money or possessions is the key to life’s happiness

[raven@mirage]

I believe lack of money is the root of all evil. Growing up I always had the things I needed and wanted, and never really thought of how it got there. Once I got older and I moved out on my own I realized how everyone out there needs money I would not be living in my apartment without being able to pay the rent every month.

I know money does not bring happiness, but it does make things a lot easier, I wonder how happy the homeless people on the street are when each and everyday they are asking for change or they are trying to sell off some stolen item, or try and sneak into a place to keep warm, or they are on the street corner trying to sell them self so they can eat or have some money for a cheap hotel, and every where you go you have to pay for it, even if you had a family gathering and you took photos to get those photos developed you need to pay for the prints or have the money to buy the equipment to have prints develop or the camera or video camera.

I’ts not the old days where we had land, and make everything by hand, and everything we had was from the land we were on now, everything has a cost. even to eat has a cost groceries do not pop up in your fridge out of thing air, and when you in a food bank someone has to donate the food to be there but they still have to buy it first to get them there.

 

[Jade4u]

Yup and the number of people that believe in one good deed deserves another is getting fewer and fewer each day. Now even to cut an elderly ladies grass in kindness is happening less often and everyone wants the almighty dollar in turn.

 

[raven@mirage]

I remember one time when I helped a pregnant lady with her christmas shopping, she had her son with her and she was buying a whole bunch of stuff, and she was also getting her hair and nails done, since I was finsihed getting my hair done I waited til she was finished cause I heared she was having a hard time carrying the stuff in the mall.

So I helped I was not expecting anything but by time I put her things in the cab she sneaks in a 5$ in my pocket. I did not see it, but when I got home and emptyed out my pockets I found it.

 

[Papi Chulo]

I disagree.. There are things which are more important.. good friends, strong family ties, values & culture


Money is the root of all evil

 

[Sexy Violet]

"Money can't buy happiness, but neither can poverty" ~author unknown

I can see both viewpoints. If I had to choose between monetary posessions and *true* riches (love, friendship, family, etc.), I would most certainly choose the latter. I would prefer to have both though... if you work hard at it, you can earn the right and ability have your cake and eat it too.

(aside: I never really understood that statement, anyway, why have cake if you can't eat it?!)

 

[blopar]

Happy Thanksgiving.

 

[Coach]

Money is not the root of all evil...the love of money is the root of all evil. It's when we put our desire for money above all else that trouble starts. Money is necessary for the basics in life, but for me there are many more important things.

 

[Sexy Violet]

Well said, Coach

 

[unshavencuban]

spoken like a woman
its all about the money-style over substance
us men a called shallow-thats a bunch of BS,women are more shallow than men

 

[papasmerf]

One thing I have noted in most people as they age and mature. They realize that all the time wasted on the pursuit of possesions and wealth would have been better spent on love and family.

You need food and shelter, beyond that you need people.

 

[drlove]

The idea really, is to get up every single day and go to work - even if you don't have to. If you do that, wealth will follow (or at least, it should). Money is the key that unlocks everything. It will give you security, financial freedom, independence etc., not to mention the fact that women tend to like you with more, as opposed to less.

Having a solid work ethic and being productive is key. Most people just want to work their 40 hours a week and go home. It's a recipe for disaster - don't do it. I refuse to take weekends off; all that wasted time! Let your friends go shopping by themselves, tell your buddy you can't go golfing today. You have better things to do, like making money.

While health, family and friends are part of the equation, you can have all those things and still be miserable. The truth is, it's a big world out there and if you're going to be miserable at all (hopefully you won't) but if given the choice, it's better to be a rich miserable SOB, than a poor miserable SOB.

Sorry if you don't agree, but I didn't make those rules.

 

[Mao's Brother]

I believe lack of money is the root of all evil. Growing up I always had the things I needed and wanted, and never really thought of how it got there. Once I got older and I moved out on my own I realized how everyone out there needs money I would not be living in my apartment without being able to pay the rent every month.

I know money does not bring happiness, but it does make things a lot easier, I wonder how happy the homeless people on the street are when each and everyday they are asking for change or they are trying to sell off some stolen item, or try and sneak into a place to keep warm, or they are on the street corner trying to sell them self so they can eat or have some money for a cheap hotel, and every where you go you have to pay for it, even if you had a family gathering and you took photos to get those photos developed you need to pay for the prints or have the money to buy the equipment to have prints develop or the camera or video camera.

I’ts not the old days where we had land, and make everything by hand, and everything we had was from the land we were on now, everything has a cost. even to eat has a cost groceries do not pop up in your fridge out of thing air, and when you in a food bank someone has to donate the food to be there but they still have to buy it first to get them there.

Lack of money is the root of all evil??? Really??

Not having money sucks, but the lack of love is the root of all evil, and the proof is in the fact that plenty of dirt poor people don't become evil.

You should figure out the difference before you sacrifice your heart for money.

Money only matters when you don't have it. It's really that simple.

 

[luv4lust]

the key to my happiness is in my heart

 

[Doctor Zoidburg]

Freedom and confidence.

I do not know if these are the 2 things that make a person happy, but they have brought ease of mind to me. Money and possesions can also translate into happiness when you are able to do and go where you want. If you have the confidence that you will have enough to sustain you in the future.
I have also enjoyed some recognition in my life, it is an amazing experience when you walk into a room and everyone is there because of you.

 

[TheNiteHwk]

I remember years ago being on medical benefits after I paid my room and board where I was living at the time I had less then $300. month spending money. I was very happy though. I had a beautiful GF. I was very involved in the recovery community. Did some volunteer work. Had a lot of friends and large social circle. Was in close contact with family a lot. Managed to do just enough P/T work for cash on the side to get my monthly bus pass, pay for ciggs, and the odd movie or meal out. I was very happy back then.

I also remember having a very good sales job. Making good money. Always had my pockets full. Money in the bank. Rented a car almost every week-end. Never with out anything. Always had lots of food in the house. Could go out any place anytime I wanted to. Long weekend trips to Montreal or The Falls. Money to hobby. Never had a GF then though. Not in touch with family very much. Not very many friends. Small social circle. Not very happy at all.

Having said… today I have a decent paying job. Although some days I’m not very happy at work and keep threatening to quit, I have not, yet. Money in the bank. Never hungry or thirsty. Have a decent place to live. Full fridge. (A brand new one that I just bought recently) All the comforts. No GF but a couple of special ladies in my life. Mutually loving relationships. No contact at all with family except when I pray. (A lot of my relatives including immediate family have pass on) Small social circle but close knit. Most days I’m not happy, elated or sad. I’m just here… going through the motions. I’m not really overjoyed with life, but not overly depressed either.

I rather be where I am today though then back on medical benefits even if I was very happy back then. I think I just got a lot of luck back then. What money I do have for one thing gives me security. My rent is paid 6 months in advance. I always have a couple bucks in my pocket. Gone are the days of payday Friday broke on Monday. Don’t have a huge social circle but a couple of good buddies that I’m close too. Having money also allows me to help others in need instead of having my hand out I can give some handouts. If I need new shoes or something I can just go buy them instead of having to go to clothing bank for freebies. No more collection type phone calls.

I think it’s more then just money cause I do believe that money can’t buy happiness or love and while I do have some money I don’t have a lot. Like I always say I’m not rich (money wise) but I’m not poor either. At this stage in my life though for a variety of reasons (maybe one of them simply being age) I have more confidence in myself and feel more secure then ever before. I know in my heart that if I choose I can do anything I put my mind to. I am not afraid of failure or rejection any more. I feel good about my life and myself. Like I say… I’m not elated or super happy all the time… but I do feel good most of the time. I think that’s a great place to be. I doubt if I could have that with out money… but money is not the end all be all of everything. There is more to it then that. A lot of it is I think past experiences and mind set.

 

[to-guy69]

Very few lucky ones are enlightened enough to know their true passion and have courage and financial means to pursue it.

Well said.

There is no true way to happiness......happiness IS the way.

 

[K Douglas]

I can honestly say that I'm happier when my bank balance is in the four digit range instead of three.
Money is not the key to happiness but certainly goes a long way to relieve financial stresses which is a major cause of unhappiness.