Male escorting
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Dave in Phoenix
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I get lost of E-mails asking about how to be a male sexworker.
This is my response:
I understand some male sex worker site has a link to sexwork.com. But sorry, unless your looking for gay male clients, I can't imagine there is much demand for male escorts compared to the zillions of nice men wanting to "help" women. I have no idea what to suggest...other than a sex change? A women can walk into any bar any night and find willing men, a man has a very hard time often finding an open minded women who he is attracted to.
Of course if your gay looking for gay clients you might have better luck. A male escort for men site you might find helpful is http://www.hookonline.org But I have absolutely no clue on how to get started, nor any interest in gay sexwork, although I totally support equality for gays etc.
Some folks may make money on the "How to be a male escort" fantasy of so many men. But unless someone is very well connected like with movie stars and very attractive, I have no idea how a non-gay man could expect to be successful where the supply of willing men is so large compared to the small demand.
This is my response:
I understand some male sex worker site has a link to sexwork.com. But sorry, unless your looking for gay male clients, I can't imagine there is much demand for male escorts compared to the zillions of nice men wanting to "help" women. I have no idea what to suggest...other than a sex change? A women can walk into any bar any night and find willing men, a man has a very hard time often finding an open minded women who he is attracted to.
Of course if your gay looking for gay clients you might have better luck. A male escort for men site you might find helpful is http://www.hookonline.org But I have absolutely no clue on how to get started, nor any interest in gay sexwork, although I totally support equality for gays etc.
Some folks may make money on the "How to be a male escort" fantasy of so many men. But unless someone is very well connected like with movie stars and very attractive, I have no idea how a non-gay man could expect to be successful where the supply of willing men is so large compared to the small demand.
OK, I can't leave this one alone. If there's a plus to being gay, it is that your goal is as ruled by the little head as you. The down side is the whole part about sucking cock and getting drilled, but I guess if you can get past that it's OK. I can't imagine why a gay man would need an escort for sex. Anyone with any exposure to the gay community knows unless you are a completely grotesque freak, you can pretty much get laid at will 24/7. Of course there's the whole "sex with another man" thing, and I'm not up for it, but if you want free, easy sex, gay is apparently the way. If you want to be paid for sex, there's always "gender reassignment".
Well I have a fetish for women's feet, does that help?
I would love to suck on women's toes, give foot massages, pedicures and shit ... it would be my dream job if I got paid for it.
BTW, anyone here want to hire a women's shoes salesmen? I don't mind being Al Bundy ... but then, I would have a hard on at work and it would be unprofessional.
After all, I am sure many women would want there feet pampered after wearing those heels all day long ...
sd
I would love to suck on women's toes, give foot massages, pedicures and shit ... it would be my dream job if I got paid for it.
BTW, anyone here want to hire a women's shoes salesmen? I don't mind being Al Bundy ... but then, I would have a hard on at work and it would be unprofessional.
After all, I am sure many women would want there feet pampered after wearing those heels all day long ...
sd
Dave: Can you live on minimum wage? Is that a compromise you can make for a fetish? wanna live @ seton house? There's a reason Al was suicidal. Open a ladies spa instead.
There is a fairly decent demand for gay men in the biz. Believe it or not, but many bi-men see both genders (male & female escorts). I've sat, slack-jawed over some of the stories I've heard over the years. The kicker is when you have a female sp on one side of you relating a client story, only to have a male sp on the other side go: "you know him too? Oh my god!"
The only time a male escort will be dealing with the opposite sex is when they are specifically booked for a bachelorette party. Unfortunate, but true. The pay? About $60/hr. You're better off offering your services as a driver. That pays about $100 to $250+ per shift (cash).
The only time a male escort will be dealing with the opposite sex is when they are specifically booked for a bachelorette party. Unfortunate, but true. The pay? About $60/hr. You're better off offering your services as a driver. That pays about $100 to $250+ per shift (cash).
bigdik said:
I don't know. A fetish is a passion and passion comes from the heart. Sometimes following the heart is the right thing to do.
Honestly I'd choose to fulfill a fantasy then to pursue economic/financial prosperity ...
sd
True that Stiff Cock, it seems like we can't get anything done with flow these days.
I mean even when women wanna get married they check out what resources you got first. I have asked many of my female friends and they'd choose bread over love.
Yeah ... I guess you are right !!!
Ah ... what a good motivation to work hard and make more money, Stiff !!!
My fantasy is :
Driving a 911 GT2, M5, M3
Living in a Tridel penthouse facing the lake
Fucking a beautiful sexy wife with nice legs and feet !
So then I guess Mr. Bill Gates has to be my hero. After all, he does count his trillions in the morning while fucking his model wife at night ... not to mention the power and influence he has on the economy ...
Anyway ... back to the original topic: "Male Escorting" ...
sd
I mean even when women wanna get married they check out what resources you got first. I have asked many of my female friends and they'd choose bread over love.
Yeah ... I guess you are right !!!
Ah ... what a good motivation to work hard and make more money, Stiff !!!
My fantasy is :
Driving a 911 GT2, M5, M3
Living in a Tridel penthouse facing the lake
Fucking a beautiful sexy wife with nice legs and feet !
So then I guess Mr. Bill Gates has to be my hero. After all, he does count his trillions in the morning while fucking his model wife at night ... not to mention the power and influence he has on the economy ...
Anyway ... back to the original topic: "Male Escorting" ...
sd
Ice dog,
I know by criticizing me you are in fact, teaching me something so I thank you for that.
Ever since ... maybe grade 12, I did wonder if I had problems "up stairs" like you have mentioned. Up until now ... I am unsure if I do or not. But I guess everyone is different. Everything is about personal preference.
As for finding a good girlfriend ... (sigh) ... I try but good women are hard to come by these days man !!! Most of the girls that I know are so superficial to tell you the truth. And thats one of the reason why I dig intellectual girls ... esp. those that studied something like psych. or philosophy at school. Because only those girls know "the truth" and shit ...
I try to live a "normal life" and that is why I have been debating with myself if "hobbying" is ethical or not. After all, its a kind of enslavement of women and objectifying them. Nonetheless, it seems like recently I have been posting here in "the lounge" more then in the other sections, which, of course shows that my "ethical" side has gotten the better of my "horny" side.
Honestly Mr. Ice Dog, you sound like a vetern of life and if you have any words of wisdom I would love to read them. Please feel free to PM me. And I do sincerely mean it .....
After all, from what you write, I know you are an intelligent person with some good advice that some young guy like me can use.
Though we may not agree on many things, I do nonetheless, have respect for you brother ...
David
I know by criticizing me you are in fact, teaching me something so I thank you for that.
Ever since ... maybe grade 12, I did wonder if I had problems "up stairs" like you have mentioned. Up until now ... I am unsure if I do or not. But I guess everyone is different. Everything is about personal preference.
As for finding a good girlfriend ... (sigh) ... I try but good women are hard to come by these days man !!! Most of the girls that I know are so superficial to tell you the truth. And thats one of the reason why I dig intellectual girls ... esp. those that studied something like psych. or philosophy at school. Because only those girls know "the truth" and shit ...
I try to live a "normal life" and that is why I have been debating with myself if "hobbying" is ethical or not. After all, its a kind of enslavement of women and objectifying them. Nonetheless, it seems like recently I have been posting here in "the lounge" more then in the other sections, which, of course shows that my "ethical" side has gotten the better of my "horny" side.
Honestly Mr. Ice Dog, you sound like a vetern of life and if you have any words of wisdom I would love to read them. Please feel free to PM me. And I do sincerely mean it .....
After all, from what you write, I know you are an intelligent person with some good advice that some young guy like me can use.
Though we may not agree on many things, I do nonetheless, have respect for you brother ...
David
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Now this last post of yours makes lots of sense. One of the keys to success in life is discipline, which I don't even have. Abstaining from seeing escorts/MPAs may be not practical. the important thing is moderation. Never become addicted to it.
Now you are going to ask me where do I draw the line, ? Is it once a week, three time a week or what ? Well, I don't know. It all depends on your priority When I looked back the last 20 years, the money and time I have spent in this hobby/addiction, sometimes I like to kick myself in the ass. As I said, you are still young,but you don't want to be in my situation 20 years from now.
Maybe the first thing to do is cut down the time you spend on this board. Actually this is what I am trying to do myself.
What you need is a substitute, a new hobby, a new girlfriend, a new goal, a new priority which will steer you in a positive direction. Well, easier said than done., I guess.
ice_dog
p.s. Check your PM
Now you are going to ask me where do I draw the line, ? Is it once a week, three time a week or what ? Well, I don't know. It all depends on your priority When I looked back the last 20 years, the money and time I have spent in this hobby/addiction, sometimes I like to kick myself in the ass. As I said, you are still young,but you don't want to be in my situation 20 years from now.
Maybe the first thing to do is cut down the time you spend on this board. Actually this is what I am trying to do myself.
What you need is a substitute, a new hobby, a new girlfriend, a new goal, a new priority which will steer you in a positive direction. Well, easier said than done., I guess.
ice_dog
p.s. Check your PM
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male escorts
Hi everyone,
There is a non sexual male escort agency located in the UK. Maybe some guys here can contact them and see if they can become escorts in Canada for the UK ladies who travel to Montreal.
Here is the link:
http://www.siguk.co.uk/bbc1.htm
Good luck!
Dahlia (Montreal)
xoxo
Hi everyone,
There is a non sexual male escort agency located in the UK. Maybe some guys here can contact them and see if they can become escorts in Canada for the UK ladies who travel to Montreal.
Here is the link:
http://www.siguk.co.uk/bbc1.htm
Good luck!
Dahlia (Montreal)
xoxo
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the male escort i work with is exceptionally hung, personable and fit.
he is independent.
he is hired to see MF couples all the time. many men want to see their partner being fucked in front of them. that where he comes in.
he makes 150 an hour, sometimes 200.
lots of repeat business as well.
but he is an exception. most guys on CL I just can't take seriously.
the male escort i work with is exceptionally hung, personable and fit.
he is independent.
he is hired to see MF couples all the time. many men want to see their partner being fucked in front of them. that where he comes in.
he makes 150 an hour, sometimes 200.
lots of repeat business as well.
but he is an exception. most guys on CL I just can't take seriously.
C
Cute In A Kilt
bigdik said:
Ahhhhhh there are tops and then there are bottoms, if you sell yourself as a top I hardly see them "getting drilled and sucking cocks". I think for the men who do pay it's kinda a fetish thing.... otherwise they could just go to the bathhouse many a horny free gay men then LOL
As for paying a straight man to have sex with..... well all I have to say is this:
- they better be hung
- they better be a good fuck
- they better be hot
- they better classy
- they better be well educated
- they better be charming
As for submissive men BEING PAID to service, that is just unbelievable to me.... sub males are literally a penny a dozen, so many subbies out there I wouldn't respect myself as a Dom to pay for it.... if I want a foot slave I'd just go to a fetish night and find one!
Otherwise, ugly or not... a chick offers free sex, she'd be hard pressed to not find it! Even the ugly chicks can charge for sex, I doubt a ugly "small" dude would get paid.
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Cute In A Kilt
BustaNuts said:If you want to make money do private stripper shows trust me you will be having sex with these girls
Now stripper, I'd buy one or a few for a friend's b-day LOL
