The thread featuring the sparring between Ripped and Perry Mason in which they argue over why Ripped couldn’t understand the appeal of that restaurant experience prompted me to think about things I don’t understand about the sex trade in general, and aspects of it that are often discussed on this board.
Here, in no particular order, are my top 10 things I don’t understand about topics that appear on this board. I’m not looking to participate in any flame wars here. I genuinely don’t understand these things.
Street girls – why would anyone want to take a chance with a street girl? You run a high risk of being ripped off, catching an STD, being mugged, arrested or having your car impounded. You’ll probably pay less for a classy escort, and almost always get better service.
Greek – Sorry, but I fail to see the attraction in slamming my salami (or any other body part for that matter) into the last several inches of another human being’s digestive tract. I tried it once, a long time ago, at my then ladyfriend’s virtual insistence - wasn’t impressed, in fact, I was grossed out. It didn’t feel any better than it did in the place close by that Mother Nature provided specifically for that purpose, either. Never again, no matter how many enemas the lady takes.
Rimming, aka analingus, aka bumalingus – See my comments on Greek, only now it’s my tongue. Yuck! And I don’t expect this service from the ladies either.
Digits – I can’t for the life of me understand why so many guys ask if a particular SP permits digits. Giving digits to a woman does nothing for me, although it might for her if I do it right. My fingers are not an erogenous zone, so I only do it if asked or if I’m sure she wants me to. In any case, I don’t base my decision to see a lady on whether or not she permits digits, nor do I decide not to repeat if she doesn’t.
Sex in Strip clubs – It doesn’t make sense to me to pay for several dances and then receive some form of sexual service in a booth or cubicle where others may see what’s going on. For the same money, you can probably see an escort in a safe, private place.
MP HJ’s – To a certain extent, I can understand the appeal of a session that includes DATY and a BS, but I can’t understand the appeal of a session that consists only of a perfunctory massage followed by a HJ. Why pay someone just to jerk me off? The way I see things, if all I want is a handjob, I can always do it myself. After all, it’s not as if I never have!
Milk and body waste fetishes – I can see the sexual appeal of the enlarged boobs, but a woman’s breast milk? Not me! And don’t tell me it’s not really strange to get turned on by having someone pee or crap on you. Yuck!!
BDSM – I don’t understand any link between pain, whether received or inflicted, and sexual pleasure. Even if no one is actually harmed, I just don’t get it. Soft and tender is the only way for me.
Genital piercings – Yesterday, I posted a link to a web site featuring male genital piercings. One photo showed a penis with 11 barbells inserted (it’s called a ladder). Another showed a penis with a paintbrush inserted right through the head. You’ve got to be kidding!
And last…
Judgmental posts about SP’s – There have been several posts lately in which the male posters have been extremely preachy and judgmental about SP’s, calling them whores, greedy bitches, etc. The posters seem to think they’re qualified to preach to the sinners from a position of moral superiority, even though most of them are hobbyists themselves. Get a grip, guys! There’s no moral high ground here! I pay women for companionship and sex, and women provide them to me for money. What right do I have to feel superior? Absolutely none, nor do you!
Here, in no particular order, are my top 10 things I don’t understand about topics that appear on this board. I’m not looking to participate in any flame wars here. I genuinely don’t understand these things.
Street girls – why would anyone want to take a chance with a street girl? You run a high risk of being ripped off, catching an STD, being mugged, arrested or having your car impounded. You’ll probably pay less for a classy escort, and almost always get better service.
Greek – Sorry, but I fail to see the attraction in slamming my salami (or any other body part for that matter) into the last several inches of another human being’s digestive tract. I tried it once, a long time ago, at my then ladyfriend’s virtual insistence - wasn’t impressed, in fact, I was grossed out. It didn’t feel any better than it did in the place close by that Mother Nature provided specifically for that purpose, either. Never again, no matter how many enemas the lady takes.
Rimming, aka analingus, aka bumalingus – See my comments on Greek, only now it’s my tongue. Yuck! And I don’t expect this service from the ladies either.
Digits – I can’t for the life of me understand why so many guys ask if a particular SP permits digits. Giving digits to a woman does nothing for me, although it might for her if I do it right. My fingers are not an erogenous zone, so I only do it if asked or if I’m sure she wants me to. In any case, I don’t base my decision to see a lady on whether or not she permits digits, nor do I decide not to repeat if she doesn’t.
Sex in Strip clubs – It doesn’t make sense to me to pay for several dances and then receive some form of sexual service in a booth or cubicle where others may see what’s going on. For the same money, you can probably see an escort in a safe, private place.
MP HJ’s – To a certain extent, I can understand the appeal of a session that includes DATY and a BS, but I can’t understand the appeal of a session that consists only of a perfunctory massage followed by a HJ. Why pay someone just to jerk me off? The way I see things, if all I want is a handjob, I can always do it myself. After all, it’s not as if I never have!
Milk and body waste fetishes – I can see the sexual appeal of the enlarged boobs, but a woman’s breast milk? Not me! And don’t tell me it’s not really strange to get turned on by having someone pee or crap on you. Yuck!!
BDSM – I don’t understand any link between pain, whether received or inflicted, and sexual pleasure. Even if no one is actually harmed, I just don’t get it. Soft and tender is the only way for me.
Genital piercings – Yesterday, I posted a link to a web site featuring male genital piercings. One photo showed a penis with 11 barbells inserted (it’s called a ladder). Another showed a penis with a paintbrush inserted right through the head. You’ve got to be kidding!
And last…
Judgmental posts about SP’s – There have been several posts lately in which the male posters have been extremely preachy and judgmental about SP’s, calling them whores, greedy bitches, etc. The posters seem to think they’re qualified to preach to the sinners from a position of moral superiority, even though most of them are hobbyists themselves. Get a grip, guys! There’s no moral high ground here! I pay women for companionship and sex, and women provide them to me for money. What right do I have to feel superior? Absolutely none, nor do you!