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holden

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Buddy of mine went on several dates(more then 5) with this girl, nothing really serious. Does he need to formally break up with her when they were just dating?


My advice was no, unless she contacts him for a date

What are your thoughts?
 
No sex after 5 dates? Hmmm ....

I would just wait and if she calls, just tell her that it is not working for him .. make the conversation short and sweet.
 
I think it depends....

do they have mutual friends or does your friend want a friendship with girl

if yes....then I think he should tell her

if no....then I say your advice is fine
 
What happened to being up front

Why leave her wondering? If he asked the question he obviously thought that he should tell her. I guess I am too old school.
 
wrong hole said:
I think it depends....

do they have mutual friends or does your friend want a friendship with girl
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Due to the nature of their jobs, they have to see each other once or twice a week for the next month or so

My advice is he should only tell her if she only ask for a date.


Also, would it be alright for me to ask the girl out after my buddy breaks up with her since she is just out of this world hot?
 
LMFAO

wait a minute holden .... first establish why your buddy doesn't want anything to do with this woman.

They've been out more than 5 times and no sex...right?. The question is, why? I don't mean to be a pig but come on, let's be honest here.
 
healer677 said:
LMFAO

wait a minute holden .... first establish why your buddy doesn't want anything to do with this woman.

They've been out more than 5 times and no sex...right?. The question is, why? I don't mean to be a pig but come on, let's be honest here.
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My buddy could have had sex with her, but he was looking for a relationship not just sex - he's just a freak that way
 
holden said:
My buddy could have had sex with her, but he was looking for a relationship not just sex - he's just a freak that way
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Then he should tell her he is interested in a relationship and not a fling. The you might think about posting her pic:D
 
papasmerf said:
Then he should tell her he is interested in a relationship and not a fling.
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She's a serial dater, not into relationships at the moment - she's got guys offering to fly her to paris, NYC and Newfoundland even

I just want to have sex with her
 
holden said:
She's a serial dater, not into relationships at the moment - she's got guys offering to fly her to paris, NYC and Newfoundland even

I just want to have sex with her
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At least you are up front about it. Unless of course people are offering to fly her away but not bring her back.
 
holden said:
She's a serial dater, not into relationships at the moment - she's got guys offering to fly her to paris, NYC and Newfoundland even
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I told her whale watching in Newfoundland would be oh so erotic. She is thinking about it.
 
So I ask my buddy if he broke up with her yet so that I could ask her out. He said no. He hasn't ask her out in 2 weeks but they have had small talk.

Now my buddy thinks he wants to sleep with her. But I think it's too late for him, she wanted him at the begining but my buddy was too much of a nice guy and a gentlemen towards her - he would pay for everything and buy her the ocasional present that I think she became bored with him since there was no challenge for her. Unfortunately my buddy doesn't like to 'play games' so he doesn't want to play the 'ignore game'.

What do you guys think he should do and is there a possiblity for my buddy to get her back?

Personally I think my buddy should move on.
 
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