Masturbation Question

[VicG]

Hey everyone,
I'm 23, and ever since I started masturbating (about age 11), I've done it by thrusting against a pillow. Now, I've been trying to use my hand to get myself off, and it's just not the same, a lot of times I don't really feel any pleasure at all. I can bring myself to climax, but it takes much longer. I think it's just a matter of getting more practice at it.

I guess I should know this by now, but when jerking off with your hand, are you supposed to grip really hard, or just go up and down softly? Also, where exactly are your fingers supposed to be stroking, or is it your palm that goes up and down on the shaft of the penis?

I wish I had done this at a normal age. :-(

 

[Remo]

I think everyone is gonna be different. Looks like job for experimentation! Have fun. Try lubricant with your hand maybe that will work?

 

[fflowley]

Curious

How did you slip all those pillows past mom into the laundry?

 

[Berlin]

Re: Curious

...How did you slip all those pillows past mom into the laundry? ...

.......laundry, painful memories..........boy, oh boy...

 

[pool]

I'm just wondering why you don't just keep using the pillow, unless it's that you want to learn so that you are able to come when someone else gives you a HJ ...

Like Remo said, experimentation is the key. Every guy is somewhat different. Try telling that to some MPA's. They seem to think that either, neither of our heads respond to stimulation or that they can handle any amount of teasing and pressure ...

 

[VicG]

Hey Pool,
That's mainly it, either through an SP or recently my girlfriend, I haven't really felt much with handjobs, so I think it's a learning process.

And my mom, bless her heart, always though I just drooled a lot in my sleep...

 

[Berlin]

...And my mom, bless her heart, always though I just drooled a lot in my sleep...

That's what I thought too, but , nnoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo....
mothers, they know a lot, a whole lot .

 

[ToronToto]

Plus the pillow shams must have been awfully crusty.

Maybe you can try a slab of beef brisket, but re-use factor would be missing, unless u could put up with equivalent of really smelly pussy.

 

[pool]

in other words don't wack off too much and too hard as we know our body's better than anyone else and are our own, best and most passionate lovers ... real sex will not live up to it ...

I would think that real sex after having sex with a pillow all those years would feel mighty fine ...

Not meaning to trivialise the pillow ...

 

[zog]

Giving it to the beef...

Maybe you can try a slab of beef brisket...

Ummmm. Tasty!

Zog.




...not.

 

[submissivedave]

Well, I have always prefered the blanket over the pillow.

What I do is I fold up the blanket and make a "canal" to slide my dick up and down. The feeling is kind of like tittie fucking. Its not bad at all.

Not only do you have something to grab on to, but you also actually get the feeling of actually fucking someone because the blanket is so big ...

It sure beats anything with your own hand. The only draw back is cleaning it .... its nasty ... dried up cum all over the blanket. Sometimes, it flakes off and you have dried cum flakes all over your bed ...

sd

 

[ToronToto]

VG and SD,

Maybe you guys should try: Fleshlights

 

[ToronToto]

Re: Giving it to the beef...

zog >> Ummmm. Tasty! ... not.

You're not supposed to eat it Zog! Just use it as an equivalent to pillow, and cut a slit in the appropriate location...much more texture and realistic. btw, beef brisket is about $4.00 + / lb, so for a good slab, that's 15+, and you have to re-use within 48 hours, unless....

 

[zog]

ISO: BBE (Beef Brisket Experience)

...you have to re-use within 48 hours....

Cool! The brisket offers MSOG!

Zog.

 

[badboy]

Hey everyone,
I'm 23, and ever since I started masturbating (about age 11), I've done it by thrusting against a pillow. Now, I've been trying to use my hand to get myself off, and it's just not the same, a lot of times I don't really feel any pleasure at all. I can bring myself to climax, but it takes much longer. I think it's just a matter of getting more practice at it.

Best thing to do is go a month without any sex whatsoever, don't even touch yourself there. After that, your hand will work just fine...

 

[homonger]

As someone who also has spanked it way too many times to even begin to count, I would agree with several of the points already made.

You've got to experiment and figure out what feels best for you. I have found that up and down pressure to my shaft with my palm feels best, but I have been doing this for over 25 years!

I also agree that too much whacking off can spoil you for actual sex. I have found that it is very easy to grow accustomed to getting off the way you know how to best, and it never quite feels the same exact way when you are with a woman. The only solution I have ever found to this is to abstain from beating it for a few days if I know I am going to be having sex.

Finally, after you come all over your pillow, what do you put under your head when you sleep? Do you just turn the pillow over?

 

[pool]

homonger : Do you just turn the pillow over?

It must feel so used. I would think he'd be a little more sensitive.

 

[zog]

Wana buy some?

Hey Troops, I think I'll try your idea.

Do you have any naked pictures of your mother....?

Zog.