Meeting Chix On Vacation..Why Doesn't It Amount To Anything More Afterwards?

[TROOPS]

Whenever i vacation, i often end up being friends with everyone on my resort. Whether its making them laugh around the pool by me being my silly self or just by being a good listener and being courteous to those old and young. Always end up being on first name basis with those vacationers on resort, so i find it easy for girls to gain my trust and making them feel special.

Aside from fucking the local girls, i often end up having sexual encounters with other tourists. Always blown away by some of them and how attached they get to me when down in the tropics.

After an exchange of phone numbers, contact info, before heading back home, for some reason its seems as the reality sets in and we are never the same and we don't end up having to use the numbers and emails that we exchanged as often as i like to.

I wonder sometimes, although they had fun with me in...let say Cuba, are they ashamed of Troops when we get back to Canadian soil? I end up having a few email back and forth and that is the extent of it. I have never ended up hooking up with them again. The contacting becomes less and less and i just put it off as just vacation memories.

Even though there have been a few i've been mesmerized with and would have like to hook up again. but for some reason they are not the same person and the phone conversations and emails are now a different tone.


Would like to hear input from guys who have met women on vacation

and i'd like to hear from a womans perspective as well.

 

[TeasePlease]

1. Vacation is about letting go and relaxing. People let go of their inhibitions on vacation. You wouldn't see me smoking random shit or taking drinks from strangers here at home, but if I'm partying at some exotic palace in southeast Asia...


2. I suspect having an endless supply of rum and a constant buzz may alter behaviour.

 

[CapitalGuy]

You don't need this explained to you! Come on.

Vacation is often a fantasy. An escape from reality. What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas. Or wherever. When they creep out of your room the next morning and do the walk of shame back to their own wing of the resort, they are well aware that this was a holiday fling, and that they would never have fucked you on the first date if you both lived in Milton. Because they are respectable women "who don't do that kind of thing". Its not personal - you were used, just like you used them. Sure, you may have a friend who met his wife on vacation in the DR, but most of your friends met their wives at school or work etc; in the real world!!!

Don't go on holiday for sex. Go on holiday to see the world. Get your sex at home!!

 

[Petzel]

When you go on holiday you're taking a break from your life as you know it. You're looking for pleasure, adventure, different cultures, different cuisine etc. It's normal to be more friendly on vacation, espcially when you're traveling solo. You strike up a conversation and sometimes a connection will place. The difficulty occurs when the vacation is over and you head home, back to reality and your normal life with it's daily routines. You're not in the same circumstances as when you're on a break from the real world and your life.
You just have to learn to enjoy it for what it is.........a fleeting meeting of 2 ships passing in the night. Basically the same as what the other 2 poster said.

 

[TROOPS]

For me, i'm the same silly, crazy partyer on vacation and as well back home when i get the opportunity to party.

This is just odd to me. these women could be having the same kind of fun with Troops back home.

 

[babycakes70]

For me, i'm the same silly, crazy partyer on vacation and as well back home when i get the opportunity to party.

This is just odd to me. these women could be having the same kind of fun with Troops back home.

Yes, they could be having fun with you at home!
But.......
Vacation sex is Magical to a some woman. A hot young stud, the beach, the water, it is magic, your a God at the resort.
When you come back home reality sets in, bills, cars, Uncle Paul just coughed up a hair ball again, things aren't the same.
But..........
We will always have Cuba!:thumb:

 

[sp free]

It's pretty common for women to slut it up on vacation.

Nobody is there to judge them. Just their friends who are also slutting it up.

Or you could say...they act like men.

 

[Bubbles99]

Yes, they could be having fun with you at home!
But.......
Vacation sex is Magical to a some woman. A hot young stud, the beach, the water, it is magic, your a God at the resort.
When you come back home reality sets in, bills, cars, Uncle Paul just coughed up a hair ball again, things aren't the same.
But..........
We will always have Cuba!:thumb:

Yeah, and what goes on in Cuba stays in Cuba!

 

[danibbler]

Don't go on holiday for sex. Go on holiday to see the world.

I do both.

 

[Lou Siffer]

Sounds like you might be the kind of guy women like to fuck when taking a break from reality but they don't consider you to be good long term relationship or marriage material.
Maybe you're the male version of the slut that gets laid a lot but no one is taking home to Mom.

 

[Ms.FemmeFatale]

For me, i'm the same silly, crazy partyer on vacation and as well back home when i get the opportunity to party.

This is just odd to me. these women could be having the same kind of fun with Troops back home.

Most people are not like us hon.

We are the same no matter what. I get that.

Most are not. They are one person to family, one person to the boys in the locker room, one person to the boss at work, one person to their parents.

This is why people are so stressed out too.

I can have a vacation anywhere, because I can be me anywhere.