marriage ever cross your mind with some of these girls?
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And this quote, my friends, convinces me more than ever that most men really DO use their smaller "head" in too many instances.poorboy said:
True, unless you have it simply cross your mind and then immediately dismiss it as irrational. Having it cross my mind (which I've done with one dancer) is just an extension of the fantasy. Going beyond that (which I'd never do) is getting into dangerous territory.katetoronto said:
For me, planning to meet a dancer outside club walls is like crossing the foul line in Field of Dreams for Doc Graham...
Poorboy,
I think you need to rethink things a bit. If memory serves me correctly a while ago you started a thread being upset with the poor results you were getting with internet dating.
Shouldn't you be thinking about having a date before marriage?
Maybe you should be looking for dates outside the biz.
There are two schools of thought regarding relationships with SPs and MPAs and they are 1) slim to 2) none. Regardless of who's right your odds are not good.
The hobby should be viewed as fantasy first. Anything else is just an unlikely surprise.
I think you need to rethink things a bit. If memory serves me correctly a while ago you started a thread being upset with the poor results you were getting with internet dating.
Shouldn't you be thinking about having a date before marriage?
Maybe you should be looking for dates outside the biz.
There are two schools of thought regarding relationships with SPs and MPAs and they are 1) slim to 2) none. Regardless of who's right your odds are not good.
The hobby should be viewed as fantasy first. Anything else is just an unlikely surprise.
Divorce
What would really suck is if she married you just to divorce you. Given the propensity for greed shown by SPs, I wouldn't put this scheme past them.
Then you'll be stuck paying alimony and/or child support for the rest of your life. If you can't pay, then then the government garnishes your wages.
Meanwhile, she's free to do who-knows-what with your money.
Of course, this scheme only works if you're very wealthy to begin with. She won't even date you outside of the biz if you're an average Joe.
I was tempted to say "would an SP be really the kind of girl you want to introduce to Mom" but I realize that'd be stupidly hypocritical and judgmental.
What would really suck is if she married you just to divorce you. Given the propensity for greed shown by SPs, I wouldn't put this scheme past them.
Then you'll be stuck paying alimony and/or child support for the rest of your life. If you can't pay, then then the government garnishes your wages.
Meanwhile, she's free to do who-knows-what with your money.
Of course, this scheme only works if you're very wealthy to begin with. She won't even date you outside of the biz if you're an average Joe.
I was tempted to say "would an SP be really the kind of girl you want to introduce to Mom" but I realize that'd be stupidly hypocritical and judgmental.
You MUST be kidding.baltimoron said:
What sort of woman would be driven enough by greed to spend hours, weeks, months, years doing this to/with a guy? No amount of $$ could get me to do it.
Somehow I get the sense that the proposal is stricltly coming from PBs side.
If he were rich that whole marriage and divorce thing is a concern but that should be a concern no matter who he marries (if its done in such a quick time frame).
If he were rich that whole marriage and divorce thing is a concern but that should be a concern no matter who he marries (if its done in such a quick time frame).
Whoa, now thats blowing things way out of proportion.
He never said he's actually gonna marry her (At least I hope not).
I myself have had a similar thought cross my mind once or twice.
At about the second time I went in to have a session with a certain MPA, I thought.
'Whoa. This one seems different. This one feels special. A real woman. And maybe in another lifetime, or under COMPLETELY different circumstances she would be someone I would have no (or very little) reservations about proposing.'
Genuine marriage material.
He never said he's actually gonna marry her (At least I hope not).
I myself have had a similar thought cross my mind once or twice.
At about the second time I went in to have a session with a certain MPA, I thought.
'Whoa. This one seems different. This one feels special. A real woman. And maybe in another lifetime, or under COMPLETELY different circumstances she would be someone I would have no (or very little) reservations about proposing.'
Genuine marriage material.
Women marrying for money? Aw, say it ain't so.katetoronto said:You MUST be kidding.
What sort of woman would be driven enough by greed to spend hours, weeks, months, years doing this to/with a guy? No amount of $$ could get me to do it.
Sadly, I've seen it with my own eyes, more than once, and not only that, I've heard strippers brag about it. Usually the plan is to find some guy who is tolerable, since no-one is going to be able to fake it well enough with someone they can't stand.
It's even more common to scam a guy for citizenship: Foreign SP's looking for citizenship sometimes fool a guy into thinking they are in love so they can get married, get their papers, get divorced, and make him pay support. I have seen this too.
Why is that? I'd have understood your comment if he said "wow, this girl is a keeper cause she's really hot and has big jugs" but he implied he saw something in her personality that attracted him, that he felt chemistry happening. How is this different from being attracted to any woman, regardless of her job?
That actually leads me to another thing I've been wondering about. Speaking for yourselves, would you ladies ever consider a real relationship with a former client, or are the 'client' and 'potential boyfriend' pools totally separate?
Wow, lots of cynicism here. And well founded too, I might add. Not that I have really tried, but I have to believe most hobbyist/sp relationships are doomed to fail.
But back to the original question, sure, who hasn't? There are a lot of very nice attractive women in this industry, and it is only natural to wonder what if...
But then you pull your penis out, pay her, and go to sleep.
But back to the original question, sure, who hasn't? There are a lot of very nice attractive women in this industry, and it is only natural to wonder what if...
But then you pull your penis out, pay her, and go to sleep.
Of course we seem like the perfect match for you -- that's our job, isn't it?
(I'm currently watching an episode of Star Trek NG re: a metamorph bred to accomodate her intended for diplomatic purposes.)
But seriously, when we're with you, it's not about us, except in the most primative sense. The best among us are able to put all aside except our most primal physical responses, and adapt all else to whomever we're with in the moment. And it's fun, for sure! ;-)
But if you get involved with an SP, you might find that who she is as a person is different from who she is as your SP. When she comes to you, she dresses to please you, converses on subjects you want to talk about, enjoys the same entertainment/recreation you do, and enjoys the same sexual stimuli you do.
That's not necessarily who she is, even is she's very good at being that for the time you're with her.
..c..
(I'm currently watching an episode of Star Trek NG re: a metamorph bred to accomodate her intended for diplomatic purposes.)
But seriously, when we're with you, it's not about us, except in the most primative sense. The best among us are able to put all aside except our most primal physical responses, and adapt all else to whomever we're with in the moment. And it's fun, for sure! ;-)
But if you get involved with an SP, you might find that who she is as a person is different from who she is as your SP. When she comes to you, she dresses to please you, converses on subjects you want to talk about, enjoys the same entertainment/recreation you do, and enjoys the same sexual stimuli you do.
That's not necessarily who she is, even is she's very good at being that for the time you're with her.
..c..
