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My Havana Visit-part 2

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Day 2 – Sometimes you Strike Out
After having walked for a great part of the day visiting the Malecon, the Hotel Nacional, the Tryp Habana Libre, and eating at a local restaurant, where I had a good conversation with a tourist from Ireland, I had a much needed two hour nap. My friend texted me we would be going to a club called Tun Tun. We had dinner first and then went. Tun Tun was a bit dead, and we waited for a while. However, it never really picked up, and we ended up leaving. Our cab driver took us to three other clubs/bars, but it wasn’t our night. We ended up at a local bar across from the Copacabana, where we had drinks until about 4:00 AM. I went back to my hotel hoping not to strike out that night.

Day 3 – Psycho Bitch
Took a tour to Habana Vieja, which was quite nice. It is worth spending more time in this area, as there is plenty to see and take in. Got back, another two hours nap, and I had another text message. We were having dinner at Don Cangrejo and then go the club at the premises. The dinner was good and expensive, and we then went downstairs to the outdoors club. It didn’t take long to become packed, and I was scoping out the talent, looking for someone to spend the night with. This is when someone sat next to me without even asking. She was pleasant and started talking to me. I did not buy her any drinks, and did not talk much to her, expecting she would get that fact that I am not interested. She did not, and when I asked her to leave, she refused to, being quite pushy. With her there, no one else would come and sit with me, and I had to get rid of her. I gave her some money and bought her a drink if she would leave, and she reluctantly did. When leaving her seat she told she would be watching me to make sure I don’t take anyone else out, and sat not too far from me staring. Unfazed, I called a tall girl to sit next to me. When she momentarily left to go to the washroom, the psycho sat in her seat and started asking me why I lied to her, and going on and on. At this point it was enough, and my tone of voice changed. I sternly told her to get the hell out of the seat and leave. I grabbed her hand and lifted her up. Still pissed off, she left, only to sit right across from me and give me the evil eye. The other girl came back; we danced, drank and discussed prices. Now, the dinner at Don Cangrejos had run a lot higher than I expected, and I had about half what she was asking for. I haggled with her, saying it was I had. She agreed and we took separate cabs to my casa. Everything was safe with her, and it seems she was more interested in what I had to give her, going through the drawers and the dresser. I did not want her to stay too long after this, and gave her some of the Rolo chocolates I had with me before she left. She asked that I get her contact info into my phone and I did so. Before leaving she asked how I was going back to my hotel if I had no money left, and I said I would have to walk. Now, it was 5:30 am, and the streets were deserted. I could have stayed at my casa, but I preferred sleeping at the hotel. She offered to give me money for a cab, but I declined. She left and I walked back. Not a cat in sight, some areas darker, and some brighter. I slept two more hours, had breakdfast, and was ready for my 4th and last day in Havana.

Day 4 – I Do it My Way
Not having slept much during the past 3 days, and drinking quite a bit every night, was starting to get to me. This last day I was going to try and avoid what happened the night before. When we are too nice we sometimes get taken advantage of, and I was going to try something different this last night.
The usual text got to me around 7:00 PM. We were going to an outdoors club called La Cecilia. We had dinner and made our way there around 10:00 PM, when it opens. There was a huge lineup waiting to get in, and we paid two waiters to bypass the line. This did not work as well as we expected, as the guy letting people in was not in on the exchange, and he kept us waiting for a while. We eventually got in and went to the VIP tables, where we have to buy a bottle in order to sit. By midnight the place was bursting at the seams. I had already turned down several ladies that tried sitting next to me, and decided it was time to scope out the gorgeous grounds. There were so many attractive ladies that I had trouble making up my mind. I stopped to talk to someone that was with a group of friends, but she looked too young and I excused myself. On the way back to my table I saw the lady from the first night and psycho bitch. I waived both off, and set my sights on a light skinned beauty sitting by herself. We talked for a bit and she came back to my table. She thought I was a lot younger, and when I told her my age, she said I was her father’s age. I laughed and quoted Tony Soprano saying “Goodbye – that was me saying good bye to my hard on”. She had a good laugh and turned out to be a great dancer and capable of carrying an intelligent conversation. It was 3:00 AM and we discussed leaving, as I had to be ready at the lobby of my hotel at 5:30 AM for the bus to take me to the airport. This time I took her to my hotel, and she reluctantly agreed (her name is on record, and it she could be questioned by the police in the future). I paid the guest fee and off we went. She took a shower, and we fucked vigorously. I tried to control things to last a bit longer, but even in doggy she managed to pound me. She was like the Energizer bunny. We talked for a while in bed, and she told me about her life. She is in the last year of her psychology degree, and is also taking a hairdresser course as back up. As she had strong allergies and asthma, I gave her all my allergy medication, and she was quite grateful. She helped me pack, we got cleaned up and went downstairs. With this one I would repeat, and who knows, I might see her again. Goodbye Havana, until we meet again.
 

GPIDEAL

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Enjoyed your review and version of events friend. I'll post my report too in due course. You interested in returning in the new year he he?
 

DerekMcCall

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Am very curious as to the prices that we agreed by each lady you discoverd
and enjoyed??
Your writing and description were great.
I too wish to visit this latin playground or any latin playground one day sooner than later.
 

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They started by asking for $100 CUC, but usually expect you to come back with a lower offer. I was trying to have fun while making sure they also made their money. That one night I was short of cash all I had was 60 all in (her cab fares included), and she agreed. I wouldn't go over $80, anda friend let a stunner go because she would not go below $100. This means that some will not drop their asking price.
Be respectful, it could be that the lady you are talking to is a tourist or a local just looking to dance the night away.
 

freedom3

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Great reports. Thanks for taking the time to write them.

How essential was your ability to speak spanish? Did any of the women speak english?
 

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They started by asking for $100 CUC, but usually expect you to come back with a lower offer. I was trying to have fun while making sure they also made their money. That one night I was short of cash all I had was 60 all in (her cab fares included), and she agreed. I wouldn't go over $80, anda friend let a stunner go because she would not go below $100. This means that some will not drop their asking price.
Be respectful, it could be that the lady you are talking to is a tourist or a local just looking to dance the night away.
$100 is too much in Havanna. They make very little money there.Most make less than $20 month.
 

Hilfiger

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Didn't find anyone that spoke English. There are tourists there from all over the world, and I guess they find a way to communicate at the very basic level. When I was in Beijing I used a calculator that went back and forth. I would say that it is very beneficial to have some basic Spanish, Portuguese or Italian language skills. This way you can truly enjoy talking to them while spending time at the bars and clubs, and later at your place. I was spending about 3 hours at the club talking, drinking, dancing. If you just want a straight exchange for sex, you don't need to speak much.
 

Hilfiger

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Sure, Don, but not everyone has a good command of the Spanish language and is able to spit some game. Having been there, and after reading your posts, it may be a bit misleading to assume that every one of Terb's members can just show up in Havana and be Don Draper. Furthermore, the ladies know you are a tourist, and are probably expecting something at the end of the day. It could be a monetary gift, a good meal, shoes, a nice dress, etc. Being a gentleman, you are probably spending $60 CUC and up per lady. The bottom line for the occasional tourist looking for some fun is that Havana is not a cheap destination. There are cheaper places to hobby. From my view, it is a good place given the locals' looks and friendly nature, the weather, safety and history. Based solely on cost, for a one week vacation, it is still better value than Thailand, due to the cost of the flight (yes, I have been to Phuket). Other parts of Cuba are not as costly to hobby in than Havana.
 

GPIDEAL

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Money is not an issue because it's cheap there, however, it does add up, especially if you're at a hotel and the staff are getting friendly and go out of their way to get a tip.

- If you go to a club, you will not leave with a lady unless you agree to compensate her. Once that negotiation is settled, they will be very happy with you.

- If you hustle or flirt with the ladies outside of a club, like on the streets, or at an outdoor cafe, restaurant, market, store, mall, etc., you may get action after treating them to a nice meal, a gift of clothes or perfume, and the hope of future liaisons or some kind of sugar-daddy relationship. Of course, you can offer money & cut to the chase.

- Girls outside of a club, who don't usually go to clubs, are cheaper. My friend banged a hot Cuban that he met on his way to an Italian restaurant. He said it was the best fuck he had in Cuba for 20 CUC.

- Hard negotations will land you a cheaper lay (but I'm a hobbyist with a heart - I'm lucky to exploit the situation there as it is - I don't normally low ball).

- I went out with a club girl's older friend who wasn't a hustling club girl or 'pro', and I still gave her 40 CUC at the end of the night, even though I didn't fuck her (even though we held hands and kissed, I didn't close the deal because she was a divorcee mom and 'serious gal' - someone who could be your Cuban GF outside of the club - it felt awkward for me to push my luck, and I didn't want to ruin any future chances because I could laid there quite easily elsewhere).

- There something to be said about the chase (a la Don Draper's M.O.). It is more exciting and cheaper. Some club girls are mechanical and upsell.
 

Don Draper

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Now Brothers, don't get me wrong, I'm all for helping out where it's needed, no question of that.

My point is that I don't go to Cuba/Havana with hobbying as my main reason. I will spend my $$$ as I see fit because it's that: mine.

I've often helped girls out but didn't necessarily need to sleep with them. Dinner, eye glasses, clothes, food. It depends on the status of the girl.

If you go to Cuba thinking that you have to spend $$$ in order to get laid, that's where you'd be wrong.
 

amaya777

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I've never stayed at a hotel and simply don't understand the need for one. A casa only costs $30 max a night and has no associated hassle. Furthermore, it benefits your casa owner directly and not the repressive government of Cuba.
alot of that money you paid the owner goes to government. same thing.
but I would also stay at a casa instead of a hotel.
 

ExoticSpirit

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alot of that money you paid the owner goes to government. same thing.
but I would also stay at a casa instead of a hotel.
This is true but apparently the casa owners still have to pay a license fee regardless if they have any renters or not. So I think it's nice to help them out so at least they are not in the hole - which would be really terrible in Cuba.
 

Hilfiger

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Whether you stay in a casa, hotel, or both, really depends on your personal preferences. It also depends on which airline you fly with. With Sunwing, you fly with a package, and the hotel, flight and transfers from Varadero still come out cheaper than flight only by Air Canada straight to Havana.
Personally, if I flew direct to Havana and decided not to stay in a hotel, I would choose a more upscale casa, or apartment.
 

ExoticSpirit

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Whether you stay in a casa, hotel, or both, really depends on your personal preferences. It also depends on which airline you fly with. With Sunwing, you fly with a package, and the hotel, flight and transfers from Varadero still come out cheaper than flight only by Air Canada straight to Havana.
Personally, if I flew direct to Havana and decided not to stay in a hotel, I would choose a more upscale casa, or apartment.
I did my trip to Havana on Aeroplan points -- but I heard that Aeroplan will no longer award flights to Cuba anymore.
 

rgkv

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I did my trip to Havana on Aeroplan points -- but I heard that Aeroplan will no longer award flights to Cuba anymore.
I'm hoping come early next year to take an all-inclusive to Havana, paid for using Air Miles...I did the same thing in the Dominican, then used the all-inclusive hotel as a home base, left my luggage there etc., then skipped off and stayed at Blackbeards a few day and Field of Dreams a couple, dropping into homebase between places for a free meal or two....
 

silee

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I'm kinda curious as you already have a hotel, why do you need a casa to get laid in Cuba?
 
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