To be clear anybody that sees this and thinks this is the appropriate way to act when seeing a woman is literally why we ask for this. Anyone who will not provide this information or who is going to great lengths to hide their identity likely has a reputation for... how should I say... being a d@*$#. They've been blacklisted. For any number of reasons and without the ability to determine who you are, we sometimes have to discard potential clients. The behavior of these people that want to remain so anonymous they go to every length to be untraceable, its appalling. They say and do the most disgusting things and legitimate hobbyists have to suffer.
These anonymous guys will stalk, harass, change their number, make fake bookings, ask for bbfs, its just relentless and the rest of you have to pay for it. They say some of the most repulsive things and when a woman even tries to say "thats not ok" they go off on a tirade of verbal abuse. One bad apple spoils the bunch. If you think that we get paid to be treated like garbage you don't have any business hiring a woman.
That being said, I understand that people like their privacy. I get it. I do. But if someone can't understand how a woman would want to protect herself, its really a no brainer and its not really a loss to not have that kind of person as a client. Is it worth the small amount of money to be put in a dangerous situation with someone who want to provide nothing to make you feel safe? Its not.
This job can be fun. It can be interesting, entertaining. What it isn't though is an excuse for people to think they can have access to our bodies and put us in any situation they feel like because they're paying. Are you someone who just really needs to be careful? Or are you a rapist and we all know about you and that why you hide your identity? Or you're so awful we had to let each other know about you and now you cant make a booking with your identitiy? Do we even care to try and figure that out? No. Its not worth it.