Madonna Whore Complex ?

[steelcitysid]

I was speaking to a girl who said she struggles to date men cause they have a madonna whore complex. She believes that a lot of men compartmentalize love and lust and will see women as either the saint or the prostitute. And this is probably the reason why alot of men here are seeing SPs or have a sugar baby etc.
This got me thinking, are some wives actually neglecting their husbands or is the latter just not attracted to them because they are the mother of their kids and view them as being too respectable to be intimate with ?

 

[xmontrealer]

Or maybe a lot of men are just bored with their wife sexually, and want a bit of "strange" now and again. Even if their wife is still into sex after having kids.

 

[xix]

Or maybe a lot of men are just bored with their wife sexually, and want a bit of "strange" now and again. Even if their wife is still into sex after having kids.

A lot of men?
Maybe a few men are like this because they have some mental issue. But if it is a lot of men then there is a BIG issue with men in society today.

I was speaking to a girl who said she struggles to date men cause they have a madonna whore complex. She believes that a lot of men compartmentalize love and lust and will see women as either the saint or the prostitute. And this is probably the reason why alot of men here are seeing SPs or have a sugar baby etc.

This got me thinking, are some wives actually neglecting their husbands or is the latter just not attracted to them because they are the mother of their kids and view them as being too respectable to be intimate with ?

Yes there are some wives neglecting their husbands for many reason. I can give a few list but it might cause a sting in here. These are my examples from the ones I have met.
Your second part of the comment is also correct in a way. What do you mean "being too respectable to be intimate with ?"

 

[curr3n_c1000]

Respectfully speaking, I think she needs to see a doctor or psychiatrist.

 

[John Wick]

This got me thinking, are some wives actually neglecting their husbands or is the latter just not attracted to them because they are the mother of their kids and view them as being too respectable to be intimate with ?

I did experience something similar in my hobby travels...met a gorgeous SP, started seeing her very regularly for long sessions, GFE transitioned to more PSE type activities, and BANG! I hit a wall....just could not bring myself to cum in her mouth or on her face...no matter what we tried, at the moment of truth I just couldn't and would shoot on her tits or anywhere else. She would tell me she wanted it on her face/in her mouth, loved finishing that way, would even kneel and beg for it over and over while I was building to climax, and STILL I couldn't get there. Was weird. She was DDG and I really had strong feelings for her personally, she was an amazing fuck in all other ways, but I somehow just got into my head that giving her a massive facial or filling her mouth would be disrespectful to her given the way I felt about her. No issues finishing that way with other SPs ever, just her. Never did figure it out....

 

[Valcazar]

I think there is still a lot of madonna/whore issues going around, but probably less than there used to be.

 

[Greytop19]

I did experience something similar in my hobby travels...met a gorgeous SP, started seeing her very regularly for long sessions, GFE transitioned to more PSE type activities, and BANG! I hit a wall....just could not bring myself to cum in her mouth or on her face...no matter what we tried, at the moment of truth I just couldn't and would shoot on her tits or anywhere else. She would tell me she wanted it on her face/in her mouth, loved finishing that way, would even kneel and beg for it over and over while I was building to climax, and STILL I couldn't get there. Was weird. She was DDG and I really had strong feelings for her personally, she was an amazing fuck in all other ways, but I somehow just got into my head that giving her a massive facial or filling her mouth would be disrespectful to her given the way I felt about her. No issues finishing that way with other SPs ever, just her. Never did figure it out....

Just true love

 

[John Wick]

Just true love

Shhhhh. She might hear you...

 

[steelcitysid]

Or maybe a lot of men are just bored with their wife sexually, and want a bit of "strange" now and again. Even if their wife is still into sex after having kids.

I think alot of men are in that boat. Even if the woman was into that “weird” you are talking about they wouldnt be turned on by her cause they see her in a completely different light. They cant intertwine the two

also I did notice alot of the guys wives seem to resemble their own mothers—in appearance and behaviour. So maybe freud was truly onto something(not a fan of his though)

 

[steelcitysid]

I did experience something similar in my hobby travels...met a gorgeous SP, started seeing her very regularly for long sessions, GFE transitioned to more PSE type activities, and BANG! I hit a wall....just could not bring myself to cum in her mouth or on her face...no matter what we tried, at the moment of truth I just couldn't and would shoot on her tits or anywhere else. She would tell me she wanted it on her face/in her mouth, loved finishing that way, would even kneel and beg for it over and over while I was building to climax, and STILL I couldn't get there. Was weird. She was DDG and I really had strong feelings for her personally, she was an amazing fuck in all other ways, but I somehow just got into my head that giving her a massive facial or filling her mouth would be disrespectful to her given the way I felt about her. No issues finishing that way with other SPs ever, just her. Never did figure it out....

About ten years ago, I remember a dancer once telling me when she would have deep conversations with customers they would be less inclined to go for dances.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

I did experience something similar in my hobby travels...met a gorgeous SP, started seeing her very regularly for long sessions, GFE transitioned to more PSE type activities, and BANG! I hit a wall....just could not bring myself to cum in her mouth or on her face...no matter what we tried, at the moment of truth I just couldn't and would shoot on her tits or anywhere else. She would tell me she wanted it on her face/in her mouth, loved finishing that way, would even kneel and beg for it over and over while I was building to climax, and STILL I couldn't get there. Was weird. She was DDG and I really had strong feelings for her personally, she was an amazing fuck in all other ways, but I somehow just got into my head that giving her a massive facial or filling her mouth would be disrespectful to her given the way I felt about her. No issues finishing that way with other SPs ever, just her. Never did figure it out....

"Never did figure it out...."
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[RichardG2020]

About ten years ago, I remember a dancer once telling me when she would have deep conversations with customers they would be less inclined to go for dances.

Perhaps afterwards the patrons would see them as people, instead of objects of lust.

 

[y2kmark]

Nuts!! From the thread title I thought maybe a new entertainment venue...

 

[Ponderling]

I have had fun experiences with peelers pushing my buttons 'riding' both sides of this proverbial issue.

 

[Erosboy]

Intelligent women are hot. They turn me on and I cum i their mouths if they let me.

Techinically, the complex relates to a man's unwillingness to stay faithful in a long term commited relationship and has nothing to do with a woman's intelligence or the nature of the conversations they have with us. Married, unmarried, smart, or dumb, what do I care if they want to fuck me?

 

[redshank]

Seems like an appropriate time

 

[styxband]

I think alot of men are in that boat. Even if the woman was into that “weird” you are talking about they wouldnt be turned on by her cause they see her in a completely different light. They cant intertwine the two

also I did notice alot of the guys wives seem to resemble their own mothers—in appearance and behaviour. So maybe freud was truly onto something(not a fan of his though)

Another theory is that people are attracted to others who look like them, since they look at themselves in the mirror pretty often. Familiarity. Not dead on, but you can have two people who look similar but they're from different ethnic backgrounds.

 

[Valcazar]

I think people are conflating the "this person is a stranger and that means I can just be into the fantasy" and the "madonna/whore" complex.

Talking to someone and therefore seeing them as more of a full person you can't just have the fantasy with is different from having a huge separation along the lines of Freud's classic "Where such men love they have no desire and where they desire they cannot love".

 

[y2kmark]

I think people are conflating the "this person is a stranger and that means I can just be into the fantasy" and the "madonna/whore" complex.

I also had a dream once that Madonna was licking my toes, must be a thing about toes...

 

[xix]

I was speaking to a girl who said she struggles to date men cause they have a madonna whore complex. She believes that a lot of men compartmentalize love and lust and will see women as either the saint or the prostitute. And this is probably the reason why alot of men here are seeing SPs or have a sugar baby etc.
This got me thinking, are some wives actually neglecting their husbands or is the latter just not attracted to them because they are the mother of their kids and view them as being too respectable to be intimate with ?

I think this video answers the question.

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