New found respect for SPs & MPAs

[Nazer]

Tonight I got suckered into a blind date with a friend of mine... i was the "wing man"... since his date had a friend she wanted to bring along. I agreed to it, but little did I know what I was in for. It was my mistake for not asking what she looked like. She was about 5'1 and probably 200+ pounds which is definately not my body type preference, however, what really got me was her excessive facial hair and annoying laugh.. it was more of a hackle. I especially noticed the hair on her chin since there were some very long and thick strands that reflected the light. Suffice it to say it was a very long night. She actually tried to put "the moves" on me which really creeped me out. In all seriousness, i would not have touched her for a few hundred bucks... let alone do her.

Throughout this experience, i was thinking to myself, SPs and MPAs see many guys that they do not particulary find attractive (in their eyes) and they have to grin, bear it and pretend to enjoy themselves. This is definately something that I could not do. I actually do have a new found respect for them after tonight.

Just a thought after a very, very, very... very long night.

Nazer

 

[feminista]

welcome to our world, sort of.

 

[calloway]

New found respect? Mmmmmm... you give me $200-300 per hour of tax free money and I'll go on a date with this lady... hairy face and all.

It's a job... no different than any of the customers or clients that we meet on a day to day basis. Anyone in sales has come across ugly... smelly clients with bad breath. Somehow we battle through it with a smile on our face. Of course there is one "small" difference isn't there? But as I said... they are compensated well for it and if they don't like it... they have the option to leave the business just like us whenever they want to. At least I hope they have the power to leave when they want to.

Most ladies working with the better operations have the right to refuse a customer that is rude or ignorant. They are in a "specialized" profession and are paid well to deal with this issue. A higher level of respect? Well I guess that all depends on how you much respected them before your blind date. Personally... I respect the professional ladies in this business the same way I respect every other professional business person. There should be no difference.

 

[calloway]

The closest I can think of are medical professionals, but even they are different. They can gown/mask/glove-up and spray antibacterials all over the place.

So can most SP's... condoms and sanitizer. The mask and gown would be considered role playing.

I not disagreeing with the challenges that come along with their profession... I couldn't do it. But they are compensated well for it... hopefully doing it of their own free will... and have the option to leave when they want to.

 

[Eli]

I betcha SPs would totally dominate on the show Fear Factor.

 

[calloway]

I betcha SPs would totally dominate on the show Fear Factor.

Why? Because eating insects and cow testicles are easy after some of the things they've had in their mouths...

 

[zydeco]

I can't remember the last time a friend of mine offered me $200-$300/hour to play wingman. I'm completely sympathetic to what SP's must endure in their professional capacity, however, these 2 scenarios are in no way analogous.

 

[WhaWhaWha]

Nazer:

I'm not sure I'm comfortable with the idea of you dating my ex

 

[JoyfulC]

And I'm completely shocked at some of these attitudes coming from customers. Some of you obviously have a much lower opinion of your fellow man that those of us who are privileged to work for them do. We're not all so shallow!

It's true, if someone were rude or had poor hygiene, I'd turn him down (but nicely and with consideration for his feelings -- even rude, smelly people have feelings).

However, just because I don't work for too many Chippendale types doesn't mean that I am repulsed by the men I do work for. On the contrary, if other escorts are anything like myself and many other escorts I've known over the years, then we're lucky to be women with a natural talent for seeing the horny young buck or playful kid in the mature gentleman; for being willing and able to enjoy the romantic attentions of men for whom much of their pleasure is in giving pleasure; for learning the lesson that people age, their bodies change, and yet, they are still warm, affectionate, frisky, funny, and passionate.

When I got married, 20-some years ago, I figured that I'd make a good wife because I didn't have the hang-ups about baldness or love handles and other such signs of aging that men often exhibit. I knew I'd be my man's lover for life. Oddly enough, he's now 57 and has a body any 20 year old would be thrilled to have! He still has all his hair, and he's sexy as hell. But even if he were 300 lbs and bald as a cueball and had no teeth, I'd still love him and make love to him. It's what's inside that counts!

..c..

 

[rama putri]

I actually do have a new found respect for them after tonight.

NEW FOUND respect? Some of you guys are lame.

 

[rama putri]

And I'm completely shocked at some of these attitudes coming from customers.

...

It's what's inside that counts!

We're men. We're visual. You're women, you're not.

 

[ackack]

We're men. We're visual. You're women, you're not.

But what's inside is very important too.

 

[NicolesBoudoir]

We're men. We're visual. You're women, you're not.

Oh is that so?
HA
you keep thinking that!

 

[goodtime]

Thank you!

...Throughout this experience, i was thinking to myself, SPs and MPAs see many guys that they do not particulary find attractive (in their eyes) and they have to grin, bear it and pretend to enjoy themselves. This is definately something that I could not do. I actually do have a new found respect for them after tonight.

Just a thought after a very, very, very... very long night.

Nazer

What I've been saying in the MP forum...

The smell of B.O. in hallway or in room from previous session can be overwhelming.

Calloway, try going to the gym, walk up to guy with sweat and stickly skin that just finish working out and give him a bear hung, plant a kiss on his cheek for good measure. Now hold that for 30 mins without a gas mask then perhaps then you understand. As your salesman experience don't come close, unless you do some serious brown-nosing literally.

Thanks, girls. For the duration of the session, the daily problems are forgotten. Our fantasies come true with delightful ladies.

 

[Eli]

As for the visual part I'd say woman are as visually inclined these days as any male. I tell yah if my waist went out an inch more I'd have a complex.

However I will add that money never made a woman more attractive which doesn't seem to be the case for men.

 

[lasslicker]

However I will add that money never made a woman more attractive which doesn't seem to be the case for men.

Perhaps not in an SP Eli, but there are many men who look at this when sizing up long term relationship potential.

 

[Malibook]

At least the ladies don't have to somehow manage to get an erection.

 

[solitaria]

Personally, I think there are many jobs that are a lot smellier that pay a lot less. I think I could be a male escort way before I could be a nurse. I couldn't imagine having to bathe smelly senile people that have just shit themselves for low pay. How many clients who for the most part probably take showers before sessions and have the hygiene to hold down jobs that must afford them some level of success could stink as bad as people who are unhealthy either physically or emotionally such that they couldn’t work in the state they are in when being cared for by the nurse? Healthy people take showers and unhealthy people don’t. I seriously doubt the average guy stinks as bad as you guys are making it out to seem. How hard could it be to DATY an ugly chick and then lay there with your eyes closed while she gets herself off on you for $250.00 (which is basically the equivalent). I would think the most difficult part about being an escort is the fear of physical abuse and the hit to their ego of having to fuck guys and pretend that they are stallions when in reality they are unattractive “losers” that they wouldn’t be caught dead with in real life.

 

[Nazer]

It's a job... no different than any of the customers or clients that we meet on a day to day basis. Anyone in sales has come across ugly... smelly clients with bad breath. Somehow we battle through it with a smile on our face. Of course there is one "small" difference isn't there? But as I said... they are compensated well for it and if they don't like it... they have the option to leave the business just like us whenever they want to.

what kind of sales do you do that makes these two occupations have only a "small" difference?

 

[Nazer]

Nazer:

I'm not sure I'm comfortable with the idea of you dating my ex

Sorry... however, i can assure you that NOTHING happened!!