LadyTY2Uall said:
I know a few men who are habitual masturbators,,,to the extent that they cannot get off any other way. Be careful not to overdo the masturbating boys, too much of a good thing can spoil you for so many other delightful sensations
I think sometimes its not masturbation that causes the problem but in my case my penis isn't terrible sensitive (and I never have masturbated that much maybe a few times a week)
All my life, and more as I get older it is harder to come via sex and I've never cum from oral sex. I can wear out the hand of most body rub gals - not by my choice I would love to cum more easily. On the other hand I can enjoy it longer and with women who need a long time it can be a big advantage. There is only one position I have come in via intercourse for many years and that is a very tight position with lots of body stimulation.
I don't equate this to over masturbation just less sensitivity where I need it to enjoy cumming in other ways.
I recall a Toronto escort a few years ago, who appreciated me telling her "orgasm" isn't the goal and how I enjoy more intimate full body sexuality and intimacy without the "goal" which is unlikely to happen.
She admitted she rarely ever had an orgasm but felt she had to fake it with clients. With her relaxing and us having a very wonderful sensual time, she climbed on and after quite a while was really really getting into it. From her body I could tell she wasn't faking anything. Then that fateful call from the driver that the time was up. DAMM! she said as the phone rung. She said that was the closest to an orgasim she had had in many years. It was the no pressure to perform that allowed her to just go with the flow and with the relaxation came unexpected great time and almost...her orgasm.
Women who have a hard time orgasming is not uncommon. I have even used Sybian on the Phoenix couples group I let with a couple women who had NEVER had an orgasm. And it certainly wasn't a mental block - they were in swing club and very open sexually. Sadly not even Sybian with external vibrator could result in their orgasm, although they said the feeling was great, just couldn't get to the peak the mountain and climax.