is now good. This was about 5:55. She asks if she can call me back. No call.
So....now I am at the point of no return...I either head home, or I head to her place, being that it is about 6:00. I leave a message (keeping in mind she had told me 'leave a message'.) About 6:20, I started calling her number, I will admit, about 4 times.
Finally, I leave a message that I would be interested in a 9:00AM appointment tomorrow (Thursday), and if she could confirm.
HERES THE KICKER---She calls me back and suddenly says that her Mom is in the Hospital and that I'm "freaking her out" with all these calls...and to please lose her number and never call her again(!?!)....I never knew, nor did she ever express this to me previously. Yet she could posibly be my new regular based on her looks and service.
Do I pursue, or give up....
And if I pursue, how I do I do so without seeming like some kind of creep?
Regards,
Mark
PS...Any recommendations of slim ladies, don't need boobs, don't need pretty face....just slim...they are all gorgeous to me! would be appreciated!
I would be interested in your input here.
As background, I have seen the same SP for about 10+ years...pretty much exclusively. Call me boring or whatever, but that is just my style..she has been out of the public eye by choice for at least 6 years.
Anyway, her life has moved on, and for that I applaud her. So, I am now looking for my next ten year relationship.
I have tried a few ladies that you gentlemen have recommended (highly I might add) and found one that had promise. After one 30 minute visit with this particular girl. I saw a glimmer of hope. Right physically, and right in terms of connection (or at least I thought).
So, we meet once last week(1/2 hour...I'm sort of fishing, yet out of practise with someone new)....all good, and I ask her if she would like to meet again. The answer is yes, and, oh, by the way, recommend me to your friends and for stags etc....OK
I call again for Tuesday of this week, and we agree to a 6:00PM appointment. I did say I would phone to confirm or change depending on when I could get out of work (my ability to leave work is unpredictable).
So, at about 5:15 I start calling to confirm...Voice Mail...Leave message...No Answer...OK...So I'm there(out of my way)...Do I ring the doorbell??....I agonize for a bit and do. She answers...and seems resigned to getting this done..."Is this a bad time?" I ask..."Well yes...a family member is here losing it" (to paraphrase). "OK",I say, "maybe we should rebook". "Yes, do you want a morning appointment?" "No I can't" (All paraphrased , but all true..I had an early meeting)
So...for those keeping score...Stood up once....
So, here it is Wednesday...
She leaves me a message at about 1:34PM "PLease call"
I'm thinking..."that's yesterdays message" (see previous paragraph, where she never called me back!)...but I digress...
So, I call her at 5:18 and leave her a message..."How about 6:00?"
She calls me back...I answer...and I quote..."6:00 is not good for me..how about 6:30 or 7:00?"
I had another appointment at 7:00...but I am really horny, so I ask if I can call back, as I am now going to have to see if I can delay my meeting. "Sure...but I am on break...make sure you leave a message"
So...like an idiot, I change plans, and am able to do 6:30...and...like an idiot, I call and say 6:30 is now good. This was about 5:55. She asks if she can call me back. No call.
So....now I am at the point of no return...I either head home, or I head to her place, being that it is about 6:00. I leave a message (keeping in mind she had told me 'leave a message'.) About 6:20, I started calling her number, I will admit, about 4 times.
Finally, I leave a message that I would be interested in a 9:00AM appointment tomorrow (Thursday), and if she could confirm.
HERES THE KICKER---She calls me back and suddenly says that her Mom is in the Hospital and that I'm "freaking her out" with all these calls...and to please lose her number and never call her again(!?!)....I never knew, nor did she ever express this to me previously. Yet she could posibly be my new regular based on her looks and service.
Do I pursue, or give up....
And if I pursue, how I do I do so without seeming like some kind of creep?
Regards,
Mark
PS...Any recommendations of slim ladies, don't need boobs, don't need pretty face....just slim...they are all gorgeous to me! would be appreciated!
