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[ShenaniganD]

Hi Everyone, I’m fairly new to the escort and erotic massage industry (less than a year) but I’ve been lucky enough to meet some great providers and I’m now starting to rebook ones I felt I connected well with. I recently joined terb as was suggested by a couple of these great women I have met. I have a couple question that I intend for providers but anyone can add their 2 cents. I mean these things sincerely and hope to not disrespect anyone. I’m very private about my encounters and so I almost exclusively stay in the 1 hour to 1.5 hour mid day weekdays escapes and I strictly stick with independent providers.

my questions are:
1) for providers that openly advertise they prefer longer dates that include an activity, do you prefer to not meet someone with my preferred restrictions?
2) if you did meet someone that you didn’t feel you connected well with, would you still re-book them if they asked or would you be straight forward that you don’t feel you connected well?
3) I’ve done a lot of research of Ottawa providers, would it be out of line if I suggested a provider that I thought was a good fit for someone’s post even if I’ve never met them? I would acknowledge that I haven’t met them.

looking forward to being part of this community

 

[Alison_xox]

Hi Everyone, I’m fairly new to the escort and erotic massage industry (less than a year) but I’ve been lucky enough to meet some great providers and I’m now starting to rebook ones I felt I connected well with. I recently joined terb as was suggested by a couple of these great women I have met. I have a couple question that I intend for providers but anyone can add their 2 cents. I mean these things sincerely and hope to not disrespect anyone. I’m very private about my encounters and so I almost exclusively stay in the 1 hour to 1.5 hour mid day weekdays escapes and I strictly stick with independent providers.

my questions are:
1) for providers that openly advertise they prefer longer dates that include an activity, do you prefer to not meet someone with my preferred restrictions?
2) if you did meet someone that you didn’t feel you connected well with, would you still re-book them if they asked or would you be straight forward that you don’t feel you connected well?
3) I’ve done a lot of research of Ottawa providers, would it be out of line if I suggested a provider that I thought was a good fit for someone’s post even if I’ve never met them? I would acknowledge that I haven’t met them.

looking forward to being part of this community

Great intro .. I like the fact that you are asking those questions. It means that you care for the connection to be shared with the provider. Not just one sided.

I would be happy to give my 2 cents.

I have been in the industry for over 20 years. That means that I had the opportunity to build a wonderful clientele that matches my personality, my opinions and my energy.
I am obviously not 20 years old and the connection with my client is extremely important to me. I am also low volume and this permeates me to be more selective.
I would definitely not book a client that I didn’t click with again. For two reasons ..
1) The session won’t be great for any of us so I would rather book someone where we can both enjoy our time together and avoid any potential awkwardness..
2) If I book someone I know is not a good match for me , I am missing the opportunity to book a new client that I could turn into a regular because we are a great match.

I don’t really feel the need to tell them when we don’t click, because I won’t see them again anyways.. No need to hurt their feelings.
I am a very bubbly and happy person so it’s rare that I don’t connect with a client.
It would need to be a situation where their hygiene is not on point or their attitude is disrespectful.

I am usually booking my clients during the week. The most popular time is 10am .. Most of my clients are married and have a family/job/responsibilities so they can’t just disappear on a Saturday.
They come during work or between appointments..
My longer dates are with gentlemen’s that are travelling for work & wish to enjoy social time. We’re talking about 4-5h here and they mostly happen on the weekends and are booked months in advance.
Sometimes it’s just great not to spend the day alone in a hotel room. It’s fun to do an activity and have company… Share a meal and talk to someone.

Everyone has different needs and we are here to fill up those needs. It is absolutely natural to find some of us are a better match for you. I find wonderful that you wish that bond to be both ways.. I am sure the providers you have met , appreciate that from you

Kisses
Ali

 

[ShenaniganD]

Thank you Irresistible Ali for your detailed reply. I hope some others weigh in also.
I’ve actually been learning a lot more just reading through some of these threads and I appreciate you making the effort. For me it’s absolutely about the connection, but time is a huge factor, you have confirmed my thought that I’m best to work on growing existing connections vs randomly trying new connections. See you in March

 

[ShenaniganD]

So new question for all the “terbers” out there:

in my limited experience I’ve found Leo List to be nothing but a huge waste of time, yet that seems to be a common search spot for everyone here, I have found that those providers on OIC or tryst to be close to 100% on spot as advertised. What am I missing here, is it just a bargain shopping thing?

I recognize that may seem snippy or judgmental, but I seriously want to understand a different perspective.

 

[Hotgirl fever]

Hi Everyone, I’m fairly new to the escort and erotic massage industry (less than a year) but I’ve been lucky enough to meet some great providers and I’m now starting to rebook ones I felt I connected well with. I recently joined terb as was suggested by a couple of these great women I have met. I have a couple question that I intend for providers but anyone can add their 2 cents. I mean these things sincerely and hope to not disrespect anyone. I’m very private about my encounters and so I almost exclusively stay in the 1 hour to 1.5 hour mid day weekdays escapes and I strictly stick with independent providers.

my questions are:
1) for providers that openly advertise they prefer longer dates that include an activity, do you prefer to not meet someone with my preferred restrictions?
2) if you did meet someone that you didn’t feel you connected well with, would you still re-book them if they asked or would you be straight forward that you don’t feel you connected well?
3) I’ve done a lot of research of Ottawa providers, would it be out of line if I suggested a provider that I thought was a good fit for someone’s post even if I’ve never met them? I would acknowledge that I haven’t met them.

looking forward to being part of this community

Good morning. If you are a very private person my advice is to try to find a provider who is not face out and who is very discreet.
For your questions
1 ) If the provider prefers longer dates with an activity if the potential clients who are looking for a provider for activities are looking for the same, then they will find it benefit to them .
2 ) I don’t think you need to tell someone you are not a good fit ! A grown adult knows when there is a mutual chemistry or not !
3 ) My advice is to try to avoid doing recommendations about SPs to potential clients ! Some of us are not interested in getting to know the whole town .

My advices are :
- Try to read the providers adds , websites and if they have social media accounts try to follow them to see if they have the vibes that you are looking for.
- Again Iike she said , you will waste the provider time if you don’t do a minimum research or you don’t text them or follow them to get their vibes .
- Please avoid recommending people to people in SW for some of us it is their full time job , for some us it is an escape. Plus your YMMV , everyone is different regardless of background, how we vibes , how we connect with people.

I personally don’t like recommended clients because they come and expect the same things from the other person forgetting we are humans and everyone is different.
I like men who came to me because they like who I am as a person, so we can connect really well .

 

[ShenaniganD]

Good morning. If you are a very private person my advice is to try to find a provider who is not face out and who is very discreet.
For your questions
1 ) If the provider prefers longer dates with an activity if the potential clients who are looking for a provider for activities are looking for the same, then they will find it benefit to them .
2 ) I don’t think you need to tell someone you are not a good fit ! A grown adult knows when there is a mutual chemistry or not !
3 ) My advice is to try to avoid doing recommendations about SPs to potential clients ! Some of us are not interested in getting to know the whole town .

My advices are :
- Try to read the providers adds , websites and if they have social media accounts try to follow them to see if they have the vibes that you are looking for.
- Again Iike she said , you will waste the provider time if you don’t do a minimum research or you don’t text them or follow them to get their vibes .
- Please avoid recommending people to people in SW for some of us it is their full time job , for some us it is an escape. Plus your YMMV , everyone is different regardless of background, how we vibes , how we connect with people.

I personally don’t like recommended clients because they come and expect the same things from the other person forgetting we are humans and everyone is different.
I like men who came to me because they like who I am as a person, so we can connect really well .

Thank you, this is also very helpful and confirms the vibe I was getting

 

[ArgoHater]

So new question for all the “terbers” out there:

in my limited experience I’ve found Leo List to be nothing but a huge waste of time, yet that seems to be a common search spot for everyone here, I have found that those providers on OIC or tryst to be close to 100% on spot as advertised. What am I missing here, is it just a bargain shopping thing?

I recognize that may seem snippy or judgmental, but I seriously want to understand a different perspective.

The SPs on OIC had to get their start somewhere, and a lot of them did that on CraigsList or MPAs. They built-up their clientele, put the effort in to build their brand, have a good/modern/comprehensive website, can afford professional photos, have a strong SM presence, etc. They also wouldn't get to that "level"without providing amazing service. I would say that they have earned their compensation levels.

LL is about all we have right now for SW ads, so it iw what it is. IMO, LL doesn't care a fig about whether the ads are legitimate or not - they are making money on every ad posted. There are an inordinate number of scam ads on LL, but they are fairly easy to spot. There are a couple of threads on here describing techniques to spot them. This is why this forum is so valuable.

 

[MikeO]

The SPs on OIC had to get their start somewhere, and a lot of them did that on CraigsList or MPAs. They built-up their clientele, put the effort in to build their brand, have a good/modern/comprehensive website, can afford professional photos, have a strong SM presence, etc. They also wouldn't get to that "level"without providing amazing service. I would say that they have earned their compensation levels.

LL is about all we have right now for SW ads, so it iw what it is. IMO, LL doesn't care a fig about whether the ads are legitimate or not - they are making money on every ad posted. There are an inordinate number of scam ads on LL, but they are fairly easy to spot. There are a couple of threads on here describing techniques to spot them. This is why this forum is so valuable.

Excellent advice, IMHO. Simply put, low-restriction party friendly girlz who are available 7-24 for incalls and outcalls and who won't have social media presence or provide photo confirmation of their pics and who have no or negative reviews are all (collectively) red flags. You want to enjoy the ladies who have a history of checkered flags...not red ones! Good luck comes with research.

 

[BeastKingGoLion]

Excellent advice, IMHO. Simply put, low-restriction party friendly girlz who are available 7-24 for incalls and outcalls and who won't have social media presence or provide photo confirmation of their pics and who have no or negative reviews are all (collectively) red flags. You want to enjoy the ladies who have a history of checkered flags...not red ones! Good luck comes with research.

But to that end it clearly must be working because a provider did breakdown how they must have a crypto wallet and the conversion necessary. So they have lines in the water and are getting bites. It is interesting at any given moment how many Leo ads are active. Even more interesting is how many of these providers are in town with an incall and getting no bites. Especially when as you stated zero social media, prickly when it comes to non identifiable confirmation pic (a hand showing number 4 or toothbrush), and zero reviews despite looking outstanding.

 

[Hotgirl fever]

The SPs on OIC had to get their start somewhere, and a lot of them did that on CraigsList or MPAs. They built-up their clientele, put the effort in to build their brand, have a good/modern/comprehensive website, can afford professional photos, have a strong SM presence, etc. They also wouldn't get to that "level"without providing amazing service. I would say that they have earned their compensation levels.

LL is about all we have right now for SW ads, so it iw what it is. IMO, LL doesn't care a fig about whether the ads are legitimate or not - they are making money on every ad posted. There are an inordinate number of scam ads on LL, but they are fairly easy to spot. There are a couple of threads on here describing techniques to spot them. This is why this forum is so valuable.

Well there are some MPAs who left the OIC and there are MPAs who are independent who are not members.
Like I said

The SPs on OIC had to get their start somewhere, and a lot of them did that on CraigsList or MPAs. They built-up their clientele, put the effort in to build their brand, have a good/modern/comprehensive website, can afford professional photos, have a strong SM presence, etc. They also wouldn't get to that "level"without providing amazing service. I would say that they have earned their compensation levels.

LL is about all we have right now for SW ads, so it iw what it is. IMO, LL doesn't care a fig about whether the ads are legitimate or not - they are making money on every ad posted. There are an inordinate number of scam ads on LL, but they are fairly easy to spot. There are a couple of threads on here describing techniques to spot them. This is why this forum is so valuable.

Well there are some great SPs who left the OIC and there are some there . Like I said above , there are people who are doing SW full time and are putting money into websites, photo shoot and being on social media most of the time. There are also the ones who are doing it on their spare time.
Not sure I agree with that ! In NYC for example , if you have a high paying job, a nice apartment , you can start escorting.
There are lot of IVY leagues girls who are escorts . That doesn’t mean they earned their compensation level. For some women it’s a lifestyle, a choice etc .
All the things you mentioned is about budgeting ! Canada is very cheap for SW , Toronto and Montreal are still great options .

 

[elkober]

Hi Everyone, I’m fairly new to the escort and erotic massage industry (less than a year) but I’ve been lucky enough to meet some great providers and I’m now starting to rebook ones I felt I connected well with. I recently joined terb as was suggested by a couple of these great women I have met. I have a couple question that I intend for providers but anyone can add their 2 cents. I mean these things sincerely and hope to not disrespect anyone. I’m very private about my encounters and so I almost exclusively stay in the 1 hour to 1.5 hour mid day weekdays escapes and I strictly stick with independent providers.

my questions are:
1) for providers that openly advertise they prefer longer dates that include an activity, do you prefer to not meet someone with my preferred restrictions?
2) if you did meet someone that you didn’t feel you connected well with, would you still re-book them if they asked or would you be straight forward that you don’t feel you connected well?
3) I’ve done a lot of research of Ottawa providers, would it be out of line if I suggested a provider that I thought was a good fit for someone’s post even if I’ve never met them? I would acknowledge that I haven’t met them.

looking forward to being part of this community

As Argohater points out, our ad options are limited and this forum is valuable - not just for avoiding scammers, but for pointing out hidden gems on LL. This usually means someone TOFTT and reported back here. Kudos to them. There’ a ton of postings here on lady’s advertising on LL - the good, bad and ugly. Also as pointed out providers have to get their start somewhere and ad options are limited. While we are all aware of LL pitfalls, I’m sure there are many here like me dependent on those LL reviews.

 

[Alison_xox]

Well there are some MPAs who left the OIC and there are MPAs who are independent who are not members.
Like I said
Well there are some great SPs who left the OIC and there are some there . Like I said above , there are people who are doing SW full time and are putting money into websites, photo shoot and being on social media most of the time. There are also the ones who are doing it on their spare time.
Not sure I agree with that ! In NYC for example , if you have a high paying job, a nice apartment , you can start escorting.
There are lot of IVY leagues girls who are escorts . That doesn’t mean they earned their compensation level. For some women it’s a lifestyle, a choice etc .
All the things you mentioned is about budgeting ! Canada is very cheap for SW , Toronto and Montreal are still great options .

I agree
Many very well established providers left Oic
I left , Nadia left , Olivia also left , just to name a few..
I think surfing platforms is the best .. LeoList , VIP Favours , Twitter , Here , Tryst ect … The ones that are active will mostly post on many platforms.. We don’t usually just stop at one platform..

Happy shopping

Kisses
Ali