gentlemen,
i've been away from TERB and the hobbying scene for a while, and although i have not contributed anything to TERB in a while, i wanted to share this experience. first off, let me premise this review with a quick summary of the past 9 months or so of my hobbying (or lack there of) activities. prior to this recent hiatis, i was a proud terb member, who regularily enjoyed hobbying the SP scene in toronto. i've also maintained a regular "bullpen" of civilian ladies that i could fall back on as well, although i much prefer an SP to a civilian when it comes to a very short term intimate encounter. my hobbyiest lifestyle was brougt to an abrupt halt nearly a year ago when i met an incredible young lady and found myself in a relationship where my feelings for her were quite serious, and very real. this put me in an awkward situation, as i did not know how to rationalize being a hobbyist and a committed, (allegedly) monogamous male. in the past, when i was in a relationship, i would continue my normal activities when it came to other women, be it civilian or SP. i never felt a sense of committment to any one particular woman, and i felt like that's just the way i was wired so to speak. i'm sure certain a number of fellow terbites probably share this sentiment. fast forward to a year ago, and my new found conflicted emotions, i decided to give up hobbying and really give it a shot. i had the privedlge of speaking to several terbites about the issue, including the legendary PHNINE himself, who told me to essentially follow my heart. i was then, and still am now grateful for the time and insight offered. so, with all that said, i've spent the past year being a committed partner in a monogomous relationship. for a time, things were good, great in fact, but then, inevitably i suppose, much like the vampires in the blade trilogy, i succumed to the "thrist". i hadn't been with another woman in nearly a year, whether it be an SP or a civilian. in fact, to make matters worse, i had gone so far as to actually turn down some very appealing opportunities, all in the name of love and comittment. well... as a great many of you probably already know, after a certain amount of time, enough is enough! and after nearly a year of being with only one woman, i had most certainly had enough. with that said, i decided to get back into the game with a "bang" so to speak. i booked a flight to L.A, where i have a few friends that are living the dream in the real sin city, and i decided to break the bank on a welcome back date. i decided that i was going to see a pornstar and there was no stopping me. after some careful deliberation (mostly because she was the flavour of the week for me in terms of porn stars) i decided to meet
Lacey Duvalle (http://freeones.com/html/l_links/Lacey_Duvalle/)
lacey is a gorgeous african american starlet, that i find widely attractive, and super sexy. when i arrived in LA, i started making inquiries right away, and to my surprise found out that she had an EROS ad
(http://www.eros-la.com/files/la-lacey23-lacey1.htm)
needless to say i jumped on the opportunity right away, and started making arrangements. i called lacey on the cell number provided, and after a few unsuccesful attempts, i was finally able to get a hold of her. we discussed the possibility of an encounter and i had to submit myself to a prescreening process which mainly consisted of giving her references which she called. i know this might sound unnerving to some, but she was fine with phone references that led to my voicemail (i.e. at work, or cell). she never actually spoke to anyone i know. arrangements were made, a date was set at the four seasons in beverly hills. lacey arrived promptly on time, dressed in a very discrete yet sexy black cocktail dress, as i had requested. from a looks perspective, she was stunning. we quickly settled in and had a nice relaxing glass of wine, and i had pre-ordered some chocolate strawberries earlier. this seemed to have been effective, as she was very calm and sensual right off the bat. our conversation was elementary, which in all fairness, i wasn't expecting to be stimulated mentally, so i wasn't disappointed. she shared her insights into the city of los angeles, the adult entertainment industry and some of her more wild experiences. in summary, conversation was light and pleasant. from there we moved into a more comfortable situation on the bed, and lacey went to work. her technique off the bat was not sensual in the slightest, rather, i felt like the guy in the movie who gets to bang the hot porn star...it was exactly what i wanted. we had a small tiff as she began light BLS which i thought was going to lead to a world class BBBJ, but she requested a CBJ, to which i politely reminded her of the fee she commanded and i was paying, at which point she rescinded and i got what i wanted
in all fairness, given the price, i don't think my request was unreasonable. with that small issue resolved, lacey went on with the business of giving me a top notch bbbj, which i must admit is in the top 5 percentile of all time best i've ever had. perhaps even at the top of the list, although i'm not prepared to make such a bold statement with anyone. we engaged in some 69 at her behest, which i found very erotic. hygiene was pristine, and DATY was very well received. from there we progressed to a wide variety of positions, all of which were full of XXX moans and dirty talk. there's was some LFK with intermittent bursts of DFK, and MSOG were welcomed and promptly delivered! after our encounter ended, lacey had a quick shower, gave me a light kiss and walked out the door, leaving me with the biggest grin i've had in a year. afterwards i felt euphoric and like my old self. the experience was amazing, although to be honest i'm sure it was heightened by the long layoff preceding the nights events. the next day i checked out, and a couple of days after that i went home, back to my significant other, with her non the wiser. from that date upto this point, i've been back on grind, mostly reconnecting with some of my old civilian contacts.
i know that this has been a very long diatribe, but i'm hoping that in summary, my experiences will resonate with others in similar situations. i love my gf very much, and am very seriously considering proposing to her, however, men like myself are wired a certain way. we are not meant to be with one woman, and one woman only. to be confined to such a life of destitution is not fair, and we should not subject ourselves to that just because it's the societal "norm". i don't think my significant other will ever understand or accept my hobbying, nor will she ever understand the difference between my emotional bond with her and my physical bond with other woman. with that said, i won't tell her, it's in her best interests. just as importantly, however, i will not feel ashamed or like i'm doing something wrong! let me repeat that, i will not be ashamed of my hobbying, and i will not feel like i'm constantly doing something wrong. i want to live a happy, healthy, abundant life, where i can look back with fond memories, without regrets or what if's, and certainly without any guilt. i will enjoy my life, including my hobbying, while still providing for and protecting my significant other, and doing what i can to ensure her happiness... and in that statement, i have found a framework for how i will live my life with my partner as it pertains to my hobbying. hopefully others can take something from that.
to summarize review of lacey:
Looks-9.0 very attractive african american lady. gorgeous.
Body-9.5 perfect C cup titties, tiny frame, spinner.
Attitude-8 very friendly, not terribly intelligent, accommodating, but not mentally stimulating
Service-9 world class BBBJ...she a freaking pornstar!
Repeat- probably not, next time i shell out this kind of doe, i'm going to want another porn starlet. i would however recommend in a heartbeat!
damage, $2400 for the hour including hotel.
i've been away from TERB and the hobbying scene for a while, and although i have not contributed anything to TERB in a while, i wanted to share this experience. first off, let me premise this review with a quick summary of the past 9 months or so of my hobbying (or lack there of) activities. prior to this recent hiatis, i was a proud terb member, who regularily enjoyed hobbying the SP scene in toronto. i've also maintained a regular "bullpen" of civilian ladies that i could fall back on as well, although i much prefer an SP to a civilian when it comes to a very short term intimate encounter. my hobbyiest lifestyle was brougt to an abrupt halt nearly a year ago when i met an incredible young lady and found myself in a relationship where my feelings for her were quite serious, and very real. this put me in an awkward situation, as i did not know how to rationalize being a hobbyist and a committed, (allegedly) monogamous male. in the past, when i was in a relationship, i would continue my normal activities when it came to other women, be it civilian or SP. i never felt a sense of committment to any one particular woman, and i felt like that's just the way i was wired so to speak. i'm sure certain a number of fellow terbites probably share this sentiment. fast forward to a year ago, and my new found conflicted emotions, i decided to give up hobbying and really give it a shot. i had the privedlge of speaking to several terbites about the issue, including the legendary PHNINE himself, who told me to essentially follow my heart. i was then, and still am now grateful for the time and insight offered. so, with all that said, i've spent the past year being a committed partner in a monogomous relationship. for a time, things were good, great in fact, but then, inevitably i suppose, much like the vampires in the blade trilogy, i succumed to the "thrist". i hadn't been with another woman in nearly a year, whether it be an SP or a civilian. in fact, to make matters worse, i had gone so far as to actually turn down some very appealing opportunities, all in the name of love and comittment. well... as a great many of you probably already know, after a certain amount of time, enough is enough! and after nearly a year of being with only one woman, i had most certainly had enough. with that said, i decided to get back into the game with a "bang" so to speak. i booked a flight to L.A, where i have a few friends that are living the dream in the real sin city, and i decided to break the bank on a welcome back date. i decided that i was going to see a pornstar and there was no stopping me. after some careful deliberation (mostly because she was the flavour of the week for me in terms of porn stars) i decided to meet
Lacey Duvalle (http://freeones.com/html/l_links/Lacey_Duvalle/)
lacey is a gorgeous african american starlet, that i find widely attractive, and super sexy. when i arrived in LA, i started making inquiries right away, and to my surprise found out that she had an EROS ad
(http://www.eros-la.com/files/la-lacey23-lacey1.htm)
needless to say i jumped on the opportunity right away, and started making arrangements. i called lacey on the cell number provided, and after a few unsuccesful attempts, i was finally able to get a hold of her. we discussed the possibility of an encounter and i had to submit myself to a prescreening process which mainly consisted of giving her references which she called. i know this might sound unnerving to some, but she was fine with phone references that led to my voicemail (i.e. at work, or cell). she never actually spoke to anyone i know. arrangements were made, a date was set at the four seasons in beverly hills. lacey arrived promptly on time, dressed in a very discrete yet sexy black cocktail dress, as i had requested. from a looks perspective, she was stunning. we quickly settled in and had a nice relaxing glass of wine, and i had pre-ordered some chocolate strawberries earlier. this seemed to have been effective, as she was very calm and sensual right off the bat. our conversation was elementary, which in all fairness, i wasn't expecting to be stimulated mentally, so i wasn't disappointed. she shared her insights into the city of los angeles, the adult entertainment industry and some of her more wild experiences. in summary, conversation was light and pleasant. from there we moved into a more comfortable situation on the bed, and lacey went to work. her technique off the bat was not sensual in the slightest, rather, i felt like the guy in the movie who gets to bang the hot porn star...it was exactly what i wanted. we had a small tiff as she began light BLS which i thought was going to lead to a world class BBBJ, but she requested a CBJ, to which i politely reminded her of the fee she commanded and i was paying, at which point she rescinded and i got what i wanted
in all fairness, given the price, i don't think my request was unreasonable. with that small issue resolved, lacey went on with the business of giving me a top notch bbbj, which i must admit is in the top 5 percentile of all time best i've ever had. perhaps even at the top of the list, although i'm not prepared to make such a bold statement with anyone. we engaged in some 69 at her behest, which i found very erotic. hygiene was pristine, and DATY was very well received. from there we progressed to a wide variety of positions, all of which were full of XXX moans and dirty talk. there's was some LFK with intermittent bursts of DFK, and MSOG were welcomed and promptly delivered! after our encounter ended, lacey had a quick shower, gave me a light kiss and walked out the door, leaving me with the biggest grin i've had in a year. afterwards i felt euphoric and like my old self. the experience was amazing, although to be honest i'm sure it was heightened by the long layoff preceding the nights events. the next day i checked out, and a couple of days after that i went home, back to my significant other, with her non the wiser. from that date upto this point, i've been back on grind, mostly reconnecting with some of my old civilian contacts. i know that this has been a very long diatribe, but i'm hoping that in summary, my experiences will resonate with others in similar situations. i love my gf very much, and am very seriously considering proposing to her, however, men like myself are wired a certain way. we are not meant to be with one woman, and one woman only. to be confined to such a life of destitution is not fair, and we should not subject ourselves to that just because it's the societal "norm". i don't think my significant other will ever understand or accept my hobbying, nor will she ever understand the difference between my emotional bond with her and my physical bond with other woman. with that said, i won't tell her, it's in her best interests. just as importantly, however, i will not feel ashamed or like i'm doing something wrong! let me repeat that, i will not be ashamed of my hobbying, and i will not feel like i'm constantly doing something wrong. i want to live a happy, healthy, abundant life, where i can look back with fond memories, without regrets or what if's, and certainly without any guilt. i will enjoy my life, including my hobbying, while still providing for and protecting my significant other, and doing what i can to ensure her happiness... and in that statement, i have found a framework for how i will live my life with my partner as it pertains to my hobbying. hopefully others can take something from that.
to summarize review of lacey:
Looks-9.0 very attractive african american lady. gorgeous.
Body-9.5 perfect C cup titties, tiny frame, spinner.
Attitude-8 very friendly, not terribly intelligent, accommodating, but not mentally stimulating
Service-9 world class BBBJ...she a freaking pornstar!
Repeat- probably not, next time i shell out this kind of doe, i'm going to want another porn starlet. i would however recommend in a heartbeat!
damage, $2400 for the hour including hotel.
