Here's a brain teaser for everyone....I'm just wondering if I'm wrong on this.
A couple of years ago a friend decided to get married because we turned 35 (????). The odd part was thet he nevr had any troubles meeting women. He's tall, smart, blond, educated, good looking and a nice guy. Not too talkative or friendly, but a nice guy.
He had just broken up with a girl when he came up with this plan.
Now the problem begins.......
-meets a girl, but; she had a fiancee - so he was just being polite.
-she asks him out on a date
-she breaks up with her fiancee 3 weeks later (3months before the wedding)
-they end up dating for 8 months
-they get married *sigh*
-he gets hurt at work, then laid off for a year.
-they break up - she cites that she has intimacy issues
-he draws up divorce papers.
-they split up.
A year later
-she sees him at a gym
-she calls him, he's not home - he just started seeing a new girl
-new girl is nice - everything a man would want.
-he returns her call, he's not impolite.
-she cries, they go for coffee.
Today
-he shows up to dinner with her( the ex)
-everybody is shocked!
-she declares they're back together - no divorce
My thoughts now.....
I'm disappointed in my friend. We almost slapped him and most of the guys have a serious problem with his ex.
Just out of principle and for my own self respect, I would never do that (all of it, starting with dating a girl with a boyfriend or husband).
Why in Gods holy Earth would someone go back to a situation like this? Any comments?
A couple of years ago a friend decided to get married because we turned 35 (????). The odd part was thet he nevr had any troubles meeting women. He's tall, smart, blond, educated, good looking and a nice guy. Not too talkative or friendly, but a nice guy.
He had just broken up with a girl when he came up with this plan.
Now the problem begins.......
-meets a girl, but; she had a fiancee - so he was just being polite.
-she asks him out on a date
-she breaks up with her fiancee 3 weeks later (3months before the wedding)
-they end up dating for 8 months
-they get married *sigh*
-he gets hurt at work, then laid off for a year.
-they break up - she cites that she has intimacy issues
-he draws up divorce papers.
-they split up.
A year later
-she sees him at a gym
-she calls him, he's not home - he just started seeing a new girl
-new girl is nice - everything a man would want.
-he returns her call, he's not impolite.
-she cries, they go for coffee.
Today
-he shows up to dinner with her( the ex)
-everybody is shocked!
-she declares they're back together - no divorce
My thoughts now.....
I'm disappointed in my friend. We almost slapped him and most of the guys have a serious problem with his ex.
Just out of principle and for my own self respect, I would never do that (all of it, starting with dating a girl with a boyfriend or husband).
Why in Gods holy Earth would someone go back to a situation like this? Any comments?