New member seeking advice/direction

[bigbangupper]

Greetings, TERBites.

I didn't see a general thread for beginners' questions and the stickies are about little more than generic forum etiquette. I definitely don't want to clog up the reviews section with questions, either, even though I have seen some people ask for recommendations there. I suppose that a noobie FAQ or a "learn how to meet with an escort in 10 easy steps" thread can't exist due to legal or other reasons. In light of all that, I apologize for making a new thread just for myself, but I'm out of ideas. I won't go into the full details because I don't know whether my questions can be addressed on TERB or if these queries belong on some other dark corner of the Internet.

The condensed version: I have never met with an escort before and I am planning to do so within the next few weeks.

Questions:

1. Are escorts who are not listed on TERB or are not members of TERB allowed to be discussed or recommended here?

2. The type of escort I'm seeking would be of Far East Asian (ethnically Chinese, Korean, or Japanese) descent. Foreign or Canadian-born are both fine as long as she speaks English. I know that there are some obscure online groups out there which specialize in this sort of escort category, but I don't speak any of those languages and I'm worried that I can face some obstacles if I try getting involved in exclusive communities. I've noticed that the Asian escorts on TERB are (both visually and in other ways) more of the "Asian-Canadian" variety who look different from the women you normally see in York Region and at GTA universities. Is TERB the right place to get help in this pursuit or should I keep looking for other sources?

Thanks in advance for any feedback. Given the nature of this hobby, I hope I don't get crucified too badly if I asked the wrong things.

 

[Carvher]

1. Yes
2. If you're planning on seeing an Asian lady, don't limit yourself to ones that speak good English. Are you going to discuss current events? Maybe have a debate on the US election? Or are you there to have crazy sex?
I'm guessing #3 would be your answer. There are tons of Asian agencies in the GTA who have Hong Kong, mainland Chinese, and Korean girls. I would say probably 80% of the best experiences I've had are with such ladies.

 

[bigbangupper]

Thanks, Carvher.

To clarify, I don't need her to speak good English. But especially as a first-timer, I'd prefer if she could at least speak it well enough just in case I need her advice or one of us has a sudden medical problem or something. It's more of a safety precaution because I don't know what to expect.

As for those agencies, I'm vaguely aware of some of them (haha, there's a reason the difference between my join date and today's date is significant, I guess), but I can't imagine how anyone would decide which one to use or how to schedule an appointment with no prior experience. Should I just browse the websites of as many agencies as I can learn about and make a note of the escorts who work in my desired area? It has been a while since I looked, but I recall that some of those Asian agencies' websites didn't have some of their content in English.

I would need the escort to be operating in York Region and at a venue that is accessible via public transit. With a general idea of the location and the sort of escort I seek, does anyone have any opinion on what steps I should take next? I can provide more detail about the characteristics of the kind of escort I'm looking for if that would help.

My thanks again, gentlemen. I also happily accept advice via PM if anyone prefers to share their insight privately. I can understand the need to do it that way.

 

[Carvher]

I'm in the west end so can't give you any advice to the best agency in York region. Can someone help this guy out?

 

[popstop]

This is a good list of some of the best Asian SPs at the moment:

https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?579951-New-to-downtown-looking-for-hot-Asians!

 

[Don Draper]

Are you only looking for Incall or would Outcall serve your needs?

 

[bigbangupper]

This is a good list of some of the best Asian SPs at the moment:

https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?579951-New-to-downtown-looking-for-hot-Asians!

Thanks for the link. I'm afraid to report that the kind of ladies being recommended in there are... sort of exactly the type I'm not looking for. It's hard to describe without putting an overly racial angle on it, but those women resemble the look that older White men prefer (no offense to anyone). You know, squarer jaw, Southeast Asian features, sort of a pseudo-exotic perceived "sexiness" to their faces and body language. Basically, any agency that has mostly non-Asian women, then one or two Asian women for the sake of variety will probably be catering to a clientele group that I don't fall into. What I seek is more of the "HK girl next door" look and demeanour, like what you'd see at a bubble tea shop or late-night hang-out spot in Markham, while still being friendly and approachable to outsiders. I guess it's a little sad that I'm even able to be that specific, but that's a story for another day.

Hope I didn't manage to offend everybody on TERB with that paragraph. As a disclaimer, I'm attracted to women from everywhere.

Don Draper: It'll have to be in-call. I do have quite a number of concerns (mostly hygiene-related) about how to handle in-call appointments, but I'll hang on to those for now.

Thanks for the replies everyone. I have enjoyed reading the responses so far.

 

[kherg007]

Start out by seeing indies Sinthia (canadian born vietnamese) or Akira (almost no accent Japanese). Both well reviewed, both happy to take you through the steps, both a blast and a half w senses of humour. They even duo so pony up the samolians and see them both. Both very sharp, smart women too, both love what they do. Here's akira web page http://www.akirayofu.com/ and here is Sinthia's http://sinthia.ca/home/ and here is an older page when they were offering duos https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?575477-%F0%9F%94%A5-INTERACTIVE-DUO-Asian-Sensation-Sinthia-amp-Akira-*SEPT-6*-%F0%9F%94%A5&highlight=akira. Thank me later mate.

 

[popstop]

Thanks for the link. I'm afraid to report that the kind of ladies being recommended in there are... sort of exactly the type I'm not looking for. It's hard to describe without putting an overly racial angle on it, but those women resemble the look that older White men prefer (no offense to anyone). You know, squarer jaw, Southeast Asian features, sort of a pseudo-exotic perceived "sexiness" to their faces and body language. Basically, any agency that has mostly non-Asian women, then one or two Asian women for the sake of variety will probably be catering to a clientele group that I don't fall into. What I seek is more of the "HK girl next door" look and demeanour, like what you'd see at a bubble tea shop or late-night hang-out spot in Markham, while still being friendly and approachable to outsiders. I guess it's a little sad that I'm even able to be that specific, but that's a story for another day.

Hope I didn't manage to offend everybody on TERB with that paragraph. As a disclaimer, I'm attracted to women from everywhere.

Don Draper: It'll have to be in-call. I do have quite a number of concerns (mostly hygiene-related) about how to handle in-call appointments, but I'll hang on to those for now.

Thanks for the replies everyone. I have enjoyed reading the responses so far.

Dawn's ethnically Chinese, not South-Asian. But she was born here and she's a downtown girl, not a Markham girl and doesn't really give off that fobbish vibe you seem to be looking for. She's... approachable, if you are approaching with what she likes lol. She's got a take-no-prisoner attitude for those who like a little danger.

But you seem to be looking for the girl that any Asian agency is full of. You're really having difficulty finding someone like that? Those girls are a dime a dozen. Check out the agencies listed in that same thread... just beware of B&S.

 

[bigbangupper]

Start out by seeing indies Sinthia (canadian born vietnamese) or Akira (almost no accent Japanese). Both well reviewed, both happy to take you through the steps, both a blast and a half w senses of humour. They even duo so pony up the samolians and see them both. Both very sharp, smart women too, both love what they do. Here's akira web page http://www.akirayofu.com/ and here is Sinthia's http://sinthia.ca/home/ and here is an older page when they were offering duos https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?575477-%F0%9F%94%A5-INTERACTIVE-DUO-Asian-Sensation-Sinthia-amp-Akira-*SEPT-6*-%F0%9F%94%A5&highlight=akira. Thank me later mate.

Thanks for the recommendations. Akira seems nice albeit a little pricey. For now, I was hoping to stay in the $240-260/h range that I typically see advertised. Plus, her location isn't specified and I assume that it's downtown. I will keep her in mind though. Sinthia deviates somewhat from the criteria I'm imagining.

Dawn's ethnically Chinese, not South-Asian. But she was born here and she's a downtown girl, not a Markham girl and doesn't really give off that fobbish vibe you seem to be looking for. She's... approachable, if you are approaching with what she likes lol. She's got a take-no-prisoner attitude for those who like a little danger.

But you seem to be looking for the girl that any Asian agency is full of. You're really having difficulty finding someone like that? Those girls are a dime a dozen. Check out the agencies listed in that same thread... just beware of B&S.

From the sound of it, I can't say that any aspect of Dawn works for me. I appreciate the suggestion, though. I found it surprising that she seems to be banned on TERB.

Heh, I avoided saying fobby because I thought some people consider it derogatory, but I guess that really is the best catch-all word. I've checked that link a few times now and I'm not really seeing those kinds of agencies. I'm mostly seeing "Asian-Canadian" girls with Tumblr pages or their own websites, and a post by an Asian TERB user that, ironically, outlines the problem I'm having (ie. the kinds of escorts I'm looking for being discussed primarily on foreign language boards instead of TERB because this archetype is what Asian men like). I do know that there are many of these fobby (lol sorry) agencies across the GTA and I assume that there must be at least a bunch in York Region due to demographics alone, but I suppose I'll have to do more of my own research to confirm what those agencies are. But, apart from searching TERB, I don't really know how to find out about these agencies, let alone distinguish which ones are reputable and safe for someone with no experience.

By the way, is reading escort reviews a sufficient way of familiarizing oneself with the whole procedure of booking, preparing for, and undertaking an appointment? So far, most of what I know is based on clients' retellings of their experiences contacting the agency and going to the hotel or condo. Would I need to know anything beyond what these reviews normally cover?

Thanks again, guys.

 

[Chloë.]

Thanks for the recommendations. Akira seems nice albeit a little pricey. For now, I was hoping to stay in the $240-260/h range that I typically see advertised. Plus, her location isn't specified and I assume that it's downtown. I will keep her in mind though. Sinthia deviates somewhat from the criteria I'm imagining.



From the sound of it, I can't say that any aspect of Dawn works for me. I appreciate the suggestion, though. I found it surprising that she seems to be banned on TERB.

Heh, I avoided saying fobby because I thought some people consider it derogatory, but I guess that really is the best catch-all word. I've checked that link a few times now and I'm not really seeing those kinds of agencies. I'm mostly seeing "Asian-Canadian" girls with Tumblr pages or their own websites, and a post by an Asian TERB user that, ironically, outlines the problem I'm having (ie. the kinds of escorts I'm looking for being discussed primarily on foreign language boards instead of TERB because this archetype is what Asian men like). I do know that there are many of these fobby (lol sorry) agencies across the GTA and I assume that there must be at least a bunch in York Region due to demographics alone, but I suppose I'll have to do more of my own research to confirm what those agencies are. But, apart from searching TERB, I don't really know how to find out about these agencies, let alone distinguish which ones are reputable and safe for someone with no experience.

By the way, is reading escort reviews a sufficient way of familiarizing oneself with the whole procedure of booking, preparing for, and undertaking an appointment? So far, most of what I know is based on clients' retellings of their experiences contacting the agency and going to the hotel or condo. Would I need to know anything beyond what these reviews normally cover?

Thanks again, guys.

http://www.azn747.com/bbs/forum.php

 

[popstop]

Thanks for the recommendations. Akira seems nice albeit a little pricey. For now, I was hoping to stay in the $240-260/h range that I typically see advertised. Plus, her location isn't specified and I assume that it's downtown. I will keep her in mind though. Sinthia deviates somewhat from the criteria I'm imagining.



From the sound of it, I can't say that any aspect of Dawn works for me. I appreciate the suggestion, though. I found it surprising that she seems to be banned on TERB.

Heh, I avoided saying fobby because I thought some people consider it derogatory, but I guess that really is the best catch-all word. I've checked that link a few times now and I'm not really seeing those kinds of agencies. I'm mostly seeing "Asian-Canadian" girls with Tumblr pages or their own websites, and a post by an Asian TERB user that, ironically, outlines the problem I'm having (ie. the kinds of escorts I'm looking for being discussed primarily on foreign language boards instead of TERB because this archetype is what Asian men like). I do know that there are many of these fobby (lol sorry) agencies across the GTA and I assume that there must be at least a bunch in York Region due to demographics alone, but I suppose I'll have to do more of my own research to confirm what those agencies are. But, apart from searching TERB, I don't really know how to find out about these agencies, let alone distinguish which ones are reputable and safe for someone with no experience.

By the way, is reading escort reviews a sufficient way of familiarizing oneself with the whole procedure of booking, preparing for, and undertaking an appointment? So far, most of what I know is based on clients' retellings of their experiences contacting the agency and going to the hotel or condo. Would I need to know anything beyond what these reviews normally cover?

Thanks again, guys.

The link Chloe posted is great - chock full of agencies with the type of girl you're looking for. I hear Moonwaiting a lot on TERB, so you can probably check them out and use the reviews on here to weed out the B&S girls you want to avoid.

Dawn was banned for a month for exposing some corruption at an agency which I will not name, for fear of being banned myself. But dig around and you'll find out what I'm talking about. As for her not being your cup of tea, I agree that she's likely not what you are looking for.

The procedure that gents talk about here is probably safe to follow. Each SP will have her own booking procedure though, so make sure to read her website. I know SPs hate it when you come at them with questions they have already answered on their site, particularly info like rates.

I only ever go with indies, and it goes like this: you basically just contact the SP in the manner she prefers (usually will state so on her site or ad), making sure to be respectful and avoiding anything that makes you seem like a "timewaster" or someone who just wants to contact the SP to get himself off with no real intention of booking. From my conversations with SPs, this seems to be a major pet peeve of all SPs. Just get to the point, and come off the bat with your preferred date, time, duration, and other crucial details. She will most likely reply with incall address and other details, like buzzer, etc. Some SPs are okay with you discussing specific menu items, while others very much hate it and are of the YMMV outlook (what I've gathered from Twitter). Speaking of Twitter, if the lady you're booking with has a Twitter, I'd highly recommend checking it out before your booking to get a feel of what she's all about. Just as, if not more valuable, when it comes to information, than the review boards.

Typically most clients will shower upon arrival at the incall, giving the SP the donation beforehand so she can verify while you are in the shower. Some SPs will look down on you for refusing a shower. I typically will accept an offer of a shower just to set her mind at ease, although not every SP will insist on it. As for how the rest unfolds... well that's really up to the two of you...

 

[niceandslo]

You should dothe same thing we all do burn some money and find out what is out there.

 

[henry67]

you can try moonwaiting or asiansexybabe. they specialize in far east asian only.

http://moonwaitingvip.com/schedule/

http://www.asian-sexybabe.com/models.html

 

[bigbangupper]

Sorry for the short absence. I read the thread daily but didn't get a chance to respond.

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Thanks again for your help. I would absolutely prefer to go with an independent SP if the option existed, but it seems as though the kind of escort I'm looking for sticks with agencies. That does make it a little more intimidating for a newcomer, as I would rather interact with the SP directly, but I knew going in that I'd have to compromise somewhere. If anyone has booked with agency-type SPs and wants to share how/if the process differs apart from not being permitted to contact the SP herself ahead of time, I'm happy to listen.

Many of the reviews I've read indicate that client and SP shower together as an assurance to each other that both parties are clean. It's somewhat concerning to learn that this isn't customary. If it just boils down to the individual SP and how she chooses to handle it, I won't bother anyone here about it if we all have to find out the hard way.

The link Chloë posted is indeed ideal for my pursuits, but I'm going to need one hell of a miracle to navigate it to its full potential. I made an account, and so far, some of the agencies' websites that stemmed from there have given me extra reading material to learn from, at least.

you can try moonwaiting or asiansexybabe. they specialize in far east asian only.

http://moonwaitingvip.com/schedule/

http://www.asian-sexybabe.com/models.html

Thanks Henry. Luck really has to line up with these agencies though. The location, choice of SP, and her schedule have to end up matching perfectly, and on Moonwaiting, many of the girls' bios say "Asian only" or "Asian Special Service" (whatever the heck that one means, but I'll assume it's the same as the former). I suppose it's just a matter of scoping out as many agencies as possible and hoping that all of the factors work out for at least one of them. It surprises me that most of the SPs with these York Region agencies are from Korea and not HK. In any case, I'll remember these two and keep my eyes peeled for more. I expect to do a lot of cross-referencing between these agencies and sources of reviews like TERB in the coming days. I'm actually operating on a tight schedule here (need to meet with the SP by the first weekend of December), and this is stressing me out bigtime. Hope that's not making me come off as too annoying to anyone.

 

[popstop]

Many of the reviews I've read indicate that client and SP shower together as an assurance to each other that both parties are clean. It's somewhat concerning to learn that this isn't customary. If it just boils down to the individual SP and how she chooses to handle it, I won't bother anyone here about it if we all have to find out the hard way.

Not every SP will offer shower for two (shower with you), so double check first if that is what you want. Most SPs will offer a shower at their incall for you though. But some are very picky about getting their hair and make-up wet.