Offensive to ask for cbj?

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Should I expect a weird reaction if i ask for cbj if SP is offering bbbj? Just a personal preference and not personal towards the SP.
 

massman

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No. Noone will refuse safe service imho.
Almost no one, tho I do remember reading one girl’s website, where she said she only offered bbbj, and that if you wanted cbj, to seek someone else. 🤷‍♂️ different strokes 🤷‍♂️
 

jjz

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Should I expect a weird reaction if i ask for cbj if SP is offering bbbj? Just a personal preference and not personal towards the SP.
Definitely not, just let the lady in question that you would prefer having the condom on. Like Josephine said most ladies will not refuse Safe service.
I used to ask for CBJs and the ladies were great about it!
In fact my regular only offer CBJ.
 
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Also, Safe GFE is a thing. More common or even the norm outside of the GTA, but still a thing here.
 

JeanGary Diablo

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Two points:

1. I don't think any SP would be offended if you requested a CBJ
2. It should be said, however, that condoms do not do much to reduce risk of STDs like herpes and HPV, which would be the two most common STDs transmitted via oral sex
 

Ceiling Cat

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Is it offensive to ask for a black coffee at Tim Horton's when everyone else is asking for double, doubles?
 

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I worry about the same thing each time. So far, 100% SP accommodate the CBJ with a smile.
 

lomotil

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Should I expect a weird reaction if i ask for cbj if SP is offering bbbj? Just a personal preference and not personal towards the SP.
There are issues of money and personal safety for both provider and client.
If the provider charges a premium to suck your cock raw over prophylactic barrier protected, then money may be reduced in some transactions. The SPs are usually cool for the most part though.
However, the condom would provide a greater degree of protection against std transmission for both parties.
In this game, the customer is not always “right” but has the rod so to speak.
 
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