Newcomer Needs Info About Info and Girls

[kennedy.toph]

Hello,

I’m new to this forum and have never been with an escort. Can anyone answer questions that I have about the industry and girls?

I would be very appreciative if someone could help.

Thank you,

 

[Mr Deeds]

most of the people on this board are always willing to help out with out judging. But if you are uncomfortable with some of your questions pm the lovely Jessica or one of the other ladies or even me. Im sure you'll get all the answers your looking for (apologies to you Jess if Im out of line for speaking for you)

 

[Titalian]

Hello,

I’m new to this forum and have never been with an escort. Can anyone answer questions that I have about the industry and girls?

I would be very appreciative if someone could help.

Thank you,

PM me your age and your questions. I'll try and help you. First and foremost, why you are you looking to get involved in this industry.

 

[kennedy.toph]

Thank you all for your willingness to help. It's much appreciated.

Some background on me: I'm a 23 year old male, who wants to do some exploring. I've only had a handful of sexual experiences so far and I would like gain some more. It's quite hard for me to meet girls simply because of my work schedule, so I decided to explore companions/escorts.

Not knowing to much about the industry except for what's portrayed in movies and television, I'm naturally very apprehensive about trying this out.

Questions:

1) Generally how safe is going to out-calls or in-calls for the client?
(Going into a complete strangers residence is quite nerve-wracking.)

2) I've seen postings about companions doing BBBJ and practicing other unsafe sex acts. How easy is it to contract a sti/std?

3) Are independents better or worse than girls who work for agencies?


Is there anything I should know?

 

[nobody123]

1) Generally how safe is going to out-calls or in-calls for the client?
(Going into a complete strangers residence is quite nerve-wracking.)

Depends on who you are seeing. If you see an established, well-reviewed provider, you'll be fine. Sure, you'll probably have a wee case of the nerves no matter what, but there should be no worries about anything untoward or unexpected happening. If you see some random gall from BP, then all bets are off.

2) I've seen postings about companions doing B-B-B-J and practicing other unsafe sex acts. How easy is it to contract a sti/std?

This has been discussed to death. No way in hell will you ever get a definitive answer - except for unprotected penis-in-vagina type sex. That is one thing everyone agrees is a no-no when hobbying. At any rate, there are lots of older threads on TERB, as well as sexual health resources all over the interwebz that discuss these issues. Read up and make an informed decision.

3) Are independents better or worse than girls who work for agencies?

Yes.

...sorry, couldn't help myself. As with question #1, it depends on who. Some independents are singularly fantastic, and some are scam artists and worse. The same goes for agencies. There are agencies that are a cut above, and agencies that are fly-by-night operators. As with everything, do yer due diligence. Read up on anyone you are interested in seeing (here on TERB, for example) and you'll be awright.


On a side note, you may be more comfortable having your first experience with an MA rather than an SP. Just something to consider... and discard if it doesn't ring true for you.